I used to think that if Xiao S's husband Xu Yajun didn't become a demon, would her acting path be more exciting.
Later, I figured it out, it should not have much impact, and the dazzling of the small S is mostly on its own.
When Xu Yajun took her sister late at night and the credit of the bakery collapsed, Xiao S's words and deeds were very decent, and it was not her fault. But because he is a public figure, he must stand up and apologize for his husband. So Xiao S has become the party supported by netizens.
The personality of Little S in front of the public is itself mixed with deductive parts.
She herself is the kind of pistachio personality, in "Kangxi" poisonous tongue hot, home is actually a good person, not very confident in her own words and deeds, very provocative, of course, this is based on her own people can rely on the basis.
Big S is just the opposite, when she does not speak, she looks elegant and calm, but the core is very rigid. She really is a wolf.
When Hou Patzen visited Big S in 2008, she said that Big S was a girl with a hard life. If there are two roads that have been foreseen, one is smooth and the other is bumpy, big S will definitely choose the one that is difficult.
And little S is more conformist, I hope to be carefree and happy.
Big S itself has many principles.
This detail, which she didn't let her boyfriend touch her hair earlier, shows that this person is putting himself first. She wanted to please herself more, and before marriage, she enjoyed one job after another.
Including marrying Wang Xiaofei and having children, it is because Wang Xiaofei is the person she identifies, and she herself likes children. Therefore, the same first child is a daughter, but she fights for two children and three children, and it is unlikely that anyone will say anything about son preference. (There is a credit for Mr. Wang, Wang Xiaofei is afraid of her daughter in her mouth, and her son is fine.)
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There are obviously two children in this story, but in Wang Xiaofei's eyes, there is only a daughter
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Big S is a man who knows exactly what he wants.
Before the shrimp peeling incident, many people said that it was a big S work, but she herself was suspicious of the shrimp peeling trouble. She didn't like to do it either. Xu's mother also taught her that she must be stripped by a man to help you peel, and her mother of course has selfish intentions and feels that her daughter will be hurt when she marries.
Big S was also peeled by his father when he was a child, and he didn't eat it after his father died.
After getting married, she didn't tell Wang Xiaofei. Anyway, as long as Wang Xiaofei peels her, she will eat, and if she doesn't peel it, it will be counted.
Because big S has principles and can make ideas, in the sister Tao, it is always the person who makes the decision. In her life, there are no words "tired", "slow", and "painful". The performance at work is very wolf.
Sisters have difficulties, will find big S to help, but big S is basically on their own solution, really can't resist to call the sisters to chat, you can calm down.
She doesn't like to be secretly photographed, so she will suspect a passerby holding a mobile phone and go over and ask people to delete the photo. When she met the paparazzi, she went over and asked people to change their legitimate occupations. Including when she heard children crying as she walked on the road, she rushed upstairs several times and slammed the door, asking if she was hitting a child.
And her own rigidity, playing small is like this, when she first entered Huagang Art School, her little s and Aya were bullied by the senior sister.
Big S is the one who comes out.
Just enrolled in school, I showed the style of the eldest sister. The mouth is really good, the logic is clear, and it has not been disturbed by the nonsense of others, so the big S can basically win by fighting with the mouth.
This is a high school thing, and what is even more exaggerated is that one day in junior high school, everyone was in class, and a classmate who was mixed in the society suddenly rushed in and shouted, and the teacher was very old and angry.
Big S has a great sense of justice and shouts on the spot: Don't make trouble in our class. The troublemaker immediately walked away quietly, but people were very vengeful and had to teach Big S a lesson.
Until the day of their junior high school graduation ceremony, there was a group of who went to the scene. Big S and Little S were beaten by the little bastard, the sisters were blocked at the park gate, and Big S was slapped by a female hooligan who pulled his hair and was thrown.
Little S was kicked, unable to walk directly, and had to hold up crutches to go to school.
Then this is easy to be found by the mother, Xu mother learned that the graduation ceremony daughter was beaten, she directly rushed to the school to pursue responsibility, when the principal teacher was in a meeting, Xu mother began to yell as soon as she pushed open the door. The last student who looked for a jerk was remembered.
