#同传翻译##单亲妈妈##产后抑郁症##创业故事#
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My name is Li Shuang@ China-Japan simultaneous interpretation Li Shuangin Tokyo, born in the 80s, a single mother of two daughters. He currently lives in Tokyo, Japan, and is engaged in simultaneous translation and Japanese language teaching.
It is said that there are more than 2,000 simultaneous interpreters in the world, and it is known as "the first shortage of talents in the 21st century". I dropped out of school at the age of 13 and only had a primary school diploma. At the age of 15, he started as a dishwasher in a restaurant, was deceived by his first love into a pyramid scheme, and was sent to a psychiatric hospital twice.
With all kinds of experiences, I am like an unbeatable Xiaoqiang, step by step from a dishwasher in the back kitchen to a top translator in Chinese and Japanese simultaneous interpretation. Looking back, I am grateful to myself for constantly working hard to pursue my dreams.
(That's me)
I was born in a small village in Yongji County, Jilin Province. My parents are both farmers, and my sister and I have two children at home. Although my family was very poor, our family of four lived happily ever after, and this continued until I was in the fourth grade of primary school.
I love to learn, I have always been at the top of my class, and I dream of becoming a teacher in the future. When I was in the fourth grade, my mother had hepatitis B, and my mother had to get injections every day. I remember playing more than 70 hanging bottles in one summer vacation, and my family spent a lot of money to see my mother.
The house leak happened to rain overnight, and this sentence is a portrayal of my home. My mother's previous illness was not completely cured, and she had vasculitis. The terrible thing is that the people who had the same disease as their mother in the same hospital did not be cured and discharged in the end. Luckily, my mother eventually had one finger amputated and survived.
Because my mother was sick twice, all the family could sell out of money, and the debt was high, but at this time, the family's adobe house fell into disrepair for a long time, and the wall collapsed after a rainy day.
Our family of four didn't even have a complete shelter from the wind and rain, so my father had to be cheeky enough to borrow money to build a house again. My mother was sick and couldn't work, and the only labor force in the family was my father.
(Me and Mom and Dad)
It coincided with the beginning of the school season, and my family couldn't even take out the registration fee of more than 100 yuan. My parents said that smashing the pot and selling iron would also provide me with education, but how could the real difficulty be solved by selling the pot? The only cooking pot in the family is really smashed, and it's not worth 100 yuan.
I felt despair in my parents' expressions of loss, and I didn't want to embarrass my parents anymore and proposed not to go to school by myself. When I grew up, my dream of becoming a teacher came to an abrupt end at that moment, and I thought bitterly about death, and I didn't know what the meaning of my life was.
I thought about all sorts of ways to die: diving, hanging, using scissors. I want to find the least painful way to end my life with limited options.
Hearing a conversation between my parents, they regretted that I was not a boy, and if I were a boy, I could help the family. In order to prove that I am no worse than a boy, I no longer suffer from the loss of my dreams.
During that time, people said that I was like a different person. Other people's tractors and cows do the work, and my father and I do it by manpower. I don't know the pain, I don't know the tiredness, I feel like I'm numb to everything around me. I don't know where the petite body got so much power at that time.
In addition to helping the family, I also went to work in a restaurant in the town, because I was too young to stay in the back kitchen and wash dishes. Later, I went to restaurants in the county and city to serve dishes.
I'm a girl who is willing to express myself, and when I work in a restaurant, I introduce customers to high-end dishes that I haven't eaten before, which is a good exercise in my eloquence. Later, I went to the provincial capital to work as a wine salesman.
(Returning to my hometown in Northeast China to do farm work)
At that time, I was only sixteen or seventeen years old, and the liquor dealer gave each of the salesmen a bicycle, and I rode my bicycle all over the street to sell.
I remember that my family wanted to buy fertilizer, and my father had no money, so he called me. I had just joined the company, so I had to borrow 1,000 yuan from my boss to buy fertilizer for my father. In order to promote more products and make more money, I run business outside no matter whether it is windy or rainy.
After working so hard for about a year, I was tricked into going to Guangzhou by my first boyfriend. My first love and I met at a restaurant where we worked.
He was 21 years old, four years older than me. Everyone in the restaurant helped him chase me. Because he was rushing to get married, we were together for four months, and he thought I was too young, so he dumped me.
