Life is like a lamp that illuminates the road ahead, and it may also extend the shadow of darkness infinitely. The violent education and cold violence of a family have forced a tragic tragedy of a sister and brother, which is heartbreaking. This family conflict caused by her sister Yi Ting's report on her father's surrogacy originated from a seemingly ordinary family.
Parents Yi Jianqiang and Chen Ying were originally from the countryside, and later started a business from scratch in the city, and their lives were not bad. They have a pair of children, Yi Ting and Yi Jingbo, who have excelled in character and learning since childhood, and can be described as the pride of their parents. But this seemingly happy family is brewing a family tragedy behind the scenes.
The desire of parents to succeed is too strong, and they put all this expectation on their children. Yi Ting and Yi Jingbo are not allowed to do anything except study hard, and they are under tremendous mental pressure all year round. The oppression and education of her parents directly led to Yi Ting's depression in her sophomore year, while Yi Jingbo had thoughts of self-harm and suicide in high school.
At that time, the school teachers and classmates had contacted Yi Ting, hoping that she could save her younger brother, but because she was far away, she couldn't do it. On December 6, 2021, Yi Jingbo jumped off Shanghai at the age of 18. A young life with a bright future withered in the shadow of the family.
The grief-stricken Yi Ting thought that at least her younger brother had been liberated, but she didn't expect her father to want to have another son, and even did not hesitate to embark on the illegal road of surrogacy. "The death of my younger brother obviously hasn't brought my parents to their senses, and they don't realize that there is something wrong with their own education!"
Yi Ting said helplessly, "If another younger brother is born in this family, I really can't imagine what kind of torture he will suffer." So, despite the anger of her parents, Yi Ting resolutely decided to report her father's surrogacy with her real name. Not only does she have to defend the law, but she also has to take action to stop the family from harming innocent lives again.
Looking back on the fate of the two siblings, it can't help but make people sigh. Since childhood, he has been strictly restrained by his parents and demanded in every way, even if his grades are good, he is always scolded and beaten. Yi Ting recalls those nightmarish days, as if she was in a cage isolated from the outside world. "The more demanding our parents are, the more we fear failure. But every time he does something wrong, he will be severely scolded, punched and kicked. "
"We are like a pair of imprisoned birds, deprived of our freedom and happiness, living in never-ending fear. And Yi Jingbo directly suffered the impact of all family conflicts. After Yi Ting went abroad, his parents' expectations and pressure on him were extremely high. This supposedly carefree teenager spends his days depressed, immersed in loneliness and despair.
What's even more heart-wrenching is that parents don't seem to understand what mental health is. When Yi Jingbo was clearly depressed and self-harming, they not only did not understand and comfort him, but instead denied his son's illness and even put the child under house arrest. How suffocating is such a family atmosphere?
Faced with the death of her younger brother, Yi Ting's heart was like a knife, but she was more disappointed and angry with her parents. Even when his younger brother disappeared before his death, his father did not take this as a warning, but planned to use illegal means to "make up" his last son, which made Yi Ting completely disappointed. "I don't expect my parents to reflect on their own education methods, but at least don't hurt innocent lives anymore!"
Yi Ting said bitterly, "My brother has just left, and they want to find another replacement, not out of nostalgia for my brother, but simply because they want to have a son." But they simply don't realize that they are the bane of all this tragedy. "
In the face of this family tragedy, we should reflect on our own education methods. In the process of raising children, do parents give them sufficient care and respect? Are you really listening to your child's inner world? Only by starting from oneself and guiding children's growth in the right way can we avoid the intensification of family conflicts and the recurrence of tragedies.
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