Is your child a little firecracker who blows up at the slightest temper?
Do your children cry and make trouble when they can't play with their friends for a few minutes?
Do your children often come to the door by other people's parents and apologize to others while listening to complaints?
What is the danger of a child having a bad temper and being prone to mania?
Children often have tantrums that are not conducive to their physical and mental health, and children often lose their tempers and have a short temper, and in the long run, there is a possibility that their temperament will be distorted. Tantrum tantrums in adolescents and children will also affect their growth and development, which may cause children to fall behind in growth and development, and may also induce the occurrence and development of some diseases. It is not good for children and adolescents to have tantrums all the time, so it is important to treat and adjust. When suffering from certain diseases, it will cause children to lose their temper, such as ADHD, Tourette's syndrome, anxiety and depression and other diseases, which will make children lose their temper easily. If it is caused by the elements of the disease, it must be treated with medication.
How can I help my child correct his irritable personality?
When your child has a tantrum, parents should avoid being angry and yelling, because if you don't adjust your emotions, it may make your child's mood worse. Respond to your child with a quiet, gentle sound so that you can properly guide your child to calm down. At the same time, you have also demonstrated to your child how to express emotions correctly through your own behavior.
Parents must tell their children to understand that while anger is normal, there is a difference between being accepted and being difficult to be accepted by others.
Let your child calm down and express his emotions appropriately, but he should not ignore his inner thoughts. For example, a child gets angry that his eldest brother rode his bicycle away without asking for permission. At this time, parents should calmly understand the reason for their child's anger. Subsequently, parents should first express their understanding and approval of the reason for their child's anger. At this time, the child will generally calm down and will not lose his temper again. Then, the parents will slowly soothe and reason with the child.
Parents can guide their children correctly like this: "Then the next time he doesn't push away your car without your permission, do you need to tell him that he made a mistake?" If she is angry, remind him to think in a more positive way: "Anger doesn't solve the situation, don't you think?" "Step by step, guide the child to deal with problems stronger.
If a child's emotions are out of control, parents need to adopt a special approach. Immediately dissuade the child and send her to her room to calm him down. Dad, don't fight evil with evil. Later, when the child calms down, take the time for the child to grasp the truth. Parents can communicate and make promises to their children so that they can plan how to prevent this practice in the future.
Talking to the child about the child's anger and telling him that it is very important to learn how to control his temper.
Parents should inform and correctly guide their children to learn and train emotional management, and let their children understand the destructive and lethal power of language. Parents can correctly guide their children to empathize; "How would you feel if someone yelled at you?"
Parents help their children develop an "anger control plan". Choose a time when both parties are calm and discuss the matter of anger with your child. Ask him how he could calm down. For example: put on headphones and listen to music, go outside to throw a basketball game or take a shower. Have your child write these methods down on a form and hang them in areas where they can be easily seen.
Emotion management is an extremely important level. Many adults have very poor ability to manage emotions in daily life. This type of person is usually flammable and explosive, and a trivial matter can ignite his character. As soon as a bad word comes out, it will inevitably cause harm to others and endanger interpersonal communication. The worst effect is that when you lose your temper, you will feel the metabolism of substances that harm your body, and may even cause cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases. Therefore, to shape a better level of emotional management, we must start from the baby. Naturally, parents should be a role model for their children!