Recently, Dou Jiayan participated in the talent show "Children of Tomorrow 5".
At the age of 19, in her wish for the competition column, she wrote a line:
Earn money to support your family
Although it was promoted, the evaluation given by the judges was intriguing:
Because her father is Dou Wei.
15 years ago, when a special performance was held at the Zhu Qizhan Art Museum in Shanghai, Dou Wei choked up and shouted: "Plateau, you woman, the child is only 3 years old, do you know, can't you wait until she is raised and then take her away?" ”
The "child" in Dou Wei's mouth is Dou Jiayan.
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One day in 1999.
Faye Wong heard that her friend Na Ying wanted to return to the mainland, so she temporarily decided to rush back to Beijing from Hong Kong to give her husband Dou the only surprise.
When she and Na Ying stepped into the house, they happened to meet The Plateau, who was hurriedly getting dressed and preparing to leave.
Faye Wong was stunned on the spot, and tears kept flowing down the corners of her eyes.
Na Ying immediately rushed to the front of the plateau and scolded.
Plateau does not show weakness: you figure out the facts, and then scold me.
Na Ying indignantly said: What are the facts? The truth is that people are married, are you blind?
Faye Wong didn't want to stay any longer and pulled Na Ying away from the house.
A few months later, Dou Wei took Takahara with him and ate at a restaurant in Tokyo, Japan.
Unexpectedly, he was targeted by the "paparazzi" in Hong Kong. When the reporter asked who Gao Yuan was, Dou Wei blurted out:
Her name is Plateau and she is my lover.
Soon, at a press conference in Hong Kong.
In the face of repeated bombardments by reporters, asking about her and Dou Wei's divorce, Faye Wong looked blankly: What does it have to do with you!
The reporters present were speechless for a moment.
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In June 2002, Dou Wei married Fengzi again and married Gao Yuan.
In August, their daughter Dou Jiayan was born.
In the face of the reputation of "cheating", Dou Wei's career was seriously affected, and many record companies no longer cooperated with him in the next step; and Gao Yuan, because of the marriage between Faye Wong and Dou Wei, was also expelled from the magazine.
The two people, who were originally bright and beautiful, slowly clashed because of their embarrassing lives.
After marriage, Gao Yuan, who was at home full-time, sat in the courtyard every day, waiting for Dou Wei to come home. However, Dou Wei, who loves music wholeheartedly, does not work day and night every time he creates a creation, and often does not go home.
Looking at himself busy at home, busy with a yellow face, Takahara asked himself: Is this the life he wants?
The answer is no.
Soon, the cool plateau picked up the camera again and filmed for the major rock bands.
She threw her daughter Dou Jiayan to Dou Wei's sister Dou Ying, and also began to clubb with friends and go out to play.
Dou Wei waited at home, saw the plateau being helped into the house by his friends, he roared with red eyes: You are already a child and her mother, are you still so crazy?
Gao Yuan did not show weakness, shouting at him: Do you let me stay up at home every day to become a yellow-faced woman, is it to love me?
The contradiction with Gao Yuan made Dou Wei turn all his energy to music.
Once, Gao Yuan couldn't stand the cold war and ran to Dou Wei's music studio. She stood quietly in front of Dou Wei for more than two hours, obsessed with music creation dou Wei, without even lifting her eyelids.
Plateau caught fire, rushed over, and threw Dou Wei's guitar to the ground.
"Music, music, music... What do you mean by that? Crazy to create music, and I don't see how much money music brings you! Living on royalties on only a few old records a day, when will such a day come to an end?"
Dou Wei, who has always regarded music as life, looked at the strange woman in front of him and roared:
Go, you woman, don't understand what art is.
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In August 1999, Faye Wong and Dou Wei formally divorced. She didn't ask Dou for the only penny of child support, only one request:
Daughter Dou Jingtong belonged to her.
Dou Wei, who was in love with Gao Yuan, agreed with one mouthful.
After 5 years, Gao Yuan and Dou Wei divorced.
Gao Yuan, who gambled, asked Dou Wei to give Dou Jiayan 5,000 yuan of child support every month, and to pay it in one lump sum.
At that time, Dou Wei went to the station and run the field, and at most only 5,000 yuan a month, and the opening of the plateau almost made him have no way to live.
Gao originally wanted Dou Wei to change his mind and ask for his own reunion. As a result, Dou Wei, who had always been proud and proud, gritted his teeth and still agreed to Gao Yuan's request.
Dou Wei's two daughters, from then on one to the left and one to the right.
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When she left Dou Wei, Faye Wong was already a diva in the Chinese music scene. When she arrived at Dou Jingtong, Faye Wong had two more identities: one was a mother and the other was a friend.
In 2011, 14-year-old Dou Jingtong, got a tattoo, smoked, and even dropped out of school to make music, and formed his own band.
The sensitive media immediately reported on a large number of negative news such as Dou Jingtong's rebellion, lack of learning and no techniques.
Regarding the issue of Dou Jingtong's upbringing, many media have directly targeted Faye Wang and scolded her for teaching her to be helpless.
Faye Wong faced a flood of questioning, and her attitude was the same as that of the divorce incident of that year: she did not bother to explain.
