Yesterday, Dong Jie recently released a travel vlog, her son Dingding traveled with his mother, but Dingding was very cold in the whole shot, wearing headphones and listening to songs by himself.
It is normal for adolescent children to be reluctant to communicate with their mothers, but recalling the ridiculous things Dong Jie did when she was a child, netizens can't help but worry about Dingding's mental health.
On the other hand, Enli, the son of Yi Nengjing and her ex-husband Yu Chengqing, not only studied at the famous Harvard University, but also took flowers to visit Yi Nengjing in his spare time.
Netizens couldn't help but sigh: It wasn't until I saw a recent photo of Dong Jie and her son that I understood how successful Yi Nengjing's education was for Enli.
The same parents divorced, and put Dong Jie's son and Yi Nengjing's son together, and the difference came out obviously.
Ding Ding Dong Jie: You are not beautiful in the first place
On the evening of the 16th, Dong Jie uploaded a video of a holiday trip with her son.
The mother and son have not been in the same frame for a long time, but their moods are completely different, Dong Jie covered her mouth and laughed non-stop, and her son turned into a cold male god on the side and immersed himself in his own world with headphones.
It is not difficult to see from the video that the 44-year-old Dong Jie is very well maintained! I can't tell her real age at all, her skin is like a girl, white and glowing, and the two of them are like sisters and brothers in the same frame!
Dong Jie was busy fiddling with the camera, but Dingding on the side turned his head and picked up his mobile phone, saying that adolescent children are difficult to manage, and Dong Jie can be regarded as seeing it this time.
It can be seen that Dingding has a cold personality and doesn't like to talk much, and under Dong Jie's nagging, Dingding only temporarily put down his mobile phone and briefly cooperated with the camera.
Dingding is wearing black loose short sleeves, headphones, and an army green backpack, dressed very fashionably, although Dingding's hair is a little long, but it is not difficult to see that his appearance is very outstanding.
Dong Jie also photographed the handsome side face of the top from her own perspective, the tall nose bridge shows that the side face is full of three-dimensional facial features, the nose and Pan Yueming are basically copy and paste, and the expressions of the two are also somewhat similar.
Although there is a black face on the top, the picture of the whole video is quite warm.
Unexpectedly, when Dong Jie asked Dingding to take pictures of herself, Dingding's words instantly wiped out the warm atmosphere.
What's going on? What did Dingding really say?
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It turned out that Dong Jie posed for Dingding to take pictures of herself, but Dingding's "straight man" photography technology directly took pictures of her face, and she didn't take pictures of what Dong Jie wanted.
Dong Jie complained twice, but she didn't expect Dingding to reply directly and mercilessly: "You are not beautiful in the first place." ”
This sentence may just be Dingding's venting of his irritability and dissatisfaction, but it makes many netizens feel incomprehensible, and they feel that Dingding is really uneducated to speak to his mother like this.
On the other hand, Yi Nengjing's eldest son Enli, although he is also a child who grew up under the divorce of his parents, is very good in all aspects.
Yi Nengjing's all-round scholar son Yu Enli
Yi Nengjing's son Enli has now successfully graduated from New York University, completing four years of college in just three years.
Enley successfully used his excellence to fight back against those bad voices, and was scolded as "perverted" because of his little hobby of "loving to wear women's clothes".
Born into a musical family, Enley had a great artistic talent, both in painting and dancing.
Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing attach great importance to Enli's education, although their marriage is going to divorce, but Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing's love for Enli will not be reduced.
They cared for Enley as usual and allowed him to grow up in a loving environment.
Studying abroad, Enli was accustomed to the unfettered and free nature of Western-style education, and was very open-minded, which is why he dared to express himself and had his own unique views on art.
The freedom in the Western education concept includes the freedom of personal clothing and aesthetic freedom.
Hobbies such as liking makeup and wearing women's clothes are difficult for some people to accept, why should a boy wear women's clothes? Such questions often appear on the Internet.
Yi Nengjing's answer to this question also made netizens admire the five-body throw, Yi Nengjing admired and agreed with her son wearing women's clothes, she thought it was Enli's freedom.
"If you want to be handsome, you can be handsome. If you want to wear it very elegantly, you can be very elegant. He is free. ”
Enli grew up in an environment of love and appreciation, and naturally did not give up his hobby because others did not understand.
Enley often posts his own photos, he has his own unique opinions on clothing, styling and makeup, dares to try different styles, he just wants to be himself and do what he loves.
