When you are old, you will understand: people who are alone and have no friends often have these 5 excellent qualities!
In this life, people must always experience the baptism of wind and rain, and always experience the tempering of failures and setbacks, so that they can realize the true meaning of life and understand the truth of being a man and doing things in the ups and downs. This makes some people live a chic life without worries and freedom on the track of life, like a lone ranger.
Some people say: Most of such people have the following 5 enviable excellent qualities.
1. Excellence in independence.
As the saying goes: "Friends are not afraid of many, enemies are afraid of many", the road is easy to walk when there are more friends, you can help each other when you have difficulties, and you can cover each other with wind and rain.
However, there are always some people, in their own lives, who have tasted some of the bitterness of wind and rain from "friends", changed their minds, learned to fly alone like an eagle spreading its wings, and quietly walked their own way in their own way, silently did their own things according to their own plans, did not rely on others, stood up and stood up like pines and cypresses, were strong in independence, forbearance in suffering, learned self-sufficiency in poverty, and improved themselves little by little under their own continuous efforts, gradually, It has cultivated a strong heart that is not afraid of loneliness and wind and rain, and has the ability to think independently and deal with problems beyond the ordinary.
Second, extraordinary creativity.
People who have no friends, no parties, are used to walking alone in solitude, it's not that they don't have the ability to socialize, but they are used to being alone,
Because they need more time and space to think about life and explore some of the true meanings of the world, without the interruption of phone calls and external interference, they can dig out what they want and create the results they want in their own thinking
To be precise: it is their lonely creative thinking that gives them their own unique insights and perspectives on so many things and problems. He has made many outstanding writers, artists, and scientists, and has made their outstanding achievements and contributions.
Third, super self-management ability.
Most of the people who are loners in the red dust years have super self-management skills, they are like self-disciplined guards, able to restrain themselves, can use their own time, and do what they want to do.
This kind of people, with their self-discipline to resist the hustle and bustle of the outside world, and in their efforts and struggles, they have walked out of the road that suits them, made what they want, and achieved their dreams.
It is not by luck or the gifts of others, but by the absence of phone calls and friends to distract them, that their focused hearts and strengths, like erupting volcanoes, devote themselves to the things they are interested in and make the best results.
Fourth, be good at understanding human nature.
Lonely people, not that they have always liked to be alone, but that they are like wise people who have insight into the world, in being good at understanding human nature, they have seen through some things, seen through some people, and understood that there are not many friends, and one or two intimate friends are enough. Hypocrisy, wine and meat friends, no matter how much it is, it is useless. They can't cover the rain, they can't block the wind, they will only create wind and rain for themselves, such friends, don't make friends, on the road of life, alone, relaxed.
Fifth, a unique spiritual world.
There are a few plums in the corner, and Ling Han opens it alone. I know that it is not snow, but there is a dark fragrance. Wang Anshi.
Lonely people, just like Ling Han's lonely plum blossoms, in their lonely time, in their own hard work and study, bloom alone, fragrance alone, use their own unique mind, to appreciate their own value and beauty, with their own wisdom to decorate their own world, cultivate a strong mind, enrich their inner world, enrich their soul, let their life, live a different scenery, let their life, have a different taste.
In short, people who are alone and have no friends are not losers in life, but have unique character and qualities, which create their beautiful life and happy life.