About half a year after the separation, he called me again and said that he was in Guangzhou and wanted me to go there too. Later, he colluded with others to lie to me, saying that he had been in a car accident and couldn't walk, and asked me to take care of him.
I went to Guangzhou only to find out that it was a pyramid scheme organization, and they lied to me. They brainwashed me every day, and I realized that without a real product, it is not feasible to just pull people.
I'm very sensible, so I'll analyze my opinion for a few people inside. Eventually, I was ready to flee and took two people out of the MLM organization when I left.
(When I was a girl)
After escaping from the MLM, I didn't want to just go home like that. Because I told my parents that I had come to Guangzhou to work, and that I was looking for a job in Guangzhou.
Without a degree, I had to look for a job in a restaurant. However, in Guangdong, people speak Cantonese, and I can't understand or speak it, so I can't clearly understand the customer's expression, and eventually the restaurant has to fire me.
I couldn't find a job in Guangzhou, so I went to Shenzhen, but the result was the same. I was devastated and came out of a restaurant, sat down on the side of the road and thought: I am Chinese, I can't find a job in my country because of the language barrier, I am so useless.
At this time, I saw a Japanese restaurant that was being renovated and was looking for a waiter, so I had the courage to come in and consult in order to find a job and survive.
Because he was fired again and again, he no longer had confidence in himself. When I entered the store, I introduced myself directly to the owner: "I don't know English or Cantonese. The boss replied, "As long as you can speak Japanese." When I heard this, my heart suddenly cooled.
But the boss said, "No, it doesn't matter, we can teach." "Because the new store was about to open, and no one was found yet, the boss kept me in a hurry and promised to eat and stay.
(Never stop learning)
The owner's words made me feel like I was grasping at a lifesaver, and I quickly moved into the dormitory provided by the restaurant. When I moved into the dormitory, I found out that the restaurant was closed at noon, so it didn't serve lunch. I had to find a way to make ends meet, so I went to work as an apprentice in a barber shop after working in a restaurant to settle for a lunch at noon.
The Japanese restaurant has not officially opened yet, and the owner taught us some Japanese sentences every day. You have to remember the next day, otherwise you will be deducted 5 yuan from your salary. In order not to let the boss deduct the money, I kept secretly memorizing Japanese during the day when I was an apprentice.
In this way, I came into contact with the Japanese language, and at first I was actually quite resistant to learning Japanese, but in order not to deduct money, I forced myself to study. Then one day, I realized that Japanese was actually very regular, and I immediately became enlightened, so I started to learn Japanese on my own initiative. I just taught myself a part.
After a few months of classes, I had a little money on me, so I enrolled in a Japanese language course. The class was held once a week for three or four hours at a time.
I have further mastered the methods and rules of learning Japanese in the class, and I have gained more confidence in learning Japanese. At that time, the basic salary was 800 yuan a month, and I was willing to give 300 yuan to study Japanese.
Now that I think about it, spending money to learn Japanese was my biggest investment back then. If I hadn't studied Japanese, I would still be a waitress at a restaurant.
My mother said that my life was deceived step by step by others, and this is indeed the case. When a distant aunt found out that I was studying Japanese, she lied to me and told me that there was a university in Beijing that I could go to without taking the exam, and I could get a university diploma after graduation.
(Everything is inferior, only reading is high)
Before I went to school in Beijing, I did a detailed survey to find out how much my salary would increase if I got the first level of the Japanese Language Proficiency Test. I remember that there was a company where the salary of a Japanese translator was 3,000 yuan.
I imagined that I wouldn't have to work as a waiter when I came back after learning Japanese, and that I would be able to rest on weekends after becoming a white-collar worker in the company, and waiters are the busiest on weekends. Thinking of this, I went to school in Beijing with confidence.
Before leaving, a few Japanese people I met at the restaurant gave me a send-off party. At that time, I used to communicate with them in the Japanese that I had just learned, with the lips of a donkey not the mouth of a horse. They were very supportive of my schooling, and one of them told me that I could work as a translator in their company after I finished my studies.
When I came to Beijing in high spirits, I found that I had been deceived by my aunt, who called me over to get a commission of 1,000 yuan. After half a year of study, I found that I had already learned all the Japanese I had learned, and two-thirds of the time was spent studying public classes, so I felt that it was a waste of time and thought of skipping a grade, but the school did not allow me to skip a grade.
