I am 32 years old, Mr. Chang is one year older than me, I have been married for five years, and I have a one-year-old boy.
When I got married, I didn't have a car, a house, or a deposit. His conditions are really not popular, but I just chose him without hesitation.
After we got married, we bought a car, we bought a house the year before last, and last year the house was renovated, and we had a mortgage of hundreds of thousands.
He sometimes says, "If I find a man who has a house, I won't have to pay the mortgage, and my life won't be so stressful." ”
But I have never regretted marrying him, although life is not easy, and there are occasional quarrels after marriage, but my heart is satisfied, and my married life is very happy.
I often see some remarks about fear of marriage, and there will be examples of unhappy marriages around me, and the fault is never marriage, but people.
If you want to have a happy marriage, you must find such a man when you get married.
Good man to you
Mr. Chang was very good to me, before and after marriage, as always.
Since I couldn't cook, he took the initiative.
I have a bad memory, I always lose everything, he can always anticipate in advance and do everything.
He will meet my requests, and he will support me in everything I want to do.
He is not romantic, he can't talk about love, but he will use practical actions to make me feel full of groundedness and peace of mind.
When you get married, you must find a man who is good to you, whether it is a love story or a gift, it is all false, only good to you is real.
He has to be able to think about you and be able to put himself in your shoes, and that's the most important thing.
Emotionally stable men
Mr. Chang is very emotionally stable, which is what I like most about him.
I didn't feel much when I was two of them before, and I always thought he was too dull.
After having children, I found that emotional stability was really too important.
I have a quick temper, and sometimes I am very tired with a baby full-time, and I will lose my temper.
But every time he was able to stay out of his way, no matter how noisy the child was, he never lost his temper with the child.
He is the one who can calm me down, even if the child cries again, with him, I can control my emotions and stop losing my temper.
Emotionally stable men are a plus, like a fire extinguisher, able to extinguish your bad mood in time.
A man who knows how to feel sorry for you
On May Day, when I had a party with friends, he watched the baby throughout the whole process, and I just ate and ate.
My friend said: I envy you, your husband has been taking the baby, my husband has never helped me bring it, I have taken it alone.
As long as he has time, the children are basically brought by him, and he knows that it is not easy for me to take the baby, and when he has time, he will do his best to help me share it.
After taking care of the baby full-time, my income plummeted, and I was reluctant to buy many things, but he was very willing to spend money for me.
He will say: It's so hard to bring a baby, treat yourself.
You must find a man who knows how to feel sorry for you, no matter how hard the days are, you will feel relieved and life is worth it.
A man who can act as a conciliator for his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
After giving birth to a baby, I will also have conflicts between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but my husband will stand by my side every time.
Some men push the conflict between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to women, and watch the fire from the other side as bystanders.
Some men always hide behind you when you need them, leaving you alone to face the wind and waves.
This kind of man, don't choose, if you get married, your married life will only be a mess.
Be sure to find a man who can protect you in your in-law's house, and the man's attitude towards you determines the attitude of your in-law's family.
He should be able to be a conciliator for his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that you can enjoy a stable life and not be subject to the storm of contradictions between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The marriage is very long, but the marriage of the right person is very cool.
I have been married for five years, and I have never regretted getting married, and I feel that the marriage is amazing, and it is Mr. Chang who has given me the warmth of home.