#头条创作挑战赛#
On April 1, 1955, Lin Huiyin passed away, taking away a poetic feeling, but leaving an eternal mark in the world.
Jin Yuelin, a close friend, wrote a couplet with an affectionate pen: A poetic Qianxun Waterfall, the April day in the ancient world.
Sixty-nine years have passed, and Lin Huiyin's fame and talent, as if through the ripples of time, are still alive in the memory of the world.
We can still capture the dynamic talent from her delicate poems; From her magnificent life trajectory, it can be seen that she laughs at the ups and downs of life with her extraordinary bearing.
As writer Zhao Yi said: "Lin Huiyin's bones contain a kind of calm and unhurried strength, so that she can fearlessly face the vicissitudes of the world."
Although the outside world has never stopped, although the road of fate is full of thorns, although life gives more than sweetness.
But she was lonely and brave, indifferently embraced all challenges and tribulations, and danced the most splendid chapter of her life at her own pace.
To understand Lin Huiyin is to realize: In this troubled world, pain is inevitable, and what ultimately leads you out of the haze is the open-mindedness and far-reaching in your heart.
In the face of injury, only the strength of our hearts and the breadth of the pattern can enable us to walk steadily and smile at life when the wind and rain hit.
Therefore, true perseverance lies in the indestructibility of the soul and the boundlessness of vision.
This is the profound revelation that Lin Huiyin taught us about how to walk through the April days of the world with an elegant attitude.
If the pattern is big, it won't care about the damage
In everyone's life journey, it is inevitable to encounter a bleak stage, and Lin Huiyin is no exception.
The original family is the starting point of Lin Huiyin's haze in life.
father Lin Changmin, a talented man in the literary world in the late Qing Dynasty; Her mother, He Xueyuan, is an illiterate traditional woman.
The huge difference between concepts and culture has built a high wall of communication between the two, and the family quarrels are endless.
As the rift deepened, Lin Changmin drifted away, and He Xueyuan became more and more resentful.
This dissatisfaction was unfortunately also transferred to Lin Huiyin - every time he was close to his father, he would be scolded by his mother coldly.
The tense atmosphere of the family has carved deep pain in Lin Huiyin's heart since childhood, and when she mentioned it many years later, she still sighed: "The pain at that time made me wish I had never been born in this family." ”
Faced with the predicament, Lin Huiyin chose the path of inner growth.
Knowing that she could not reconcile the conflicts between her parents, she turned to books for solace, and used reading and thinking to dispel her inner pain.
The experience of traveling overseas with her father broadened her horizons and gave her a deeper understanding and tolerance for that broken family.
From then on, she no longer struggled with family entanglements, but calmly accepted the status quo, and at the same time, devoted her main energy to learning and exploring the world, which laid a solid foundation for her future literary achievements and open-minded outlook on life.
It is often said, "The greatest strength of life is not confrontation, but acceptance and relief." ”
Indeed, there are always things in life that are beyond our control, and some pain is unavoidable.
In the face of these, the wisest choice is to improve the self-pattern and embrace everything.
Don't let a short-term injury become an eternal shackle.
When your mind is broad enough to a certain extent, you will suddenly realize:
Those people and things that I once thought could not be parted, those unforgettable pains, have become light and light under the baptism of time.
If the pattern is large, it can tolerate ridicule from others
"Zengguang Xianwen" has a cloud: "No one talks about who is behind them, and no one is behind them." ”
This reveals the normality of life – that no one is immune to misunderstandings and discussions.
In particular, those who are more outstanding are often more likely to become the "tongue edge".
Lin Huiyin has been controversial all his life. Her emotional past with Xu Zhimo, as well as her later marriage to Liang Sicheng, attracted some people to write about her in the name of "inattentiveness and hypocrisy".
The publication of his poems was originally a show of talent, but he was criticized and degraded as "moaning without illness".
What's even more embarrassing is that my friend Bingxin also wrote an article implying irony.
In 1931, Lin Huiyin, who moved to Beiping, set up a permanent cultural salon at home, gathering literati and scholars to discuss current affairs.
Her wise conversation and charisma make the party shine.
