In the eyes of many post-80s parents, if their children go to vocational school, this number is basically abolished. Therefore, we will not hesitate to increase investment, use relationships, and let children go to general heights.
As everyone knows: every child has an innate talent, some children can walk the Yangguan Road, and some children are suitable for the single wooden bridge. Blindly arranging children is counterproductive.
In fact, calm down, look for some data for comparison, it is not difficult to find that most of the family's children are ordinary people, you can not be too high hope that he tested how high, how good to learn, as long as you can live healthily, through their own efforts in exchange for happiness and happiness is the most precious wealth of people's life.
If Pugao is Yangguan Road, vocational school is a canoe bridge. Can't say which is better? It can only be said that they have their own scenery and their own life opportunities. Going to Pugao does not necessarily mean being admitted to a good university, finding a good job, and achieving a career. Going to vocational school does not mean that there will be no good life opportunities and development in the future.
There is a saying that goes well: whether the shoes fit or not, only those who wear them know. Blindly giving the child what you want to give him may backfire. This means that you don't get what you want, and your child can't get what he wants. In the end, it can only be said that your investment has also failed. The child's interest may also be worn away. Just so faint and mediocre, he entered the next stage, stood at a new crossroads in life, and began new choices. As a parent, I began a new engagement.
But understand that one day the child will grow into an adult. And at that time, there will always be a time to face their own responsibilities. Of course, at this age, the child is still young, and parents can help from the side. But it is more important to respect the child's heart, help him, guide him, guide him instead of planning him. Otherwise, one day, the child will enter a very rebellious stage because you are too involved in his life.