"I kept scolding me for spending so much money and buying a dress."
"The first time I bought clothes this year, I was scolded as a loser."
Recently, a netizen posted a video saying: Just because she bought a 380 yuan skirt, she was angrily reprimanded by her husband for being a loser and asked her to quickly return her clothes.
The husband said that 380 was a week's food money, but this was the first time he had bought clothes in nearly a year, and he felt very aggrieved.
According to the woman, this is the first time she has bought a new dress in nearly a year, and she spent 380 yuan to buy a dress.
Unexpectedly, as soon as she took it home, her husband was very angry, scolded her for being a loser, and insisted that she return her skirt, "380 yuan is our food money for a week!" ”
Then when she bought the dress, the tag had been removed, and there was no way to return it. When the husband found out, he became even more angry and angrily threw his skirt on the ground.
In fact, it can be seen from the video that the woman's family living conditions are very ordinary.
Except for the bed and a chair, there is no other large piece of furniture in the house. All electrical appliances and cutlery are basically placed on the ground casually. The walls are also noticeably mottled, revealing their original black walls.
Looking through the videos previously posted by the woman, it can be seen that they also quarreled over the cost of living.
Combined with what her husband said before, 380 is their food money for a week, and it can also be seen that they are living very poorly. Perhaps such a skirt is indeed beyond their means.
However, for netizens not supporting her to buy a new dress, the woman was obviously very aggrieved and unwilling.
She said that her husband has been staying at home every day recently, not going out to work, playing games, and not taking care of the children.
In fact, the meaning she wants to say is also very clear, her husband is not a motivated person, why should she work hard to make money?
Her thought was: since her husband is starting to rot and stop working, it makes sense for me to buy a dress to comfort myself.
The couple's attitude towards life, I only pity the children. Seeing that their children have obviously not been born for a long time and have not yet learned to walk, it is really unfortunate that in such a family, parents cannot work hard and do not have an attitude towards a better life.
In fact, after reading the comments, there are still many people who are on the wife's side, and the husband's attitude of not working is really angry when he sees it.
Netizens suggested: Don't leave him quickly, let him be less burdened.
It doesn't matter whether the family has money or not, the husband's attitude is not right, and he doesn't buy it every day.
The husband is incompetent, and the wife can only buy a new dress a year, so she should question herself more.
380 yuan, not as expensive as her husband's money for cigarettes, alcohol, and games.
Buying a new skirt a year is actually a very frugal behavior in ordinary people's homes.
But in such a family with four walls, weak children and poor husbands, the idea of satisfying one's love for beauty will be refuted.
It's not so much that the wife wastes a week's food money, but in fact, the husband is incompetent, neither motivated nor hardworking.
Relying on such a man, the wife will naturally feel that life is hopeless, and this new dress may bring her the only hope for a better life.
Marriage and family should bring us a more cohesive and better life, rather than falling into a lower level of life.
What do you think about this?