Mo Yan said: When a person is not going well, he has to throw away 5 things
I want to use Mo Yan's mouth to talk about the things that need to be thrown away when things are good or bad in a person's life. In real life, people often face difficulties and challenges, and those are the times when we are most likely to lose our minds and determination. We need to learn to discard the five things that are not going well for us, what are these things? Listen to me slowly.
First of all, the first thing to discard is: useless complaining.
In life, everyone will encounter difficulties and setbacks, but the attitude towards difficulties is very different. Some people will choose to complain, constantly complain about their own misfortune and the injustice of others, and even use these negative emotions to affect the people around them. Others, on the other hand, choose to face problems positively and learn from their failures to become stronger. Complaining won't get us out of trouble, it will only make us more negative and more confused. Therefore, we must learn to discard useless complaints and face life's challenges with a positive attitude.
Second, the second thing to discard is: meaningless disputes.
In our dealings with people, we inevitably encounter disagreements. However, there are times when we argue over an inconsequential issue and even hurt each other's feelings. In fact, these meaningless arguments only make us more tired and anxious, and we can't focus on solving the problem. Therefore, we must learn to discard meaningless disputes, deal with differences in life with a calm mind, and solve problems in a more rational way.
Third, discarding the third thing is: superfluous anxiety.
In modern society, people are often faced with tremendous pressure, which comes from various aspects such as work, family, and interpersonal relationships. Anxiety is our response to stress, but excessive anxiety can make us lose our sanity and calm, and we can't cope with life's challenges. Therefore, we must learn to discard superfluous anxiety, face the stresses of life with a peaceful mind, and maintain inner peace and calm.
Fourth, the fourth thing to discard is: superfluous worries.
Worry is a kind of worry and anxiety about the future, but excessive worry can prevent us from enjoying the present and facing the challenges of the future. Therefore, we must learn to discard superfluous worries, face the uncertainties in life with a positive attitude, and maintain inner optimism and self-confidence.
Finally, the fifth thing to discard is: misconceptions.
Sometimes, we get stuck because of some wrong ideas, which may be about the meaning of life, values, life goals, and so on. If we persist in these misconceptions, we will lead us down the wrong path and even lose our way. Therefore, we must learn to discard wrong ideas, face the challenges in life with the right way of thinking and values, and make ourselves wiser and more determined.
Mo Yan said: "When you feel lost in life, throw away these five things." In our lives, when we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we should not indulge in negative emotions too much, do not waste time and energy on meaningless disputes, and do not be bound by anxiety and worry. Learn to let go of these negative emotions, maintain a positive attitude, and move towards the future with a more determined pace.
Here, I would like to quote a famous quote: "Life is like a marathon, not in the instant explosion, but in the perseverance on the way." On the road of life, we will encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges, but as long as we maintain a positive attitude and keep going, we will definitely be able to reach the end.
Therefore, when you feel lost in life, throw away these five things, face the challenges in life with a positive attitude, believe in yourself, believe in the future, and you will definitely be able to move towards a better life.
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