There is a saying that says:
Money can see people's hearts, and time can see through human nature.
Time is silent, money is silent, but it is silent, allowing us to truly understand a person clearly.
After falling in love with someone, we always want to go on with him, and we can't help but yearn for a lifetime.
At this time, it is necessary to comprehensively measure the sincerity of the man to avoid love becoming empty.
If you want to know if a man really loves you and is willing to live with you for the rest of his life, you can see it by looking at the money dealings between him and you.
The man who loves you will take the initiative to transfer money to you
The child woke up late this morning, and it was already half past eight when he woke up.
When I opened my phone, I received a message about a bank card transfer.
My husband just paid his salary and immediately transferred the money to me.
He only kept the money to pay off the mortgage and a small amount of pocket money, and gave me a large amount of income.
He has kept this habit since he got married.
Every time I was paid, I would transfer money. I never took the initiative to ask him to hand over his salary, and his initiative to hand it over shows his sincerity to me.
The man who loves you, he will take the initiative to transfer money to you, and when you are paid, when you need to use the money, he will not say a word to you.
Money is never managed, and many women feel that if they control men's money, they can control men's hearts.
In fact, the person who truly loves you, money, unnecessary, he will take the initiative to give.
People who want to live with you for the rest of their lives are not financially guarded against you
One reader left me a message:
I was married to him for the second time, and I took a fancy to his honesty at the beginning, and I thought it was good to find an honest and stable man, and it would not be counted as a defense.
Who knows, he lied to me from the beginning, he told me to earn 5000 yuan a month, and today I accidentally saw his salary details, only to find out that he had a monthly income of 8000. He was so secretive from me, wary of me.
Second marriage is difficult, both people have experienced a marriage, and they will generally have reservations in their hearts, and they will no longer have no reservations like the first marriage.
But if a person is wary of you in terms of money, forget it, people who are not sincere enough from the beginning are destined to be difficult to be together in the future.
Only a man who is not defensive against you in terms of money will not be wary of you in his heart.
If you are not sincere in money, you will not be honest in life.
I don't want you to spend money for him
I've seen a video:
Men and women are in love, and men are stingy in terms of money, which is called saving money to marry women.
Most of the love funds of two people are paid by women. Even for the rent, men always shirk and let women pay in advance.
When giving gifts, I always choose the cheapest ones, and even take the samples given by the store as gifts for women.
But he always took the initiative to ask women to buy him new skins and expensive watches.
The woman thought that he was saving money to marry her, and it didn't hurt to pay more for herself, but later she found out that it was just a means of his calculation.
A man loves you, how can he ask you for a gift?
He will be reluctant to spend money for you.
will take the initiative to pay money and take the initiative to bear the cost of love, in his opinion, it is natural for men to spend money for women.
He will make you keep your money and love yourself well.
As for women, if they really love a man, they will take the initiative to pay, and they will not let the man bear all the expenses, so the love that gives each other is true love.
Money is the best measure of sincerity.
Choose a man who doesn't calculate you in terms of money, has no defense against you, and is willing to spend money on you, but is not willing to let you spend money for him.
Such a man is the one who really wants to live with you for the rest of his life.