In 2003, Yu Rongguang's father was diagnosed with liver cancer, and the doctor told him that if he did not have chemotherapy, he could only live for 3 months at most. Who knows, after thinking for a while, Yu Rongguang said: "Give up chemotherapy and be discharged from the hospital." "The doctor said incredulously: You earn so much money but are reluctant to treat your father, it's too chilling
When it comes to Yu Rongguang, I believe many people will think of the unforgettable roles he created in several classic film and television dramas, such as the father and son image in the movie "Letter to Dad", which left a deep impression on the audience.
And in his glorious life, he also made amazing choices in order to give his father, who was about to die, dignity.
In 2003, Yu Rongguang, who was already a director and producer at the time, received the bad news that his father was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer.
Doctors bluntly say that even if treatment methods such as surgical resection and organ transplantation are used, the chance of survival is extremely low and the risk is very high.
The most honest advice is to give up treatment and spend the last days with my father.
Faced with the cruel reality, Yu Rongguang experienced a fierce ideological struggle and inner struggle.
As a son, he certainly wanted his father to be healed; But as an adult, he also knows how much pain patients with terminal cancer endure, especially during the long and helpless process of chemotherapy.
In the end, out of filial piety, Yu Rongguang made a surprising decision.
Giving up all treatments and allowing my father to live a high quality of life in his limited life. In order not to traumatize his father's body and mind, Yu Rongguang weaved a "white lie".
He told his father that liver cancer was a minor problem and did not need treatment.
In order to cover up the truth, Yu Rongguang also learned to make non-alcoholic "imitation wine", and toasted with his father every night.
Yu Rongguang temporarily put down the burden of his career, put down all work arrangements, and accompanied his father wholeheartedly.
They either play chess and chat at home, or go out for a walk and exercise together, enjoying the ordinary and beautiful time between father and son.
In this way, relying on the careful care of his son, his father, who should have died in 3 months, unexpectedly lived for an extra 7 years.
What is embarrassing is that it was not until the last moment of his life that his father learned that he had been sentenced to "death".
But to Glory's surprise, the father did not blame him, but expressed his heartfelt gratitude - the son had made him full of energy and joy in the last seven years of his life in such a way.
The father's mother also understood her son's painstaking filial piety. Glory's move has sparked a lot of controversy in society.
Some people believe that even with good intentions, lies are lies and that deception is wrong.
But there are also people who agree with Yu Rongguang and think that filial piety is the most important thing.
After all, if you are forced to face the face of death, no one wants to be firmly bound by the life support system in the last days of their lives.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are the fate that everyone will eventually face. But how to deal with the end of life, everyone has their own pursuit.
Yu Rongguang's decision is to let his father have a positive attitude, maintain the basic quality of life and human dignity, and complete the last journey of his life.
This filial piety deserves to be remembered. The dignity of life should be cherished.
