On September 26, He Junxiang was forced to stand on the cusp of a video of an interview last year.
In the interview, he boldly opened the wheat: "I hope that the third child will determine the rebirth of the son, and at seven or eight weeks, the gender can be determined first, and two daughters will be enough." ”
The reporter didn't seem to believe what he heard, and asked again: "What if it's a daughter?" ”
He Junxiang said: "If it is really a daughter, it is possible that she will not want to have a child. ”
Inside and outside the words, all of them revealed the idea of "beating it off if it is not a son".
This remark quickly caused a hot discussion on the Internet, and related terms also appeared on the hot search.
Among the criticisms, the remark that "having two daughters, it is normal to want a son" is particularly conspicuous.
There is nothing wrong with this sentence, but once it is combined with context, it will be found to be inappropriate.
Unsurprisingly, it was strongly opposed by netizens.
Leaving aside the fact that the woman has already given birth to two daughters, the act of fighting for three children simply for the sake of having a son not only obviously ignores the health of his wife, but also has a strong meaning of "son preference".
In fact, this is not the first time that He Junxiang has planted a head on the issue of children.
In September 2020, he revealed that his wife had a caesarean section two weeks in advance because she did not want her daughter to be a Virgo baby with "turtle hair".
Good guys, Virgos say there is connotation to.
This farce of "Hades" made the melon-eating masses cry and laugh: "The biggest impact on children is not the constellation, but the IQ of parents." ”
At the same time, He Junxiang also said that he would continue to have children with his wife, and if he could give birth to a few, he would give birth to a few." ”
Perhaps seeing that things are getting bigger and bigger, he finally can't sit still and apologize on social platforms.
Although it is not what one means to repeatedly state that the misconceptions that have been blurted out without much thought are not what one really means, it is clear that nothing will help.
What's more, in the eyes of most netizens, He Junxiang, who is suspected of cheating many times in marriage, is really not a responsible good husband.
After being exposed to singing with a strange woman for 10 hours in 2017, when he was promoted to fatherhood, in early 2020, he was photographed holding hands and hugging a long-haired girl on the street while his wife was pregnant with her second child, and his behavior was very intimate.
Subsequently, the agency responded that the two were friends, and they were more enthusiastic after drinking too much, but there was no other action to cross the boundaries of friends.
Obviously, this set of arguments does not convince the outside world: "It turns out that after drinking, you can mess with the opposite sex?" ”
The succession of negative public opinions also left the audience with little left of He Junxiang's childhood filter.
Nicknamed "Xiaomei", his appearance naturally has nothing to say, handsome to the point of coming out of a comic.
Whether it is Jiang Meng, who is domineering and bold in "The Devil is Around", or Jiang Ruohe, who is handsome and golden and polite in "Bullfighting, Or Not", he is all at his fingertips.
With the explosion of the work, He Junxiang has naturally become the youth memory of countless post-90s generations.
From Rainie Yang, Hebe, Zhang Junning to Wang Xinling, it can be called a "goddess harvester".
In June 2017, he announced the happy news of his marriage with his girlfriend without warning, and blew himself up that his daughter had been born for 4 months.
People familiar with the matter revealed that He Junxiang's marriage object was his first love.
The two began dating in high school, broke up and went around together again.
Fate is wonderfully indescribable.
Rainie Yang and many other friends sent sincere wishes on the same day.
The real He Junxiang is far from the affectionate character who must be you in the play.
This may also be one of the reasons why the public is so angry at his irresponsible remarks.
I have to admit that even in the entertainment industry, there has always been no shortage of artists with deep-rooted patriarchal ideas.
In April 2021, Lin Zhiying, the "immortal male god", used the golden shovel of the soil for the public "science popularization" on social platforms.
Placed under the bed is conducive to giving birth to children, giving birth to men on the front and giving birth to women on the opposite side.
Probably in order to prove that what he said was true, he deliberately brought out the example of himself and two friends.
Isn't it, isn't it, is there really a set of letters in 2021?
Netizens can not buy it: "It is recommended that the emblem of all infertility hospitals be replaced with a golden shovel, one three five turn the front, two four six turn the reverse." ”
What's more, he grabbed the words "three boys" in the dynamic and said bluntly: "Don't you like your daughter?" Why not put it in reverse? ”
After the entry #Who wants me to start a shovel that started the ground#, the comment section fell completely.
Lin Zhiying reacted and edited the original article, changing "boy" to "child", which showed that there was no silver here.
This feudal superstition and patriarchal remarks succeeded in pulling him off the altar, and he was often taken out and flogged repeatedly.
For most ordinary people, children and daughters are a manifestation of the fullness of life.
It is natural for public figures to want their children to be both.
After giving birth to a daughter and then wanting to have a son, it is not all patriarchal.
Before fastening this hat, you really need to think twice.
Huang Lei, who carefully cares for the growth of his two daughters, has been criticized for "son preference" many times because the third child is a boy.
Even if he repeatedly emphasizes his "preference for women over men" and "hopes that there are three sisters in the family" on variety shows, some netizens have always been unaccustomed to it.
In 2021, the Qing Dynasty will die long ago.
Obsessed with having a boy, is it because there is a throne waiting to be inherited in the family?
Both sons and daughters are gifts from Heaven.
It's also a pleasure to accept and grow with them.