There is a strong woman wearing two pairs of slippers in Rizhao, Shandong, her name is Dong Mingying, because she was sick when she was a child, she can only crawl on all fours since she was 3 years old.
Later, Dong Mingying married a man who was 22 years older than herself, and gave birth to two daughters despite dissuasion, so she was also called "crawling mother", how is she doing now?
Rural girls are looked down upon at school because they are disabled by a cold
Dong Mingying was born in 1985, his hometown is located in Dahedong Village, Zhaoxian Town, Rizhao City, Shandong Province, and his parents are authentic farmers in the village. The husband and wife have a total of three children, Dong Mingying is the second, and there is an older sister and a younger brother.
Dong Mingying, who has just turned one year old, looks white and very cute, and after her parents took her second daughter out, she grinned when she saw everyone. The villagers also liked this girl very much, and the elderly man also said that this little girl was very blessed at first sight.
There are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck, but Dong Mingying, who had just passed her first birthday, suddenly had an accident, which also changed the fate of her life.
Children have poor resistance, and are prone to colds and high fevers during the change of seasons, and parents have encountered this situation before, thinking that they will be fine if they feed their children fever-reducing medicine.
Who knew that Dong Mingying's body temperature dropped after taking the medicine, and after two or three hours, she had a high fever, and her parents were worried about burning the child's brain, so they hurriedly took her to the hospital in the town.
In the 80s, the hospital in the town had poor medical conditions and no various examination equipment, and after a simple test and laboratory test, the doctor judged that the little girl was an ordinary fever and cold, and the injection of antibiotics could solve the problem.
After returning from the hospital, Dong Mingying's condition improved, and the Dong family and his wife put their hearts in their stomachs. For nearly a week after that, everything was normal for the baby girl to eat, drink, and drink, until one day the mother accidentally touched her daughter's waist and found out that there was a problem.
It stands to reason that children of this age can already turn over, and there will be support points on their waists, but Dong Mingying's waist is soft to the touch, and in rural vernacular, it is like a bone being pumped.
The mother told her husband about the incident, and then the two observed for a few days, and they didn't take it seriously if they didn't find any other problems, simply thinking that their children were growing up a little slower.
In 1988, Dong Mingying, who was already 3 years old, was getting worse and worse, and the child was able to walk and jump normally at this age, but she had trouble even standing up, let alone walking.
Realizing that something was wrong with their daughter, the couple took their daughter to the county hospital this time, and then went to the big hospital in the city after the examination was fruitless.
Because she couldn't walk on the ground, Dong Mingying could only lie on the bed every day, listening to the sound of her peers playing in front of the house and behind the house, and she was very envious at this time.
The Dong family and his wife did not give up, and borrowed enough money to take the child to the provincial hospital for examination, but came to the conclusion that their daughter would not be able to stand up in her life.
Thinking of the severe cold that their daughter had when she was one year old, the couple felt that it was probably the sequelae of this cold. Feeling guilty, they took their daughter home and took care of her.
Dong Mingying, who couldn't stand, began to try to walk with his hands and feet, and in order to prevent his daughter's hands from being worn out of the skin, her father also specially found a pair of plastic slippers as a tool for his daughter to crawl.
At first, Dong Mingying's upper body strength was insufficient and could only last for more than ten minutes, but after nearly 6 months of practice, his arms became more and more powerful, and he was finally able to go out and walk.
When the couple sent their daughter to school at school age, Dong Mingying's situation was more special, although the teachers and most of her classmates took good care of her, but there were always some naughty students who joked about her physical defects.
This also caused the young Dong Ming to become very inferior and not like to talk, and even had a feeling of disgust with school, and the mother noticed the changes in her daughter and patiently enlightened her, and carried Dong Mingying to school behind her back.
Seeing her mother's dedication, Dong Mingying secretly made up her mind to cherish the opportunity to study and never let her family down.
School life came to an abrupt end, and the disabled woman moved on to a strong life in society
Later, Dong Mingying became a role model for the students with her strong optimism, and the classmates who ridiculed her also changed their attitudes.
It's a pity that the Dong family is too poor to afford three children to study, Dong Mingying, who has been promoted to the fourth grade of primary school, decided to give up the opportunity to study to her sister and younger brother after careful consideration, while she herself dropped out of school and went home.
At the same time, he also comforted his sister and younger brother and said: I can go to school for four years with my physical condition, and I am very content to know a few words.
As the so-called "children of the poor are in charge early", Dong Mingying, who is in a special physical condition, is not idle at home, her parents work in the field, she cooks at home, cleans the room, cleans the yard, and does some work within her ability.
usually walks on all fours, but it does not delay Dong Mingying's efficiency at all, and even tries to go to the society to make money.
Considering her physical condition, she found some manual work that she could do at home to earn some daily pocket money, but the meager income meant a lot to the girl, proving that she had the ability to support herself.
