The post-90s couple is experiencing the ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties of life and becoming the "little strong" who cannot die. In this era, it is not easy for most ordinary families to earn money, especially the post-90s group who have just formed a family, and various tests of life have followed.
As a newly married post-90s. In fact, most people are not young. Inside the home is definitely a rush to blossom and bear fruit. The task of having a baby ensued. Women who are not in the system are often greatly reduced in the importance of the unit after pregnancy, and may not be able to work for a long time after giving birth to a child, and some people will leave after comprehensive consideration, and the burden of taking care of the child is placed on the woman, and the burden of earning money is placed on the man. For ordinary families, if the parents of both sides can help some of them, if they can't help, such a day is also a kind of "hardship". Women in the accumulated process of raising children also have the risk of postpartum depression, which is also a pathology that is easy for post-90s generations who go south and north.
Secondly, many of the expenses in raising children and daily life, men's work pressure will gradually increase. Often after a job can not be satisfied, they will find a way to do part-time work to supplement. If this situation continues for a long time, the stress and exhaustion of men can be imagined.
Watching children is a tiring job, but also a delicate job, as a parent after the nineties, there are still many things to learn. At each stage, the child's changes and diet have become the focus of the child's education.
At the same time, in the process of childcare, different concepts and behaviors are often an important factor in the accumulation and outbreak of contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a man, if it is not handled properly, it is often only sandwiched in the middle to get angry. It is conceivable that life and work can be smooth.
Although the older generation has experienced this way, it seems that not so many things have happened in their time. With the change of the times, the liberation of people's minds, the gradual intensification of the social competition environment and many other factors, has changed the original mode of life, can no longer use the inherent thinking to look at the current situation of today's needs after the 90s.
Married life wants to get on track. As a man, at least there must be a house, the wife and children can have a shelter from the wind and rain; there must be a car, children, adults have a headache and brain fever can rush to the hospital in time; to have a certain amount of savings, tight clothing and food will definitely produce many family conflicts, in the face of difficult problems sometimes can only be solved with money; to have a stable job, in order to support daily expenses, or in addition to work and then do a part-time job, to supplement their income; to have a heart like an arrow, after work or busy work to go home as soon as possible, Whether it is a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law or your mother who has watched the child for a day, you must definitely need to rest or pay attention, this time to be brave and responsible, to bear the responsibility of watching the child or cooking or washing clothes, etc., to comfort her, give them a time to adjust their mood, even if it is serious to play the mobile phone effect is good. Otherwise, if an adult is sick due to overwork and other factors, there is a place for you to worry about and spend.
As a person who is experiencing, I think it is really not easy to achieve these things, but as an adult, this heavy responsibility is what you must shoulder, and at the same time, after this stage, slowly the children are older, the wife is working, your pressure will gradually decrease, and life will return to the right track.