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The "little three" are deeply hated, they destroy other people's families, and they also destroy the harmony and stability of society.
But now there is a new type of mistress, this group of people does what mistresses do and maintains improper relationships with people with families. But they don't want fame, they don't want money, they don't even want love.
This group of people claims to be "true love first", does not ask for a response, and thinks that they are not juniors at all, just romantics who pursue love.
In fact, no matter how high-sounding their words are, they are still shameful juniors, still not to be accepted by morality, and still to be duly condemned and punished.
01: Destroying marital fidelity
The reason why the "little three" are spurned is because their existence destroys the fidelity of the marriage.
Marriage is a contractual relationship based on trust, commitment, and loyalty. In marriage, both parties should support and respect each other, and jointly maintain the stability and happiness of the marriage.
The intervention of the mistress, whether or not it directly leads to the breakdown of the marriage, is a violation of the duty of marital fidelity. Fidelity is the cornerstone of marriage, and if this cornerstone is shaken, the stability and happiness of the marriage will be severely affected.
Even if the "little three" believes that he does not seek fame and does not ask the other party for a divorce, although his behavior did not directly cause the breakdown of the marriage, his behavior of violating the duty of loyalty is still unforgivable.
Marriage is exclusive and unique, and the very existence of the "little three" is a betrayal of marriage. Whatever they ask for is not allowed and should not exist.
02: Substantial harm is caused
When the new junior argues against himself, he often starts from himself. They think they don't want fame, they don't want wealth, they don't even ask the other person to love him, they get nothing, they don't possess anything.
But in fact, the harm of the mistress is not what they get, but what they do.
The very existence of the mistress has already caused harm to the marital relationship, to the spouse, and to other family members.
The intervention of the mistress will make the partner feel betrayed, disappointed and painful, and this psychological wound will be difficult to heal and will even accompany them for the rest of their lives.
At the same time, the behavior of the junior can also have a profound impact on family members, especially children. Children may feel confused, angry, and upset as a result, and it can even affect their growth and future development.
It doesn't matter what the mistresses get in the end, they are already a sinner from the moment they become mistresses.
03: Damage to the stability of the marriage
There is a saying that "by the couch you will not allow others to sleep soundly", and the same is true in marriage.
Some new juniors put themselves in a very low position, making a pitiful appearance, thinking that they don't want to be famous, don't respond, just "silently loving", should be tolerated and understood, and have their own place.
This is nothing more than a rhetoric that they use to deceive others and deceive themselves. No one can accept that someone has been eyeing their spouse and is ready to take his place, and even that the spouse has different feelings for this person.
The human heart is fickle and does not know how to be satisfied. Xiao San is willing to lie dormant at the moment, but the conditions are not yet ripe. Once given the right opportunity, they will reveal their true purpose and take everything into their hands.
For both husband and wife, the existence of the mistress is a time bomb that fills them with suspicion and suspicion. It is difficult to stabilize such a crumbling marital relationship, and it is even more difficult for people to experience happiness from it.
The relationship between husband and wife will become more and more alienated because of the mistress, and eventually the marriage will break down.
No matter how harmless Xiao San's behavior is, this kind of behavior itself is immoral and not allowed and accepted.
In the face of the behavior of the little three, we should keep a clear head and a firm position, and not be confused by superficial phenomena. Only by sticking to the bottom line of marriage and having zero tolerance for the little three can we truly maintain the stability and happiness of the marriage.
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