Men should marry women, and women in rural areas generally get married early, but Dong Mingying, who is handsome, is disliked because of her disabled body.
The parents were worried that they would get old day by day and that there would be no one to take care of their second daughter, so they entrusted the matchmaker in the village to find a suitable marriage partner, and the man shook his head when he heard Dong Mingying's physical condition.
After about two or three years, 22-year-old Dong Mingying was disheartened, and planned not to get married for the rest of his life, and told his parents: I can take care of myself, you don't have to worry.
The kind-hearted woman didn't expect that she would soon meet true love, and a man named Feng Zhiyu took the initiative to come to the door to propose, but her parents were not very satisfied with this man.
Feng Zhiyu is also a native of Rizhao, Shandong, living in Xidi Village, Luohe Town, and usually makes a living by farming, because his family is too poor to please his daughter-in-law, and he is still an old bachelor in his 40s.
In 2007, Feng Zhiyu got the address of Dong Mingying's house from the matchmaker and took the initiative to come to the door to propose marriage.
He had heard the story of this girl a long time ago, and learned that Dong Mingying was discriminated against because of physical reasons and could not find a partner, and then thought about being disliked because he was poor, and Feng Zhiyu, who had been single for more than 40 years, felt a sense of sympathy.
Feng Zhiyu asked people familiar with the matter about Dong Mingying's personality and decided that this was a very good girl, if it weren't for physical reasons, she would definitely have a family early. After several days of ideological struggle, Feng Zhiyu, a rural man, finally came to Dong's house.
Knowing the strange man's intention, Dong Mingying's parents still have some concerns, the other party's family conditions are not good, and at such an old age, can their daughter be happy when she marries? But the couple is very entangled, and if they miss Feng Zhiyu's daughter, they may be lonely and old age.
Despite the opposition to marrying an older bachelor, the crawling mother gave birth to a beautiful daughter
Later, the old couple thought of a way to let the two of them get along for a while. In fact, Dong Mingying didn't agree to this matter at first, but after the persuasion of his family, he agreed to get along with the other party for a while to see if it was suitable.
Feng Zhiyu has been honest for most of his life, he doesn't chase girls, and he doesn't know what romance is, he only knows that being good to girls and his family can impress each other.
After finishing his own work, Feng Zhiyu would run to Dong Mingying's house as soon as possible, and he rushed to do all the hard work.
When he is not working, he often goes out for a walk with his girlfriend or goes to the county town to catch a temple fair. At that time, all kinds of milk tea and snacks were popular in small counties, but Feng Zhiyu, who was extremely stingy with himself, was very willing to spend money on his girlfriend.
In 2008, 24-year-old Dong Mingying married 46-year-old Feng Zhiyu, and moved to Xidi Village, Luohe Town, with her husband after marriage, to start a new journey in life.
The Feng family only has a few acres of land, and the food grown is only enough for the family to eat, but in order to make his wife live a good life, he often goes to the county seat to do odd jobs.
Dong Mingying, who is a wife, sees the hard work of her husband, and the only thing she can do is to keep the house in order and ensure that Feng Zhiyu has a hot meal when he goes home every day.
Dong Mingying became pregnant in the second year after the two got married, she and her husband were very much looking forward to this child, and when they went to the hospital for examination, the doctor took into account her special physical condition and advised her to consider it carefully.
When the mother learned the news, she also rushed to Feng's house and persuaded her daughter to kill the child as soon as the month was early, but in the face of the persuasion of the people around her, Dong Mingying was very firm and must give birth to the child.
Feng Zhiyu was very grateful for his wife's decision, and did his best to take care of his wife's body.
This girl combines the advantages of her parents, her facial features are very cute, and the most important thing is that she is very healthy.
Later, Dong Mingying gave birth to another daughter, Feng Zhiyu felt that the pressure on his body was too great, so he chose to go out to work, and the burden of raising two children was all on his wife.
Feng Zhiyu has been working outside for nearly ten years, and he and his wife have been together less and more apart, but it has not affected the relationship between the two.
As Feng Zhiyu grew older, the two had to face a reality, the money earned by going out to work became less and less, and the two had to find another way.
Around 2020, short video platforms have risen, and some people have made a lot of money by sharing their stories to attract fans to bring goods.
So she gave herself a screen name called "Big Beauty in Two Pairs of Shoes", I have to say that this name is too vivid, and netizens gave Dong Mingying a warmer title "Crawling Mother".
With her inspirational story, the mother has gained the attention of more than 200,000 netizens, and her family life has also been greatly improved.
Some people say that Dong Mingying is a very smart and beautiful woman in addition to her physical disability, Dong Mingying's two daughters often appear in the video, and the family later bought a commercial house in the county and lived a very happy life.
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