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Pan Yueming, a film and television star who was once known as the "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" by the public, and Dong Jie, a newcomer in the music industry, are now mired in a protracted divorce dispute.
Recently, Pan Yueming published an emotional article on his personal social media, once again presenting some of Dong Jie's behaviors in front of the public.
He affectionately expressed that since he separated from Dong Jie, he has been unable to see his son Dingding, who was conceived together. Whether it is his son's birthday, or important festivals such as the Spring Festival and National Day, he can't spend quality time with his son.
On the occasion of Dingding's birthday, Pan Yueming can only post a photo of a calf and a balloon through Weibo, as a way to express his deep blessings to his son.
On the other hand, Dong Jie, during the recording of Hunan Satellite TV's parent-child reality show "Mom is Superman", she showed an extreme desire for possession of her son Dingding.
In the show, Dong Jie frequently spoiled and lost her temper with the seven-year-old Dingding, and even tried to compare her son with her future daughter-in-law to see who was more beautiful and moving.
Such a parent-child relationship seems to be extremely tense, and people can't help but be suspicious. Apparently, innocent children become victims of the breakdown of their parents' marriages, and they suffer great pain and hurt to fall victim to this divorce battle.
If we want to trace the source of Pan Yueming and Dong Jie's marriage crisis, we have to go back to October 20, 2012.
First of all, Dong Jie insists that she is an excellent wife and mother, while her husband Pan Yueming has neglected family responsibilities for a long time and lacks love for his children.
Secondly, Dong Jie also accused Pan Yueming of cheating many times, and even having intimate behaviors with actresses in the same crew, and also indulging in gambling, resulting in the squandering of family property.
Faced with such a serious accusation from Dong Jie, Pan Yueming immediately responded, and he firmly denied all his wife's false statements. Pan Yueming claimed that as early as a year ago, Dong Jie's entire income had been transferred to her parents' account, and he alone took on the financial responsibility of the entire family.
However, Pan Yueming's explanation did not alleviate the situation, but instead triggered a more intense "war of words" between the two sides. Dong Jie posted a rebuttal again, and Pan Yueming did not flinch, the two of them came and went, revealing each other's old past.
Pan Yueming and Dong Jie, a famous couple who were once praised by the media as golden boys and girls, have now announced the end of their married life in such a tragic way.
This year-long divorce dispute is like a mirror that illuminates the trajectory of the relationship between the two, presenting the contradictions and rifts between them in front of the public at a glance.
Tracing back to the roots, we can deeply understand the deep fate between these two stars who are recognized as "golden boys and girls" - Pan Yueming and Dong Jie.
Dong Jie, a woman born in 1980, comes from an ordinary working family, however, she has shown a well-behaved, cute, and tenacious personality since she was a child, and has never brought any worries to her parents.
In order to shape their daughter's artistic temperament, Dong's father and Dong's mother preferred to cut down on food and clothing, and sent Dong Jie, who was only ten years old, to a dance training class for rigorous training.
They did not have high expectations, just hoped that their daughter could grow into a well-bred and excellent woman, however, the goddess of fate favored Dong Jie, and at the age of ten, with her unremitting efforts, she successfully entered the special enrollment of the Dance Department of the Chinese People's Liberation Army Art Academy, and embarked on a long and challenging dance road.
When Dong Jie turned 16 years old, she won the precious opportunity to appear on CCTV's Spring Festival Gala with her pure and lovely appearance and elegant and generous dancing.
Although she is only an insignificant actor, this rare experience opened the door to her acting career, and since then, she has traveled around, participated in the filming of many advertising works, and gradually broke out of her own world in the entertainment industry.
In contrast, Pan Yueming grew up in a scholarly family. Since his student days, he has shown outstanding literary and artistic talents, becoming the most active member of his class, and has made guest appearances in many TV dramas during his time at school.
Until 1999, Pan Yueming made his debut on the big screen with his first starring film "Very Summer", which attracted widespread attention from all walks of life.