After half a year at that school, I returned to Shenzhen.
When I returned to Shenzhen, I was embarrassed to meet the Japanese people who gave me food, and one of them recommended that I go to a school in Heilongjiang to learn Japanese. He said that the school was cheap and only studied Japanese, which was a perfect fit for me to go to. That's how I started my full-fledged Japanese studies.
At Heilongjiang School, I started directly from the intermediate level of Japanese and studied for a total of eight months. In the middle of the summer vacation, I took only 500 yuan to go to Shanghai to work as a translator for a company.
Later, the boss recognized me, saying that although I was young and inexperienced, he saw perseverance in my eyes.
(Government promotion and interpretation work site)
In the second semester, my sister also came to study Japanese. In order to pay for my sister's tuition, I returned to work at a Japanese restaurant in Shenzhen as soon as I graduated, but I became the manager and my salary increased a little.
Once, I met a Japanese man who asked me to work as a translator at his company after I finished my studies, and he said to me sharply, "Did you spend so much time and so much effort learning Japanese just to become a waiter and become a store manager?" His question left me speechless.
He said, "I can lend you your sister's tuition first, and you will have to pay me back in the future!" "I think the Japanese have a point, I should look higher and farther.
At that time, I dreamed of becoming a translator. After finding a job as a translator at a garment factory, I quit my job from a Japanese restaurant.
In the factory floor, I saw sewing workers from the same poor background as me, working overtime to earn a little more wages. However, when the working environment and treatment could not be improved, I was very disappointed with the factory and decided to resign and go to Shanghai to develop.
I vividly remember that when I was leaving, a young Japanese man in the factory said to me, "There is no place for a rural girl like you in a big city like Shanghai!" "I didn't refute it, because I wanted to prove it with real actions.
When I came to Shanghai, it was really difficult to find a job because I had no academic qualifications. I had to start working part-time at a Japanese restaurant and looking for a job while working. A lot of resumes are lost because I was eliminated because I saw my academic qualifications on my resume.
The turnaround came from a customer who was eating at a restaurant and said to me, "I just came from Japan and need an assistant translator." You are so good at Japanese, do you want to come to our company for an interview? ”
So, I went to their company for an interview, because at that time, he asked the company for a salary of 4,000 yuan for the translation assistant, and I only needed 3,000 yuan for the interview, and the interviewer left me on the spot.
(Take your children to Nara Park to experience the beauty of nature during the holidays)
I remember that the interviewer at the final interview was a Japanese-Korean, and when he saw my Japanese level 2 transcript, he said, "You have more than 80 points in words, and you can score 96 points in the listening test if you have never been to Japan." "I thought he was going to praise me. Unexpectedly, he said, "It proves that you haven't been studying for a long time." ”
I was shocked at the time, how did he know that I was studying for a short time? And you can see it at a glance. That's probably what people call insight. He told me that I didn't study for a long time, so I still had to study hard when I came to the company.
I had worked as a salesperson before, so I was brave when I was interviewed, saying, "It's true that I don't know anything, but I'm confident in my ability to learn." "They ended up hiring me.
I worked at that company for eight months and eventually quit because my job was idle. I can basically do all the work in the morning, and I have to sit silly and wait for the end of the afternoon to get off work.
And there was my immediate boss sitting behind me, looking at the sun outside, I was sitting in the cubicle like a prison, and it was so painful.
I decided to quit my job from that company because I met a noble man, who was a Japanese grandfather. He asked me to teach him Chinese, and I felt that I had graduated from primary school and could not teach Chinese well.
But the old man was very persistent, he said that I speak Mandarin so well in the Northeast, I must be able to teach it well. He offered to give me 100 yuan for 90 minutes and invited me to a meal.
So, I started teaching my grandfather to learn Chinese, and later he introduced several students. When I found out that I could teach Japanese people to learn Chinese, I posted my recruitment advertisements in newspapers that Japanese people read. Because there are no middlemen, my prices are cheap, and soon many people come to me to study.
I quit my job at the company, and one day, I suddenly realized that I had actually achieved my dream of becoming a teacher. Although I am not an elementary school student, nor a middle school student, nor a college student, I am also a teacher who teaches Japanese people to speak Chinese.
