We often say that "the years are undefeated beauty", but in fact, for temperament men, the years are also very friendly. Although we can't stop the signs of aging brought about by the laws of nature, then we can make changes in terms of hairstyle, body shape and outfit.
Don't try to change the reality that has become a foregone conclusion, men with real taste know how to "prescribe the right medicine", especially after middle age, if you want to get rid of greasy, you can't let go of old age, but you have to be in a good sense of proportion.
As a bigwig in the business world, it is natural to pay special attention to the shaping of the image, when you look at Lei Jun, and then look at Liu Qiangdong, you know that the gap between the man who can dress up and the man who can't dress up is so big!
Lei Jun, who is 56 years old, looks like he is about to run six, but he didn't expect to be able to get out of the circle with his "scientific and technological elite style" and become a middle-aged man's dressing template, compared with Lei Jun, 51-year-old Liu Qiangdong lacks the awareness of dressing up, and the contrast is too strong.
First: See if a middle-aged man can dress up? Just look at these 3 points
1. Details - Decent VS casual relaxation
In real life, "there is no harm if there is no contrast", not to mention that it is a public figure, it is easy to be misled by details, which Liu Qiangdong and Lei Jun form a stark contrast, they are also wearing suits, Liu Qiangdong always likes to wear colorful ties, which looks very tacky.
In contrast, Lei Jun generally does not wear a tie, and even if he layers a shirt underneath, he likes to unbutton one or two buttons to create a casual and relaxed atmosphere.
2. Hairstyle - fresh and clean VS sloppy and greasy
In addition to the comparison of details, Lei Jun also crushed Liu Qiangdong in terms of hairstyle, and if you look closely at the hairstyles of the two of them, it is not difficult to find that Liu Qiangdong's hair is particularly frizzy and rough, and it always gives people a sense of sloppiness that is not taken care of.
But Lei Jun's hairstyle is very refreshing, the hair on the top of his head is slightly longer, and he can be combed to the side, revealing his forehead to show that the whole person is very energetic, and it also adds to the appearance points visually, showing the charm of a middle-aged man.
3. Outfit - formal and old-fashioned VS decent and generous
As the saying goes, "people rely on clothes, Buddha relies on gold", if middle-aged men don't pay attention to dress, they will not only expose their real age, but also look greasy and old-fashioned. In terms of dressing, you should pay attention to the effect of being decent and generous, and also judge according to the occasion.
Lei Jun's outfit is more instructive than Liu Qiangdong's, even if he attends formal occasions, he will not wear too old-fashioned, and through the combination of formal and casual items, it is more fashionable than suits.
Second: Follow Lei Jun to learn the "law of charm" of middle-aged men
The rule of charm 1: Manage your body shape and posture, and don't be a "greasy uncle"
★ Sitting posture is upright + shoulders and back are straight and stretched, and the spirit is better
In fact, for middle-aged men, if they want to be attractive and wear more stylish clothes, the first and most important thing is to manage their body shape. If you are always hunched over, and you sit in a particularly casual posture, and you like to cross your legs, the whole person will look very lazy.
Lei Jun often maintains a upright sitting posture, and his shoulders and back are very straight and stretched, even in life, he will habitually raise his head and chest, which can not only show his self-confidence, but also improve his good temperament.
★ Stick to fitness and get rid of big bellies easily
In fact, the most effective way for men to do not have a greasy feeling in middle age is to exercise fitness, a combination of anaerobic and aerobic exercise, and insist on practicing muscle lines, in order to achieve the effect of "dressing thin and undressing with meat".
Middle-aged men can neither be too thin nor too obese, but to "take the median value", long-term exercise and fitness, can effectively get rid of the big belly and bye bye meat, even if it is summer dressing, there is no pressure at all.
2. Never let go of old age, pursue youth
★ Go for casual pieces
If you have decided to let go of old age, then you must accept the influence of reality, and a series of "pain points" such as old-fashioned dressing, greasy image, and ordinary temperament will hide your charm.
Lei Jun never lets himself age, and maintains his youthful appearance through casual items, such as baseball caps, sneakers, jackets, jeans, etc., which are the best choice for reducing age and looking younger.
★ The style is simple and atmospheric, and it does not look old
Successful people never wear clothes with complex styles, cumbersome colors, and cheap fabrics, because these will reduce the grade of the shape and make the whole person appear tasteless. Only a simple and atmospheric style can bring out the charm of a middle-aged man.
Simple ≠ simple, but to create a high-quality effect under the premise of clean and refreshing, so the clothing version should be fitted, the fabric material should also be advanced, and the details of the workmanship should not be too rough.
3. Dress without tucking in the waistband of your pants, and expose the hem of your clothes to be more free
★ Shirt + T-shirt + jeans, short inside and long with layers
Middle-aged men should never "tuck the waist of the trousers" when wearing clothes, many people think that this practice shows long legs, and it is also capable and neat enough, but in fact, the clothes tucked into the waistband of the trousers are not only picky about the proportions of the body, but also easy to expose your big belly.
Even if the body is well exercised, it is recommended that you do not "stuff the waist of your pants", but like Lei Jun, when wearing a shirt and T-shirt with jeans, the length of the inner layer should not exceed the outer layer.
★ Cashmere sweater + suit + trousers, simple inside and rich on the outside
Lei Jun's outfit on formal occasions is also very simple and neat, almost every item is basic, and it is not easy to make mistakes no matter how you match it. Dressing should also pay attention to a "combination of complex and simple", such as in a checked suit, you should layer a solid color base.
Navy blue cashmere sweater + matching color check suit, with black suit pants on the lower body, the upper body effect is not only very comfortable, but also able to create a state of balance, making the look extraordinarily rich.
Third: A man who pays attention to "details" can be charming
Detail point 1: Good at using accessories to successfully light up the shape
Middle-aged men also have to learn to do a "detail control", and they must be good at using accessories to make our looks more eye-catching. For 50+ men, the selection of accessories does not need to be too complicated, the most important thing is practicality.
For example, when you need to go out, you can wear a pair of sunglasses with a simple design, which can prevent ultraviolet rays and the sun's dazzling problems; Or the "standard" for middle-aged men - a belt, which fixes the waistline while enhancing the delicacy.
Detail 2: The clothes are flat and neat without wrinkles, ensuring a decent feeling
Many people think that only money has a good temperament, but in fact, this is not the case, only a good enough taste can support a superior temperament, even if you buy a very expensive dress, if you don't know how to take care of it and become wrinkled, it will still look cheap.
Therefore, on weekdays, we must ensure that the clothes are flat and tidy enough, so that we will be more energetic when worn on the body, and the modification of the body line will be more obvious, and it is easy to wear a decent and generous effect.