At this age, these 3 types of people should not be contacted anymore, it is meaningless
Reality tells us that in our lives, not everyone we meet is worth our giving, and not all our efforts are rewarded.
There are some people who don't deserve our heart and lungs for them, and they don't deserve our good, especially those who always make us uncomfortable!
Once people reach the age of 50 years old, they should be more cautious about making friends, and they must think twice so that they will not stagger a person who always consumes you.
Life after the age of 50 is a process of renunciation. Don't care what others think, and don't care what others say, when you break it, you break it, break it clean, don't contact, don't bother, it's the last gentleness.
One, friends of wine and meat
The world is so big, there are no surprises, there are always some people, he treats guests, you pay, he is a good person, you pay, you treat him as a friend, but he treats you as a big wrongdoer.
Such a friend, not a friend, is someone who deliberately comes to consume you!
As the saying goes: wine and meat friends are not true friends, they are true brothers when they share blessings and hardships.
No matter who you associate with, the person who only wants to take advantage of everything and is unwilling to pay is the person who consumes you, who is not worth associating with and does not need to be contacted. It's not that you are ruthless, but that the other party has no virtue and no character.
Second, relatives who are afraid that you are rich and think you are poor
There is a kind of relative, you treat him as a relative, usually move around more to deepen the relationship, and when something happens, you can help each other. However, he either thinks you are poor or afraid that you will be rich.
Because you are poor, he walks around with you, he is afraid of suffering, afraid of not being known that he has poor relatives like you.
If you are rich and he is not as good as you, he will be jealous of you, or he will think that you are rich and it is necessary to help him, and he should ask for you, because you are relatives who have broken bones and tendons.
This kind of thinking, this kind of logic and selfish relatives, no matter how close you are, don't move around frequently, and don't contact anything important.
For if you are rich, you will not be able to feed their greed; If you are poor, no matter how much you please them, no matter how good you are to them, they will attract strange eyes and some sneering words, and a look of disgust on their faces.
Therefore, if you are afraid of being rich and your relatives are poor, no matter how close you are, you should move around less and contact less when you are free, so as not to disturb the cleanliness of others and delay your own work.
Always remember: "Poor in the downtown no one asks about the rich, in the mountains have distant relatives, this sentence is very reasonable and realistic." ”
Third, there are people who have a family and are still having an affair outside
The ancients said: "People are not afraid of affection, they are afraid of abuse; If you are not afraid of true love, you are afraid of betrayal after true love, and strangeness after familiarity".
Especially after the age of 50, I am not afraid of being chased, I am afraid of meeting people who have a family and are still having an affair outside!
In this world, there are all kinds of people, and all kinds of things can happen. Especially emotional matters between people of the opposite sex.
There are always some people of the opposite sex who seem to be very good to you and say that they love you so much, but they don't give you a clear attitude. It's not that he won't take a stand, it's that he doesn't dare to take a stand.
Therefore, he will not make any promises for you, and he can't give you any name, just play with you on the spot, and have an affair behind his lover's back, everyone is an adult, and they should all understand that if there is no future love, don't favor, don't continue if you can't give a name, they are all people of this age, and no one can afford it.
Life is not long, we must learn to cherish, when it is time to do addition, don't be lazy, when we should do subtraction, we must learn to give up.
For unworthy people and things, you should be brave enough to say no, and don't let unworthy people and things consume your life.
Life is so short that it can't withstand consumption. What do you think?