Years ago, I was in a startup and my partner was male.
At the end of a long holiday, a male investor, in a crowd of three of us, sent an investment contract with a discounted valuation.
I asked why the valuation had changed.
The male investor said that the two of us had a good deal.
I said, when.
He said, while you're posting a swimsuit photo.
In fact, the photos posted on my circle of friends are not swimsuit photos, only one head emerges from the water.
But because you are in the pool, you will still have the association of swimsuits.
This is a rare experience in my life:
"This person, he doesn't see me as an equal, a talkative, a professional, but a certain gender that is lower than a man."
After that, I didn't post about my personal life in my circle of friends.
It's not that it's an overkill.
It was I who realized that when WeChat added the first working relationship, there was no "circle of friends", only a "workplace information circle".
In fact, in my work environment, I have always given the team absolute "freedom to dress".
Even at the time of writing this article, I can't recall what kind of clothes my colleagues I have met today, respectively.
But this is not the norm in the workplace.
The norm is that if women don't want to be treated as "a woman", "a beauty" and "an X resource" by male colleagues, male superiors, and male work partners.
It needs to be worn, more like the "first sex".
Our generation of professional women, looking at Beauvoir and looking down at Yishu girl.
In fact, they are no strangers to "professional women" and "first-sex dressing".
Let me recall Yishu's description:
A white shirt, khaki pants, and a beige cashmere jacket (called cashmere in the Shitai book).
There may be a Hermes bag, but it must be a platinum bag 35 that can hold a computer, not a 25 that a wife loves to use.
What does that mean?
In the workplace, qualified women's language, movements, and even clothing must be suitable for work, comfortable, convenient, and easy to take care of.
Don't be feminine.
In particular, don't show it off with outfits.
The secret of professional women's outfits is the versatile basic style + black, white, gray and beige basic color + girlish curves + less exposed skin.
Many people like to laugh at Yishu's love brain, his love posture is not good-looking, and so on.
But when it comes to working diligently and persistently doing business for a lifetime, who can compare to our teacher?
Sharing with our sisters, in life and love, we can be enchanting like any feeling we want [Flying Kiss R] [Flying Kiss R]
In the workplace, we can also be calm and reliable to become the "first nature".
The picture is what I wear to catch a plane tomorrow.
Silk shirt: Ralph Lauren Purple Label
羊绒开衫:loropiana
七分裤:Brunello Cucinelli
Bag: Hermes
Text/Picture @有点小钱的35 + sister