Author: Xiao Ai
When you are about twenty years old, you can rely on the youth, health, and youthful beauty given by God to get love!
And when you are thirty, forty, fifty years old, how do you maintain this long-term relationship and maintain your own charm?
Is it to continue to be a silly person in love?
No
It depends on wisdom! The wisdom of love! Because no one will always be enthusiastic about you!
however
The reality is that when we fall in love with someone, our IQ drops to O, and we are all idiots in love!
Give too much, love is too full, think that silly to pay, love will be long, do not know, you give love completely to each other, will always stare at each other's love, tired, the other party tired. Let each other breathe.
In fact
If you divide your energy and love to your work, interest, friendship, family affection, spread out some love, not only will it not affect pure love, moderate space will make each other inhale more oxygen, and then return in a better state.
I have my own small world, he also has his small world, each wonderful, supporting each other, is the only fulcrum of love, otherwise the party given by love will one day be in a state of loss of control, the party that bears it will feel more and more suffocated, and the two people will go farther and farther!
Two people with personality differences in personality, hobbies, dispositions, and knowledge need wisdom to be able to move from love to marriage and maintain a long-term family.
Understanding, running-in, trusting, and understanding are inseparable from wisdom.
Wisdom is the glue of love, love, need to operate, business itself is a kind of wisdom.
So don't be silly!
Love fools, will only get more and more tired!
Everyone has the possibility of happiness, as long as you have more love wisdom!
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