Anxiety, the word is now appearing more and more in people's ears, as if a person has been passively caught in anxiety since birth, from involuntary to inextricable. When we open the phone, watch the news, brush the video, you will find my God, how so many things have happened, and you will feel that your three views are constantly being refreshed, as if you can't imagine the dark world, the next second may appear and by the way shock your jaw, but this is not the point, you do not know what strange social news will wait for you. These will invisibly make you anxious and insecure.
Next, I tell you the anxiety that a child will probably experience from birth to death in a storytelling way.
Your name is XiaoXiao, this day you were born, you feel surrounded by a group of people, you don't know anything, and then you lie in the swaddling and hear your parents arguing about the direction of your future growth, Dad said that the Internet said that children have to win on the starting line from a young age, report a lot of training classes, and strive to be an all-round person; Mom said that psychologists on TV said that children must have a happy childhood, otherwise there will be many problems in later life, and the two parties will insist on each other and do not give in to each other.
It was not easy to go to school, Xiao Xiao saw other students, some of them were smart, some of them had a good family, their grades were only wandering in the middle, they could not help but be anxious, it was easy to take a bachelor's degree, when they went to college, they heard that the seniors and teachers said that they must talk about a relationship in college, otherwise there would be regrets, they talked with the wind, and finally it was really not interesting to divide. So he has been single until he is thirty years old, urged by the people around him, friends have become a family, Xiao Xiao lies in bed at night with his mobile phone and turns over countless web pages, looks at a bunch of chicken soup, becomes more and more anxious, and begins to doubt his lack of ability to love, has emotional barriers and so on.
Later, in order to fit in, I chose a similar person, to start a family, first to buy a house, a search on the Internet, various arguments, a moment bullish and a moment bearish, Xiao Xiao wandered uneasy, do not know the specific reason for anxiety, but can not help anxiety. After surviving marriage, about to have children, seeing the news of pregnant women depressed and jumping off the building, various postpartum sequelae, from the time of conceiving the baby began a long period of anxiety, until the child's child. Even in the end, I was old and still anxious.
Everyone followed me like this, do you feel as if you understand something, why people are so anxious, especially living in modern society, in the end anxiety is because of comparison, people will always be unable to help comparing, and face a lot of choices, now society is even more so, you can contact more information, plus have more choices. Many times, in order to attract the attention of netizens, online media workers always look for magical, market demand views and events to meet the public's curiosity and herd psychology, these news information also sell a lot of anxiety, so that everyone can't help but fall into the quagmire of anxiety and can't pull out their feet.
So when we feel anxious, don't search for anxiety anymore, it's better to calm down, think about it, explore the true thoughts in your heart, or read famous books, don't go online to see one-sided views, it will only make you more chaotic.
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