On the stage of life, we cannot ignore the far-reaching effects of the magnetic field effect. Whoever you are close to will be nurtured by what qualities, and over time, their shadows will even quietly blend into your life, creating a similar appearance.
In the long journey of life, we will meet all kinds of characters, who are like the palette of life.
There are people who enlighten your heart with wisdom and lead you to maturity. Some people warm your life like the sun and give you endless comfort; However, there are also people who will sweep through the quagmire like a storm and throw your life into chaos.
Walking in the prosperity of the world, please keep in mind:
Be sure to stay away from these three types of people around you, so that your path will become smoother and your life will become more and more accessible.
People who like yin and yang you
There is a kind of person who always expresses his opinion in a weird way, which invisibly disturbs your state of mind.
For example, when you put on a short skirt that she thinks is very beautiful, she will comment with ulterior motives: "This skirt is really short and eye-catching";
When you share a joke that she finds funny, she responds to the laughter on the surface, but when she turns around, she makes an understatement: "This joke seems a bit cold......
No matter what your words and deeds are, this type of person is happy to respond with the "art of yin and yang".
In essence, the inner world of such people is often narrow and calculating, and may even be keen to calculate others.
I have a friend who had such a colleague at her former company. At first, she just laughed at these words, thinking that they were just innocuous superficial articles, and just laughed at them.
However, unexpectedly, this colleague not only acted in daily communication, but also played right and wrong in front of the leader, and frequently made small reports. She will look for opportunities to belittle others in front of her leaders, but at the same time she strives to express herself and create a self-respecting work atmosphere.
Being in such a working environment is undoubtedly depressing and suffocating, as if there is a smoky miasma of "harmony" in the air.
In the end, she couldn't stand this mode of getting along anymore, and resolutely chose to stay away from this colleague and no longer care about the superficial workplace harmony.
Since then, the intersection between them has become less and less except for the necessary work docking. And it was this decision that brought a turnaround in her career. Her career began to flourish, and she was eventually appreciated by other discerning leaders in the industry, and successfully jumped to her current unit.
Those who are accustomed to treating others in a weird way often have a hidden aggression in their way of communicating. Spending time with such a person will only negatively affect your mood and may even destroy the original path of good luck.
Stay away from people who like yin and yang, your mood will become smoother, your career will be smoother, and your life will be smoother.
People who are bursting with negative energy
In life, it is normal for people to encounter negative energy, but it is not a healthy attitude to continue to indulge in it. Recalling an experience a few years ago, I met a girl who often confided in me about her grievances with life.
At first, I was very understanding and gave her full comfort and support. However, as time went on, she frequently vented negative energy to me, whether it was a moment of chat or a lengthy conversation, full of complaints and dissatisfaction. Despite my best efforts to help her, I gradually found myself in a sense of powerlessness, and more alarmingly, this negative energy began to eat away at my inner world.
In the face of big and small things in life, I can no longer maintain an optimistic and positive attitude, but habitually see the pessimistic side of problems first. When I woke up every day, I was overwhelmed by all kinds of trivial pressures, and suddenly found that I was unconsciously assimilated into a person full of negative energy.
As emotionally rich, empathetic human beings, our mutual influence is profound and subtle. Realizing this, I chose to keep a proper distance from this friend and began to actively adjust my state. As the negative energy gradually dissipates, I find that the positive energy that life has given back to me is more and more abundant.
When you bravely let go of the negative energy in your heart and take the initiative to approach those positive people and things, you will find that your life will also glow with good luck and positive energy, and move forward in the direction of sunshine.
People who are emotionally unstable
Napoleon, a great figure of history, once said: "He who controls his emotions is greater than a general who conquers a city." "Emotional stability is an intrinsic quality of success in itself.
Conversely, those who have strong mood swings will not only put their own lives in trouble, but may also spread misfortune to others.
The personal experience of the people around him reveals this truth for us: once, a man kindly reminded his neighbors about a water leak in his house, hoping that the two parties could negotiate a solution together.
However, his neighbor happened to be a person who was very emotionally out of control, and after hearing the reminder, the conflict instantly escalated into a fierce verbal argument, and finally broke up.
I thought that the matter would settle down, but a few days later, the emotionally unbalanced neighbor provoked another incident under the influence of alcohol, which led to a physical altercation between the two.
Eventually, other neighbors called the police, and the innocent man was hospitalized with injuries.
This true story gives us a deep insight into the serious consequences of an emotionally unstable person – they can be emotionally driven to lose their minds and harm the innocent around them.
In fact, there are many examples of people who have been hurt by their emotions out of control. More importantly, if you get along with someone who is emotionally unstable for a long time, your temper will also subtly become irritable and irritable.
On the other hand, those who have a smoother path in life tend to be the ones who are able to maintain emotional stability and not be swayed by their emotions.
Therefore, we must not only learn to stay away from emotionally unstable people and avoid becoming victims of their negative emotions, but also cultivate ourselves to keep our emotions stable and not let emotions dominate our lives, so as to move towards a smoother life journey.
In the long river of each person's life, there are predetermined trajectories and variables intertwined with the chapter of fate. However, the steering wheel of life is often held in our own hands most of the time, determining the direction of sailing.
Especially for the choice of interpersonal relationships, you have absolute autonomy, you can choose to be close to those who can stimulate your potential and lead you to the sun, and at the same time decisively stay away from those "yin and yang people" who exude negative energy, have uncertain emotions, and are even keen to play right and wrong.
Looking forward to the future of life, let us firmly get rid of negative influences and enthusiastically embrace those soul mates who are positive and optimistic. When your life's journey is intertwined with these sunshine companions, your world will be bathed in endless hope and growth.
Please be assured that you are going through a positive transformation journey, and your life will become more and more picturesque and smooth as a result. Here, may we encourage and work together to make the road of life full of sunshine and warmth.