However, this brilliance touched Bingxin's jealous heartstrings, and the latter continued to post articles, using the pen as a blade, portraying Lin Huiyin as the "old aunt" who passed away in her youth, or the courtesan in the Fengyue field, and for a while, slander was everywhere.
In the face of overwhelming negative public opinion, Lin Huiyin showed extraordinary calmness, and only returned Bingxin with a bottle of Shanxi old vinegar, which was both humorous and graceful.
She continues her salon, her life, and eventually, the gossip subsides on its own.
In the real world, gossip is like an invisible web, and almost no one is immune.
Zhou Guoping said: "If all the energy is spent on trivial debates, you will not be able to take into account the importance of major matters." ”
A truly wise man can tolerate criticism, endure criticism, and know that "right and wrong exist every day, and if you don't listen to nature, there will be nothing".
They choose not to get caught up in a war of words, and let the world judge them and go their own way.
When the personal realm is raised to a higher level, those slanderous words are difficult to hear.
Therefore, in the face of criticism and misunderstanding, it is the choice of the wise to maintain inner peace and firmness, and focus on self-growth and the way forward.
Let the rumors stop at the wise, let the slander go with the wind, and life will give the fairest judgment.
If the pattern is large, it can resist the suffering of the world
Du Fu's "Wangyue" recited: "It will be the top of the mountain, and you can see the mountains at a glance." ”
This metaphor refers to the fact that an individual's vision and pattern directly demarcate the height that he can climb in life.
Insignificant things, if the vision is shallow, can easily shake the mind; On the other hand, if you have a broad heart, you will not sink in trivialities.
In "The Biography of Lin Huiyin", a little-known difficult period is recorded.
In 1937, when the anti-Japanese flames broke out, Lin Huiyin's family embarked on a journey of escape from Beiping to Lizhuang, Sichuan.
The bumpy road caused her to suffer from lung disease, which was already weak.
Life in Li Zhuang did not bring peace, the damp dwelling, snakes and rats were neighbors, the diet was rough, and he often starved, relying only on selling fine soft to survive.
In the harsh environment, Lin Hui's condition worsened, coughing and wheezing day and night, and his shape was broken.
However, in the midst of distress, she wrote to her friend Shen Congwen, and her brushstrokes were full of tenacity: "The war is not too pessimistic, although the road ahead is difficult, the day of turning over will be fought." ”
Fate made people, and just when he was in pain, there was the bad news of his brother's death.
Lin Hui was heartbroken, closed the door, and indulged in sadness.
In the end, she realized: mourning has not changed the facts, and only living strong is the best memorial to the deceased.
After a struggle, she gradually let go and restarted her life with a positive attitude. When the knots in the heart are solved, the body heals.
There is a proverb: "The bread is so big that it will never be as big as the stove." ”
The sufferings of life are like bread, and the inner pattern is the stove that holds everything. The pattern is grand, and it can bear thousands of sufferings.
In the journey of life, it is inevitable to encounter wind and rain, don't let the temporary predicament restrict the pace of moving forward.
As writer Cindy Fincher said, "Let the world flow naturally, and see it as part of the landscape of life." ”
Embrace all changes with an open-minded mind, and heal yourself despite the twists and turns of fate.
Tagore's good sentence flowing: "Life is like the splendor of summer flowers, and death is like the tranquility of autumn leaves", which seems to be tailor-made for Lin Huiyin, and it is extremely appropriate.
Although her life only bloomed for a short period of 51 years, what changed during this period was endless hardships and the cold state of the world.
But her heart, like a vast ocean, gently embraces every scar; Her figure, with an unhurried elegance, copes with the sudden changes in life.
In Lin Huiyin's hands, the road of life full of thorns was patiently woven into a landscape painting in a dream.
Walking in the world, no one is exempt from the baptism of wind and rain, scarred.
When the pain eats the bones, why not follow Lin Huiyin's example, hide the tears, and resolve the pain?
As long as your heart is rock-solid, even if your surroundings are full of devastation, your heart can still bloom into a fresh and unrefined flower.
In this way, life is not only in front of you, but also poetry and distant fields, all in your heart.