At the age of 20, I went round and round and finally fulfilled my childhood dream. From 2006 to 2012, I worked as a Chinese teacher for 6 years.
(I am the interpreter of the lecture of Professor Tokyo)
When I was busy, I actually taught up to 10 hours a day, and at that time I was teaching Chinese full-time, and occasionally teaching Japanese.
Because there was no time to rest at all, my body was exhausted. Once, after class, I fainted in the elevator, and it was the staff of the teaching company who carried me to the taxi and drove me home.
In fact, these hardships are not as bitter as when I was a waiter. I remember that the hardest time was in a 24-hour restaurant, the boss couldn't recruit anyone to change shifts with me, so I worked 72-hour shifts alone. I was so sleepy that I lay on the table and squinted for a while.
Then I started to have nosebleeds, and when I plugged my nostrils with paper, the blood came out of my mouth. The boss asked me to go to the doctor, but I was reluctant to spend money and didn't even dare to go to the hospital.
Even if I worked so hard, my boss didn't pay me when I left, and some people were so ruthless and cold-blooded. The various beatings I received in society as a teenager also made me resilient and persevering.
After I got a stable job in Shanghai, I also got my first-level Japanese certificate. When I was 23 years old, I wanted to take my frail mother to live with me in Shanghai, borrowed a lot of money for a down payment, and bought my first house in the suburbs.
(Me during pregnancy)
I met my ex-husband because of a Japanese student. At that time, my ex-husband and my students were friends, and they both came to study in China. We went to eat crayfish together and got to know each other. He is 1.83 meters tall, four years older than me, and looks like a Korean star.
He studied in Hangzhou, studied Chinese medicine, and asked me to go to Hangzhou to play. We walked by the West Lake, and the romantic atmosphere suddenly brought me closer to him.
After shopping, he will fetch hot water for me to soak my feet, cook and wash clothes. Because I had rhinitis, he massaged me and I had a feeling of being taken care of.
Because my parents have a good relationship, I have longed for marriage since I was a child, and I especially like children. I have been wandering since I was a child, and I also want to have a home of my own as soon as possible.
At the beginning, my ex-husband's father didn't approve of our relationship, and my ex-husband told me every day, "If I can't marry you, I'll die." I said, "It's your dad who doesn't agree, you should convince your dad." It's not that I don't want to marry you! You shouldn't threaten me every day. ”
At that time, I felt that he was unreliable, but I thought that he was still young, and he might be mature when he got married, and maybe he would have a sense of responsibility when he became a father. Things turned out to push us to finally get married and live together.
We held weddings in Shanghai, Northeast China, and Japan, which made my dream of wearing a wedding dress come true.
There are all kinds of signs of disharmony in his married life: for example, at the wedding in Shanghai, none of his friends came, and after the wedding, he half-jokingly said that half of the money should be shared with him. We went on our honeymoon, I paid for flights and hotels, and at the airport I wanted to buy a book, and he counted the junk books I bought. All kinds of disharmony have sown the seeds of misfortune in our marriages.
(Me at the work site)
After getting married, he was still studying abroad, and I was pregnant. He graduated in July and August, my due date was at the end of September, and we planned to give birth in Japan, but the hospital in Shanghai did not file for me, so I flew to Japan for a pregnancy test alone.
When I went for a pregnancy test in May, I went to Japan as usual without even bringing a change of clothes. However, the results of the pregnancy test were reported by the doctor, who told me that there were signs of threatened miscarriage and that there was a possibility of miscarriage on the plane if I had taken a flight. Therefore, you can't fly, work, or even do housework, and you have to lie down and raise your baby quietly.
I was unprepared and lived alone in my ex-husband's house in Japan.
His family in rural Japan has a father-in-law, sister-in-law, brother-in-law, and grandmother. I don't even know their names, so I have to live with them.
At that time, I didn't have a smartphone, I didn't have a computer, I couldn't work, I had to wait for the baby. I felt like a person who had been thinking about it through and through.
On the days when I was raising a baby at his house, my ex-husband was not at home, and I lived with a group of strangers. I can't work, I don't socialize, I can't shop.
Even when I watched TV, my grandmother occupied the remote control alone, and I couldn't change the channel, and sometimes I would be driven back to the bedroom. My father-in-law has a very strong and domineering personality, and my personality is also very strong, so I have been unhappy many times.