Enli's continuous attempts have also seen a variety of himself, sometimes sunny and handsome, sometimes charming and moving. These are all him, and Enli is not bound by traditional concepts, but only does what he wants.
It can be seen that the divorce of his parents has not affected Harry's growth, and when he grows up, Enley dares to express himself, does not care about the eyes of others, and loves his parents very much.
Why is it that children who grow up in the same environment where their parents are divorced are so different from Enli?
Don't be in a hurry to complain about Dingding's rebellion and ignorance, watching Dong Jie's "outrageous" operation during Dingding's growth is simply jaw-dropping!
After watching Yi Nengjing's education method, it dawned on me that her education strategy was so successful!
Calling her son "Dad" and taking wedding photos with her son, where is Dong Jie's bottom line?
As an early "national goddess", Dong Jie was really popular all over the country when she first debuted, and the appearance of a pure jade girl really fascinated a kind of fan brother and sister.
But after Dong Jie, who is so brilliant in appearance, divorced her ex-husband Pan Yueming, she made a decision that countless netizens spurned:
After Dong Jie and Pan Yueming officially announced their divorce, Dong Jie, who was "a thief with a weak heart", posted an article accusing her ex-husband Pan Yueming of being addicted to gambling and rudeness, which pushed Pan Yueming to the center of public opinion in an instant.
But who knew that it didn't take long for Dong Jie to be slapped in the face! Obviously, Dong Jie cheated on Wang Dazhi in marriage, but she wanted to "bite back" Pan Yueming and make a mess of Pan Yueming's career!
In any case, the parents' business has nothing to do with the children.
As a father, it was natural to visit his son, but who knew that Pan Yueming was obstructed by Dong Jie in every way.
Not only that, Dong Jie also instilled in her son the idea of "Dad is very busy with work and has no time to accompany you" to her son since he was a child.
Dong Jie's strange operation is not only like this, it was once revealed in a show that her son called herself "Dad", and asked her to say such strange remarks as "Dad loves you" to herself.
In addition, Dong Jie said that she kissed her son a hundred times a day, took wedding photos with her son, and even asked her son to kneel and propose to her.
When asked why she wanted to take this set of wedding photos, Dong Jie's answer surprised netizens, she said that she wanted to wait until her son got married and showed it to his bride to see who was more beautiful.
Dong Jie's female competition is on the head of her future daughter-in-law, no matter when she looks at this sentence, she feels so explosive!
Dong Jie's "deformed" maternal love has made countless netizens feel disgusting! Netizens complained: "Is this treating your son as a boyfriend?" ”
is also divorced with a baby! Yi Nengjing's educational philosophy is very different from Dong Jie's.
The children educated by different educational concepts have different personalities, and the cold introversion of the top is really in stark contrast to the sunny and warm heart of Enli!
Enli is a sensible child who will be considerate of his parents' good intentions and dedication to him.
After Yi Nengjing started the road of live broadcasting, she was often busy and worked until the early hours of the morning. This time, Yi Nengjing received a big "surprise" during the rehearsal live broadcast process.
Son Enli came to visit the class with a bouquet of flowers! In order to create a surprise atmosphere for Yi Nengjing, he also used flowers to cover his face before appearing.
Yi Nengjing was very surprised when she saw her son, but she was very happy! She screamed, grew up, and whispered softly to her son, "Why are you so early?" How did you come over! I'm so impressed! I'm really going to cry! ”
Then the mother and son hugged each other, and Yi Nengjing also kissed Enli's cheek and said that she wanted to rub her son's traffic!
What a lovely mom! With such a loving move, it is not difficult to see that Yi Nengjing taught Enli very well, and he is a romantic and intimate boy who is excellent at the same time!
Behind Enli's such an excellent and sensible nature, it is naturally inseparable from Yi Nengjing's education and love, "You are free, in my world, you can be yourself."
Yi Nengjing gives the child enough space to grow, let him do what he loves, and at the same time respect the child's ideas, will not interfere with him, as a mother, she will always support and encourage him behind Enli.
epilogue
Mother's love is the greatest love, it is undeniable that Dong Jie, as a single mother, is really not easy to bring a big top, but because of her lack of love, the desire to control imposed on her children is really unnecessary.
There is a difference between men and women, even if it is a biological mother and child, they must pay attention to proportionality when getting along.
Like Yi Nengjing, giving full support to your child when he needs help and giving him the greatest freedom when he needs independence is the education that every parent should learn.
How do you evaluate Dong Jie's education method of Dingding? Do you think Yi Nengjing's education method is right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area below to discuss.