I didn't expect ha, in the small S mouth is very lively love to eat seafood, very playful, will play small mahjong noble woman, there will be such a tough side.
It is not possible to say "for the mother is just" to finish, Xu Mother was originally a very backbone woman.
And Xu mother herself is very cute, once the family in the barbecue, eating and drinking to the half of the rain, Xu mother felt that there was no fun, so she put a plastic bag on the head to continue to drink.
To a certain extent, Xiao S is copying Xu's mother's life.
Little S gave birth to three daughters, Xu's mother also gave birth to three daughters, big S ranked second, and little S is the third oldest.
The little S is typical of the bag.
The eldest sister Xu Xixian is even more intimidating than Little S, introverted and shy, and does not dare to contact the crowd. Big S and Little S once opened a clothing store for the eldest sister to operate, and as a result, they were recognized as the star's sister, and the eldest sister would hide. In the end, the store was also yellow.
Therefore, among the three daughters, only big S inherited the fierce character of Xu's mother.
Xu's mother was modern and hot when she was young, but she did not escape the fate of being slighted as a daughter.
Of course, Xu's mother also wanted to have a son, especially when she was pregnant with Xiao S, when the doctor told her that Congratulations was a daughter, Xu's mother cried and resisted.
In families with a large population, the voice of grandparents is very heavy. Xiao S took the name Xu Xidi, and the nickname was Tingting. She herself once thought that the matter of having a child had stopped, who had thought that the grandparents wanted to have a granddaughter, and hoped to have a younger brother.
Although Xu's mother also hoped to have a son, after giving birth to three daughters, she decided not to have any more children. Thinking that since I have given birth to three daughters, I must take good care of them.
If the grandparents want to give birth to grandchildren, she will calmly say: Tell Xu Jian (the father of big and small S) to go outside to give birth to a boy. Super free.d.
Even if the mother-in-law urged it, even the mother-in-law came to urge it, which shows how serious the unequal status of men and women was at that time. When Little S was in elementary school, my grandmother urged my mother. "Why don't you have another son to the Xu family, how old are you?" How can it be said? ”
Xu's mother was not covered, and replied to her own mother: If we talk about it again, we will break off the mother-daughter relationship.
Xu's mother's real name is Huang Chunmei, and everyone will call her Xiaomei. Cai Kangyong would call Xu's mother's English name may.
People give nicknames, "Veteran Killer".
The image of Xu's mother most often appears in the interpretation and dictation of Little S.
Xiao S loves to sell her mother very much, and when Yu Chengqing is not yet married, she will also push it.
The most famous terrier is "You see I'm redder than Aya's mother".
Mother Xu is a clear brain and a sense of humor.
Then he will also joke with his relatives and love to act.
Pouring cold water and training her daughter is even more handy.
Xu's mother is too capable and her daughter is busy at work, so size S is not common sense for cooking. Xu's mother also said that she was too ashamed to teach well.
Once Xiao S drank wine and wanted to post photos on Weibo, he found a photo of his beautiful sister rolling her eyes and posted it, she originally thought that Big S was cute to make a grimace. As a result, the media said that Xiao S betrayed Big S to show ugly photos of his sister.
Two days later, Xu's mother called and scolded her, and she could rise to the level of being a person
。 Xu's mother is really fair to her daughter and not partial.
Xiaomei is not a good bully, if someone provokes her, she will definitely just go back.
You all know that big and small S's father was a jerk when he was young, and the daughters hated this father.
My father drank and gambled, which was a troublemaker in the family. After divorcing Xu's mother, he had a betel nut Xishi, owed gambling debts, and was caught by the underworld to force debts, and finally the debts that big S and small S helped to pay.
Little S's father, Xu Jian, is the only son in the family. Grandma gave birth to 7 daughters in a row, and finally fought to a son, of course, in the palm of her hand. Xu Jian was also accustomed to becoming an alcoholic brother.
On the other hand, Xiaomei is the daughter of the family who is not valued, and her luck is not very good. At the right time of school age, she did not yet have a nine-year education, so she had to pay for herself (but it was open the following year). She really wanted to study, but her parents didn't even give her a 25 yuan registration fee, and wanted her to work quickly to earn money. She had to teach herself to read and write, and later went to night school.