At the end of September 2008, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie held a simple and warm wedding in the capital Beijing, officially entering the life stage of the newlywed Yan'er.
This pair of showbiz couples, known as the "Golden Boy and Jade Girl", have finally achieved positive results after years of passionate long-distance love and have worked together to spend a better future.
A new husband and wife story is born here! Soon after marriage, the baby's son was born, adding a richer sense of happiness to this originally happy little family.
This newlywed life is full of laughter and laughter, filled with an intoxicating sweet atmosphere, but the sky is unpredictable, life does not give them a chance to breathe, tragedy strikes, just three months after the birth of his son, Pan Yueming was suddenly in a serious car accident during the filming of the TV series, his lungs were severely damaged, and he was in danger and was forced to be hospitalized for treatment.
In the face of her husband's sudden disaster, Dong Jie showed a strong tenacity. She bravely took on the responsibility of the family, taking care of the children during the day, and sticking to her husband's side at night, using her own strength to maintain this crumbling family.
Fortunately, after a long period of treatment and recuperation, Pan Yueming finally overcame the illness and returned to work, however, many film and television dramas he starred in after his comeback did not receive the expected attention and failed to recover his former glory.
In order to break through himself, Pan Yueming decided to challenge to play some roles with the image of "tough guys", but the results were not satisfactory. After the divorce, the development trajectory of Pan Yueming and Dong Jie's careers has changed significantly.
For Pan Yueming, this is a period full of hardships and a long cold reception, due to the divorce incident has had a great negative impact on his public image, coupled with the lackluster response of his previous works, he has no scenes to shoot for a long time, and his career has fallen into a trough.
What's even more tragic is that just a few months before the divorce broke out, Dong Jie had quietly taken away their son Dingding. As a father, Pan Yueming can no longer witness his son's growth process, which is undoubtedly a heavy blow to his soul.
On the other hand, after the divorce, Dong Jie also faced a low point in her career, and in 2013, her intimate photos with Wang Dazhi were exposed on the Internet, which attracted widespread attention As the once loved "Leng Qingqiu" by the audience, Dong Jie's innocent image collapsed overnight, and was even ridiculed by netizens as "Dong Jinlian".
In order to return to the screen and try to get rid of the negative impact of this turmoil, Dong Jie bravely chose to challenge herself and set foot in the field of TV dramas for the first time, appearing in public as the role of a psychiatrist who is obsessed with the male protagonist.
However, this courageous decision did not bring the expected success, but instead caused her to be subjected to more fierce criticism and questioning, and people speculated that she was "acting in her true colors".
However, in the face of these difficulties and setbacks, Dong Jie did not give up, but continued to move forward firmly. In the following years, she starred in many high-profile hit dramas, such as "The Legend of Ruyi" and "Macau Family", and also actively participated in the recording of Hunan Satellite TV's popular variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves".
Despite her great efforts in each performance, her acting skills are still controversial, and her personal reputation has not been substantially improved.
In addition to the troubles in her acting career, Dong Jie's role as a mother in family life is also controversial. Since the divorce, her son Dingding has been raised by her.
In the process of recording parent-child variety shows, she showed an excessive desire to control her son, frequently spoiled and lost her temper with her son, and even tried to compare her son with her future daughter-in-law in order to prove her superiority, and this abnormal mother-son relationship has attracted widespread attention.
At the same time, Pan Yueming's acting career ushered in a new turning point in 2017. That year, the online drama "Chasing the Murderer in the White Night" starring him won a warm response from the audience as soon as it was broadcast, and Pan Yueming successfully created two completely different character images with his superb acting skills, thus establishing his important position in the Mesozoic acting school.
Since then, Pan Yueming has successively starred in many excellent film and television works such as "Angry Qing Xiangxi", "Longling Grotto", "Yunnan Worm Valley" and so on. With the continuous improvement of the quality of his works, Pan Yueming has once again won the love of a large number of audiences and has become a highly respected and powerful actor, and his personal career has also been back on track.