The eating habits were also different, and since I was pregnant, I had almost nothing to eat. The only thing I could eat was spicy cabbage, and my mother-in-law thought I loved cabbage when she saw this, and I thought to myself what else I could eat besides cabbage.
(Street photography in Tokyo)
In this way, I was "detained" at my ex-husband's house for 5 months. The only thing I could do was read books, and I found that many of the books in my ex-husband's house made people depressed.
My ex-husband also said that he had depression, and he also admitted that depression was contagious. At that time, because I was so ignorant, I didn't think it was a cold, how could it be contagious?
We have different values and worldviews, and he often says some negative things to me, which corrodes and collapses the belief in marriage and family that I have established in my heart little by little.
After the child was born, I wanted to buy milk powder, and before I was discharged from the hospital, my ex-husband actually said to me: "You have to pay me back the milk powder after you work." I couldn't help but laugh when I heard this, is this what a new father should say?
Later I decided I had postpartum depression. There was a time when I wanted to jump off the building with my baby in my arms, thinking that I had brought my baby into the world and made her suffer in this world in the future, and I was sorry for the child and wanted to end this.
Later, I had a nervous breakdown and ended up fainting on the street. When the ambulance came, the doctor asked what department to send to, and my ex-husband said psychiatric department, saying that I was mentally abnormal since I gave birth.
When I got to the hospital, the doctor asked me what was wrong? It's been 5 months and for the first time someone asked me what's wrong? All the grievances in my heart exploded like a flood and began to complain about what happened during this time. For 5 months, I didn't dare to tell my family what happened to me, I was afraid that they would be worried, that I was so strong, and that I was afraid of being laughed at.
(Me and my daughter)
Doctors determined that I was manic and suicidal, and I was stripped naked by the paramedics, changed into their hospital gown and disposable diapers, took everything from me, and was locked up in a small room.
There are omnidirectional cameras in the room that monitor my every move. The doctor would give me the kind of medicine that weakened my body and made me go into a lethargic state.
My ex-husband and mother-in-law came to see me in the hospital, and I knelt and begged them to let me go home, and I wanted to go back to my country, and I wanted to see my mother. They said I was sick and I needed to be treated first, and I said I wasn't sick, I was just too homesick.
I felt like I wouldn't have anything to do if he just let me go home. But instead of letting me go home, he put me in a mental hospital, so I hated him for a long time.
When I was still in a mental hospital, I filed for divorce, and I begged him to divorce me and give me my freedom. But my ex-husband told me, "After the divorce, you can't get a share of my family's property." I laughed out loud and replied, "I don't want anything!" ”
When he signed, he said that he was the victim, and I said that when I made money, I would compensate you, and my ex-husband immediately asked me to say it again, and took out his mobile phone to prepare to shoot and collect evidence.
This marriage experience and the years that followed to lower my posture infinitely in order to see my daughter became an unbreakable knot in my heart, which led to my second mental breakdown and hospitalization many years later.
(Translation practice with Japanese interpreters)
After the divorce, he took away custody of the child, and in order to see the child, I had to go to Japan again to work hard after my body recovered.
However, I tried my best to give birth to all the children I had, and they didn't let them call me mom, and they could only call me "Tokyo's sister". Every time I traveled seven or eight hours round trip by train to see my children, they only gave me two hours to spend time with them, and they were often deliberately late.
In order to live in Tokyo, I had no choice but to start a business in Tokyo without a spouse visa. In 2013, I established the Ziyan International Cultural Center in Tokyo.
The company's translation business and Japanese language teaching business are thriving, and more and more jobs are being received, and the business is on the right track. However, my love path is still not smooth.
Five years after the divorce, I met my second daughter's father at work, and I was destined to miss him. I got pregnant after 2 months of dating, and when I told the other party the news, he said that he had no money to raise me and wanted me to have a baby. It is a lifelong regret that I could not grow up with my eldest daughter, and I will never give up on my second child. When the other party saw that I was determined to give birth, they disappeared into my world for fear of responsibility.
In the end, I gave birth to Erbao alone in a foreign country and became an unmarried single mother raising a baby alone. Fortunately, I have lived in Tokyo for many years, and I have a Shanghai aunt who often helps me take care of the baby. There is also a Japanese aunt, whether it is when I give birth or after I have a child, she is like a mother in a foreign country, she often enlightens me and helps me accompany me.