(Source network, not Xu's mother herself)
Xiaomei was not willing to live a lifetime in the village, so she went to the big city by herself. At that time, there were not many jobs for women in society. Xiaomei's mood is not low, and she is not willing to only work as a female worker in the workshop. At that time, among the types of jobs that women could do, Xiaomei felt that the one who could stand out was the bus conductor. Because on the bus, you can meet rich people (in that year, those who didn't have money could really only walk).
But Xiaomei is not old enough, so she can only go to the restaurant to work. The twist of her fate also appears here.
Xiaomei met Xu Jian at the restaurant where she worked, and the story was also wonderful. Originally, Xu Jian's brothers took a fancy to Xiaomei, but if the brothers wanted to become soldiers, they dragged Xu Jian to pass on the message. Back and forth, Xu Jian and Xiaomei looked at each other. Pregnant, married and having children.
Because she has 3 children, she can only be tied up in family chores. From the fact that your in-laws are obsessed with having sons, you can analyze that their expectations for their daughters-in-law are to take care of a large number of people and become cattle and horses.
At this point, you can refer to Fukuhara Ai's marriage to the Jiang family and was trained by her mother-in-law to become a nanny.
I think objectively speaking, whether it is Ai Fukuhara or someone else who becomes the daughter-in-law of the Jiang family, the treatment may be similar to that of Ai Fukuhara.
Because the mother-in-law herself is a housewife, she spends most of her life taking care of the family, around her husband and children, so she bears hardships and stands hard work, and when she is older, she naturally becomes a daughter-in-law and thinks that her daughter-in-law should also be like this.
Although Xiao S's grandparents supported Xiaomei to read some books, she still had to shoulder the responsibility of caring for the family. Therefore, Xiaomei will be a cabinet sister in the "Silver Building" during the day (it should be the Xu family's shop in a shopping mall), go home to do housework, and take care of children.
Xiaomei's cooking skills are very good, but when she first entered the Xu family's door, Xiaomei ginger and onions were not divided.
But there is no way, the Xu family adds up and down to eat there are more than a dozen, grandpa requirements are still a lot, Xiaomei has practiced high-strength cooking skills. It's fast, it's varied, and it's delicious.
Later, even if the daughter wants to hold a temporary family banquet, Xiaomei can make a table of dishes in a short period of time. This is an afterthought.
Big S often recalls the scene when he was beaten by his mother when he was a child. Most of the time it is the mother who feels that her daughter has done something dangerous, and sometimes, it is also because in the cramped space, she has to face her in-laws and sister-in-law and their children all day long, and when there are many people, the family is very noisy, and Xiaomei is irritable to the point of not being able to do it.
XiaoMei joked that the sister-in-law's child was not biological and could not be obtained, so she had to beat her own child. Big S said that when his sister made mistakes when he was a child, he would fight with his sister, because his sister did not stop him and did not teach his sister well. Growing up, Big S was grateful for the way his mother taught.
XiaoMei is super fierce, beating her daughter, what is easy to take, what hangers, ring rulers, water pipes come at will. Of course, Xiaomei's beating of the child is still in the category of not involving the danger of life, and it is adhering to the traditional concept of not fighting and not being a weapon.
In the already very hard environment, Xu Jian did not care about his family at all, and drank a lot of wine all day.
For a long time, Little S and Big S hated their dad. They've even seen Dad get drunk and come home to argue with Mom, and the two of them will pull each other up. The two little girls were afraid that their mother would be injured, so they secretly ran to see it, only to see that Xiaomei was very fierce, grabbed the ashtray and smashed it on her father's head.
When the little girl saw this scene, her mood was very complicated, on the one hand, she felt that it was good that her mother would resist and was not injured, but on the other hand, that person was her father after all, and she was afraid that her father would not wake up the next day.
Before the marriage collapsed, the parents quarreled, the big S would join the war to argue, and the little S would hide in the room and cry.
Including later in the show, it is also big S who will take care of his mother carefully.
For example, Xu's mother went to "Big and Small Love to Eat" to make dishes, chose an apron, Little S was laughing and immersed in his own happiness, and Big S urged his sister to help his mother.
