There is not only a bride price for getting married, but also a change of mouth fee, a drop-off fee, a red envelope and so on. For the average family, in addition to the bride price, other things are a bride head, just give a little.
These things are generally said in advance, the two parties communicate well, and there will generally be no accidents on the wedding day, but there is another situation that the newlyweds cannot grasp, that is, the temporary price increase.
A few days ago, the 28,800 yuan getting off fee incident of the bride in Shangqiu, Henan Province, which caused a stir.
On the day of the wedding, when getting off the bus, the bride's best friend encouraged the bride to ask for 28,800 yuan to get off the bus, otherwise they would not get off.
The groom said that it was too sudden, and he didn't prepare so much, so he got out of the car first, and then he made up for it. After hearing this, the bride was about to get out of the car, but her best friend refused to accept it, and instigated the bride to insist on not getting out of the car unless she gave money immediately.
The groom patiently persuaded and said all the good things, and after a stalemate for half an hour, the bride still did not get out of the car.
Someone on Sina's side couldn't stand it anymore and scolded his girlfriend. As soon as the bride saw that her best friend was scolded, she went up and slapped the scolder.
Unexpectedly, the other party was not to be outdone, and he didn't care about the identity of the bride, and immediately hit the bride back.
In this way, the two sides parted unhappily.
It stands to reason that the bride price and all the gifts should be as agreed before the marriage, and the wedding day should not be changed, or even temporary changes should be used to test the feelings between the two.
You must know that feelings can't stand the test at all, not to mention the issues of money and integrity.
Things have come to this point, and it's clear that the wedding can't go ahead. Impulsively, the bride decided to repent of her marriage and left the wedding scene with her best friend and others.
In this way, a marriage that was supposed to be good was disrupted. The groom expressed his disappointment at the bride's behavior.
After the matter fermented, the bride and her best friend were pushed to the forefront of the crusade.
Soon, some netizens who claimed to be the bride's best friend came out to apologize.
She explained that according to the local customs of Shangqiu, Henan, when the bride gets off the bus, the groom should give a certain disembarkation ceremony, which represents the groom's respect and blessing to the bride.
At that time, it may not have been clearly expressed, and the differences between different regions and cultures were not taken into account, which led to this farce.
My best friend said that she was sorry and hoped that everyone could forgive her and stop talking about this matter.
At the same time, she also responded to the statement on the Internet that "girlfriends don't want friends to have a good time", saying that as the bride's best friend, she always hopes that her wedding can go smoothly and happily.
They respect and abide by local customs and traditions, and hope to receive everyone's blessings and support. Of course, she has also realized that everyone's cultural background and concept are different, and we should face each other's differences with a more tolerant and understanding attitude.
For this set of rhetoric, netizens did not buy it, feeling that no matter what customs, it could not be a reason for a temporary price increase.
Later, some netizens broke the news that the bride now regrets it and has brought her parents to the door to ask for forgiveness.
But in the end, after this incident, the groom was also disappointed in the bride, demanding the return of all the bride price and three golds, and refusing to reunite.
In fact, whether it is a bride price or a fare, there are customs in various places that can be understood, but the premise is that you must have basic integrity, since you have said it in advance, you can't find all kinds of excuses to change the hexagram on the wedding day, which is disrespectful to yourself and disrespectful to others.
Especially on the wedding day, so many relatives and friends are present, so it is really undesirable to put pressure on the other half.
Marriage is not the end, but another starting point of life, if you don't even have the most basic honesty, how can you manage your married life in the next few decades?
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