When I was sad, I didn't dare to call my mother in China, but I could call my Japanese aunt to confide in me, and I could cry freely on the phone.
(Daughter and fawn)
Before the pandemic, I set up Shuanghua Shoen by the Ueno Lotus Pond in Tokyo.
When I first founded, my career was still in its infancy, and I had a lot of work to do, and I was under a lot of pressure to work alone. It was precisely the Japanese aunt who was like a mother who also left this world at this time because of a recurrence of cancer. When she was seriously ill, I was unable to save her, and it became a regret in my heart that I could not last to see her and accompany her at the end.
The loss of the aunt who had always helped me, my wandering soul seemed to have no support, the depression in my heart could not be released, and the hurt of my failed marriage many years ago pricked my nerves again.
The pressure of starting a business, the helplessness of taking care of a baby alone, and the harm that my ex-husband brought me...... One day I suddenly started having auditory and visual hallucinations.
I remember the first time I called my ex-husband after the divorce and screamed and asked him to apologize to me. When I couldn't cry after hearing my ex-husband's "I'm sorry", I was actually relieved.
Later, because of my severe auditory hallucinations, I often wandered aimlessly along the sounds I heard, and was sent to a mental hospital by my relatives. The students of Shuanghua Academy thought that I had run away with the money, and they scolded me and cursed me on the Internet, and I encountered unprecedented cyberbullying.
I came forward to explain that the photos taken in the hospital were taken and they said that I directed and acted on my own. I refunded them the rest of the tuition fees, but they still didn't give up, and I later found out that it was all the trolls who were building momentum.
(Provide translation services for the whole process of Moutai Japan Tour)
Because of my illness, my Shuanghua Academy ended in entrepreneurial failure. In order to pay off my debts, I sold my property in the suburbs of Shanghai, and after paying off my foreign debts, I returned to my hometown in Northeast China to recuperate. Just happened to encounter the epidemic, my parents took care of me like a child, and that time also made me feel the love of my parents again.
Seeing the people suffering due to the epidemic on TV, it was extremely heartbroken and at the same time, it slowly became clearer. Compared with the people who are suffering, I feel that I should be content when I see that I am healthy, have food and drink, have family company, and have some savings on my card after the house is sold. I told myself to live in the moment.
After my body recovered, I returned to Tokyo, Japan. Because Japan has my eldest daughter, and Tokyo still has my career, the translation company Ziyan International Cultural Center is still there.
When I first came back, the epidemic was not completely over, and when I was not busy with work, I copied the Prajnaparamita Heart Sutra every day, and read various world classics with my youngest daughter.
The excellent translation skills accumulated for more than ten years have won recognition again and again, and my current clients are all repeat customers or old customers.
Recently, I have had the privilege of serving as a simultaneous interpreter for many important occasions. Many of them are translators for former national leaders, well-known scholars and professors, well-known enterprises, and celebrities. In addition, I also served as a translator and moderator of the Chinese Film Week at the Tokyo Film Festival.
(Quite a translation for the previous one)
At present, there are hundreds of registered translators in my translation company, and nearly 50 students have graduated from the interpreting training camp. I brought my youngest daughter with me and lived in Tokyo with my children, and I lived a fulfilling and happy life.
Others say that I am a golden phoenix flying out of a mountain village, and only I know the hardships and efforts I have put in to pursue my dreams.
I have always used Steve Jobs's philosophy of life to motivate myself: life is a process of connecting the dots, and it is impossible to connect the thread to the future from the present point. It's only when you look back that you realize that these past points have actually drawn that line. So, believe that sooner or later every dot will be connected.
Looking back on my life, isn't it just that the dots are connected and finally become a line? Every point of life represents a form of the present, and a beautiful life is formed by connecting one form after another.
Wherever life has passed, it will definitely leave traces. Therefore, when you encounter difficulties, please connect those points in your life little by little, and see the meaning of each point, and believe that we will be able to experience the beauty of life one day.
(Welcome to the protagonist "Li Shuang: Sino-Japanese Simultaneous Translation")
[Dictation: Li Shuang]
[Written by: Zhou Zhou]
[Editor: Wuxi Wu]
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