Couples under the heavens are looking forward to living a good life with their lovers. And those silly girls often have a simple idea: blindly trust, never doubt, think that as long as they pay, they can protect the love of the two. But in reality, there are many people who split their legs. Relying only on trust and pay, can not keep love, after all, no one can guarantee that there will be no accidents in love. So I often remind good friends that we must minimize the risk of love - you must learn to be smart, multiple hearts.
The Indian film "The Tuner", which was previously on fire, told various deceptive stories with constant divine twists.
The heroine Sophie was originally a very simple girl, and the male protagonist Akash was a pianist who pretended to be blind to strengthen his hearing ability and hoped to find musical inspiration. In an accident, Akash was knocked down by Sophie on a motorcycle. After learning that Akash was a pianist, Sophie invited him to play in a restaurant. In the continuous exchange, the love between the two germinated. Riding a little motorcycle together, watching movies together, they had a lot of romantic times. Later, Sophie discovers Akash's secret through a video where Sophie clearly sees that Akash can flexibly pick up the kitchen spices, and it turns out that he lied to himself! At the end of the film, the two have experienced a lot of ups and downs, and they have seen various human scams, and they meet again in Paris. When Akash tried to invite Sophie to her own recital, Sophie no longer believed it as easily as before. She cleverly saw through Akash's lies and decisively refused the invitation, turning away from the man who had deceived her.
The story in the movie is like love now! A few gentle love words are ganlin after the rain in the dry desert; a few caring actions are that the thousand-year ice has become a raging flame, and how many women have instantly become prisoners of love. As everyone knows, love is also a game, although you don't have to worry about it, but you also need to keep a clear head, otherwise you will be blinded and lose in the end. Love is blind！ What wisdom do you need to have in love?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > anomaly may be the exposed horse's foot</h1>
Fake real can't be! No one can do things without leaks, and they are not professionally trained agents. It is said that there is no impermeable wall, the paper package can not hold the fire, as long as you carefully observe, there are always clues, and abnormal behavior is the exposed horse's feet, which is the breakthrough point where you find the problem.
There are many plot reversals in "The Tuner", and these reversals, without exception, all hide breakthrough points early. This also tells us that we must not be confused by appearances, and we must pay attention to abnormalities. For example, in the movie, the murderer who is the sheriff eats 16 eggs a day. His wife foolishly thinks that her husband is too tired at work and needs to be nourished, but the truth is that the husband is preparing for an affair with his mistress, Simi. And the derailed Simi, there is also an anomaly in the movie, there is a bridge section is Simi and her husband at home communication, although they will also kiss intimately, but most of Simi's conversations are full of dissatisfaction with her husband, which fully hints at her cheating.
These anomalies, like textbooks, show the cracks that appear in the love of couples. We all say that a small crack at the beginning may eventually become a love gap, and many contradictions will break out. Girls, don't just indulge in the sweetness of love and ignore those small abnormalities. Prevent micro-gradually, do not be sloppy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > you don't see anomalies, which may come from a lack of communication</h1>
I've heard a lot of people complain that their wives or their husbands come home and just play with their phones or bury their heads in work. Playing mobile phones is the normal entertainment of modern people, and it seems that their other half is very motivated, but this greatly shortens the time for two people to communicate and need to consume a lot of emotional costs for two people. When the communication time decreases, negative emotions will accumulate, and quarrels are minute-by-minute. In intimate relationships, there is never any regret such as gold, even if the other party is busy, you can also enhance communication through some small skills. Seemingly casual small talk is necessary to enhance emotions. Of course, the most important thing is to see those abnormal and exposed horse's feet from the conversation.
Here, I'll share a little tip to enhance communication, which is "dedication.". The communication between two people, in the final analysis, is to look at the attitude. As long as you can lower your body, you can always make the other party open the conversation box. I've really seen too many women win fights but lose emotions. Try to make the other party talk more, you get more information, you can naturally see the horse's feet, distinguish between true and false.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >, derived from being good at summarizing</h1>
Probably everyone has the only idea to practice their love, but to have a pair of eyes, at least, to have the courage not to fall twice in one place.
Two days ago, Wanfen, who was in her forties, told me her story. She is a woman with a history of two marriages. The first was her first love, the two of them met in college, after graduation across the north and south, Wanfen alone away from her parents to go to the far north to get married. Because of her husband's domestic violence, coupled with the subsequent affair, Wanfen couldn't bear to get divorced. The second husband is still domestic violence, but she believes that the new husband can change and choose to forgive. Later, the family had money in business, and her husband had an affair, so she could only divorce again. Desperately, she asked me, was this her life?
It certainly wasn't her life! Many women have the physique of a scumbag and fall in love again and again, and the biggest problem of these people is that they have never reflected on and summarized the characteristics of the scumbag they have encountered. For example, Wanfen, who has experienced a man's domestic violence and infidelity, should know the characteristics of scumbags well, but she did not summarize, but blindly invested in the next marriage and continued to repeat the same mistakes. Mistakes in love, of course, need to be corrected and made up, but more importantly, they need to be summarized and reflected! It is the wisdom that a smart woman should have!
Marriage is a tough journey and a game of extreme stakes. Don't want to be the strongest person in the marriage, but you can't put yourself on the weak side either. Women don't have to play tricks, but they must learn to protect themselves with wisdom. In love, you need to have your own wings, but also have your own shield, can block and fly, at least not helpless. Women, please be smart!