In her eyes: I do my best, just be ashamed, as for irrelevant people, why should I waste my tongue to explain so much.
Dou Jingtong couldn't sit still, she said:
It's about equality and respect. Regardless of age, including my sister, everyone in our family communicates and decides things, so I don't have to rebel.
At the beginning, Dou Jingtong wanted to drop out of school to engage in music, and consulted Faye Wong. After a long talk with her, Faye Wong said in a serious tone, as long as you don't regret it.
In 2018, 21-year-old Dou Jingtong, together with his friend Director MaiZi, performed a story called "Magic Moon".
After Dou Jingtong's performance, Faye Wong, who has always been cold, could not restrain her excitement and praised her daughter for more than 20 minutes on stage.
Traditional parents may say with a serious face, continue to work hard and so on.
And Faye Wong said without hesitation: I am proud of you!
Dou Jingtong, who was standing by the side, blushed with shyness, while Faye Wong gently wrapped her shoulders around her and hugged her tightly.
At Faye Wong's Shanghai concert, Dou Jingtong appeared on the scene as a guest.
At that time, Faye Wong sang Dou Jingtong's song "THE WAY" and turned it into a Chinese version of "Tong Dian".
When singing, "Because you want to be an accomplice of expectation and loss", the two tacitly and at the same time compared the "small pistol" gesture.
Dou Jingtong looked at his mother Faye Wong and couldn't help but laugh.
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Compared with Tianhou Faye, Gao Yuan lived an ordinary life.
After divorcing Dou Wei, she also took her daughter Dou Jiayan with her to raise.
In order to gamble with Dou Wei, Gao Yuan almost blocked all the news about Dou Jia Yan against Dou Wei.
Even so, the musical genes flowing in Dou Wei's body were still inherited to Dou Jiayan.
When she was in elementary school, Dou Jiayan told Gao Yuan that she wanted to be a singer.
Gao Yuan disagreed, she did not want her daughter to become the "second Dou Wei".
As she grew older, Dou Jiayan became more and more rebellious, and her obsession with becoming a singer became deeper and deeper.
She often posts some negative dynamics on social platforms: anorexia due to weight loss, drunkenness at night, low mood of lovelorn, and so on.
On a certain live broadcast, netizens even saw the scars on her hands.
Seeing that her daughter was so determined, Gao Yuan could only acquiesce to Dou Jiayan's embarkation on the road of music.
But her mother is only a photographer who has passed, and her father Dou Wei has retired to the jianghu for many years, and it is not easy for Dou Jiayan to take this road.
In this year's "Children of Tomorrow 5" draft, Dou Jiayan advanced, and even she herself was surprised. In this regard, the judges made an explanation:
Speaking of Dou Jiayan's singing, the judges euphemistically said: Dou Jiayan's people are cooler than her songs.
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When Dou Jingtong was more than one year old, Faye Wong wrote a poem "Tong" to dou Jingtong. There's a lyric like this:
You can't learn badly, you can't be too well-behaved.
After divorcing Dou Wei, Faye Wong never mentioned his name in public again.
Unlike Gao Yuan, who wanted to cut off the connection between Dou Jiayi and Dou Wei, Wang Fei allowed Dou Jingtong to meet her biological father Dou Wei.
A reporter once photographed the picture of Dou Jingtong obediently sitting on the back seat of Dou Wei's electric car and going home together.
This girl, who has tattoos, dyes her hair, and looks rebellious, often commutes to work on her bicycle and goes to do odd jobs; when she goes to rehearsals, she will shout that it is expensive when she finds that Didi taxi costs 50 yuan.
Once, with friends to go to the 4S shop to see the car, a circle down, found that their money is not enough to buy a car, Dou Jingtong smiled and said, too expensive, can not afford to buy.
Some people were surprised that the daughter of the Queen of Heaven was so grounded; if it was replaced by another star second generation, it would have been a lamborghini villa.
Dou Jingtong sensibly said that he would save money and pay tuition for his younger brothers and sisters.
When Dou Jingtong was working as a small worker in a coffee shop, Dou Jiayan played cosplay.
She also followed the example of her sister Dou Jingtong, dyeing her colorful hair and wearing strange clothes.
She composed the lyrics of the song "Illusion" in an all-day literary creation, which was evaluated by the media as "compared with her sister Dou Jingtong, although Dou Jiayi's voice line is still a little weaker, it gives people a very comfortable feeling.".
Compared with Dou Jingtong, who has already released several albums and participated in film and television dramas, Dou Jiayi's resources are limited.
Since her official debut in 2016, only with the name of "Dou Wei's little daughter", Dou Jiayan will have some opportunities.
In one interview, she said she would try to remove the label.
But in the competition of "Children of Tomorrow 5", I know that because of her father Dou Wei, Dou Jiayan, who has barely advanced to the promotion, still accepted the result of the promotion, she said:
I hope the next stage can be a little easier, but I know that it is impossible, it will only be more tiring and cruel.
Without the resources of her sister Dou Jingtong, Dou Jiayan knew that only by working harder could she go on in the entertainment circle with cruel competition.
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