Therefore, a large part of the rigidity of the big S is determined by the growth environment. And Little S is more of a pistachio role, will say a lot of things to make the mother happy.
Later, Xiaomei couldn't bear it anymore, so she slapped the table with her mother-in-law to divorce Xu Jian. This scene was still witnessed by Little S.
The mother-in-law is also a chicken thief, deliberately saying "then you take away the three children", Xiaomei agreed to it. My mother-in-law asked how do you raise them? XiaoMei gambled and said: When the restaurant girl goes!
To pull the eldest three daughters, Xiaomei is bound to go out to make a living, she will go to sell the house, just because this job does not require experience, there is labor insurance, and there is a salary of 3,000 yuan per month.
Because Xiaomei is very beautiful and eloquent, the sales performance is very eye-catching. The guests and supervisors appreciated her.
But when big S, who was still studying, wanted to make his debut, Xiaomei gave up his original job and began to accompany his daughter throughout the journey. Xiaomei drove her daughter herself, because her daughter had to study during the day and rushed to the announcement after class, she only hoped that her daughter could sleep more in the car.
Big and small S want to debut this thing, the people around are not optimistic. Xiaomei is very supportive of her daughters, if there is no red, the old woman will raise them.
At the age of sixteen and eighteen, it is still easy to be invited by the big brother of the show business circle to eat and drink when entering the entertainment industry, and "Mother Xu" has become a well-known daughter umbrella in the circle since then.
As soon as the eldest brother took action, he would be stared at by Xu's mother and would be deterred from then on.
Even if Xiao S has already hosted "Kangxi", Xiao Mei will always go to visit the class. Of course, after "Kangxi" became popular, Xu's mother went to visit the class just to be happy, and every time the camera cut to Xiaomei, she laughed until she leaned forward and backward.
Or go see your favorite star, rub the idol's dinner game or something.
Xiaomei has never regretted her choice, she has truly escaped the shackles of fate. Her own sister is still following the path of a hard-working housewife, and her life is not too good. In contrast, Xiaomei feels that she is very lucky, because her life is in her own hands.
When Xiao S advises the majority of unmarried women not to rush to get married, and it is very troublesome to divorce with children, Xiao Mei will say, I don't think so.
You can get married, as an experience of life, and you have never married how to know if it is appropriate. If you really find that you are unhappy, leave it.
So from this point, I guess if Xu Yajun has an addiction to domestic violence, Xu's mother will not tolerate Xiao S continuing her marriage. Of course, this is just my guess, Xiaomei has always been a person who teaches her daughter to be responsible for her own decisions.
Xiaomei's eyes of the little S is very happy, small S can rely on many people, such as mother, husband and sister big S. And she didn't have it herself.
We will find that Little S will often lose control of his emotions, feel depressed, and feel that he is not a person worthy of love.
But Xiao S is definitely a child who can penetrate the "raising child to know the grace of parents", and Xiao S's words and words many times reveal the admiration and gratitude for his mother.
She traveled with her sisters and remembered that she always let her mother make gnocchi, but when her mother was older, she couldn't mix it. When she started herself, she would be very touched and shed tears.
The biggest luck of Xiao S, of course, is that there is a xiao mei like this, three views are positive, can afford to put down, have opinions, dare to take responsibility, and are not afraid of things.
Otherwise, big S and little S wouldn't have reconciled with his father in his later years. And open your heart and say that we love him so much. He spoke harshly, but he also knew that he would have to pay off his father's debts and pay him a monthly living allowance.
What is valuable is that after experiencing injustice and setbacks, they can still have the ability to love others. Little S recalled that her father rode her and called her downstairs to buy wine, all of which were full of love.
Little S even wrote a song for his deceased father, called "Underwhelming You".
Even if he has done a lot of bad things, he is still a father who is worth missing and will peel shrimp for his daughter to eat.
As the big S and the little S grow into families and mature, they can also tolerate their grandmother's favoritism toward boys, and can understand that even in a patriarchal family, they have been loved.
Even if one day they have nothing, they will live actively.
What's more, behind them, there has always been a mother who is willing to support her and support them, which is an enviable thing.