In life, we are often moved by beautiful love stories, thinking that love should be beautiful and romantic.
When we step into the real world of feelings, we find that getting along with the person we love will inevitably lead to stumbling, quarrels and even separation.
This is not terrible, because true feelings are not to avoid contradictions, but to grow in contradictions and achieve a stronger foundation of love.
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On the road of feelings, we are often faced with a difficult choice:
Do you persist or give up?
Every quarrel, every disagreement, seems to test our choices.
Sometimes, we feel that giving up may be a relief, that we can get rid of pain and entanglement. But on the other hand, we can't bear to leave easily, because there is too much sincerity and cherishment in that relationship.
It takes courage to persevere and give up.
Persistence means that we have to bear more pain and put in more effort to mend those rifts and re-establish trust and understanding.
Giving up means that we have to let go of a beautiful period of the past and face the unknown future, which will have a lot of uncertainty and loneliness. The choice is not easy, because no matter what, there will be gains and losses.
However, it is in the process of making choices that we can more clearly understand our hearts.
We will think about what is really important, and we will re-examine our attitudes and values towards feelings.
We will find that even if we choose to give up, we will still leave a regret and reluctance in our hearts; And if you choose to persevere, although you will experience more hardships, you will also gain deeper feelings and growth.
When we face difficulties and challenges in our relationship, we might as well stop, take a deep breath, and think about our choices.
Perhaps, persistence and abandonment are not two options of either/or, but a dialectical attitude, which requires us to continue to explore in practice and find the answer that suits us.
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In a relationship, run-in is an inevitable process.
Mutual habits, personalities, and values can clash, and this conflict often leads to quarrels and disagreements. But we were also able to really get to know each other and gradually build a deeper relationship.
The run-in is not a simple compromise, but the result of the joint efforts of both parties. It requires us to learn to listen to each other's voices, understand each other's thoughts, and respect each other's feelings.
It is only through communication and inclusion that we can find a balance and build a relationship of trust and support.
In the process of running-in, we will also experience various challenges and tests.
Sometimes, we are so miserable because of an argument that we feel that there is no hope for each other. We should persevere and believe that the love for each other is real and deep.
Over time, we will find that the relationship that has gone through the run-in is stronger. We will become more mature and rational, and learn to deal better with each other's contradictions and problems.
It turns out that the so-called quarrels and disagreements are not the end of the relationship, but part of the growth of the relationship.
Therefore, when we face the run-in in our relationship, don't back down and don't give up. On the contrary, let us feel the true feelings between each other with our hearts and prove our persistence with our actions.
Only after experiencing the run-in can we truly understand how precious and precious the love between each other is.
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Some people, despite many quarrels and many separations, are still reluctant to leave each other.
They may have had countless quarrels and disagreements, and even felt that they had come to an end with each other, but each time they chose to start over and believe in each other again.
Persistence is not a simple attachment, but a sincere emotion. It comes from the deep emotional foundation of both parties, the trust and understanding between each other.
No matter how many ups and downs they have experienced, they still choose to trust each other and choose to face the challenges and difficulties of life with each other.
Behind the persistence is the truest interpretation of love.
It's not because I'm afraid of being lonely or unable to give up, but because I have deep feelings for each other in my heart, and I'm willing to give everything for each other and never give up.
In this world, it is not easy to find someone who is willing to be with you for the rest of your life. And when we meet such a person, we should cherish it and grasp it well.
It is only in each other's company that we can feel the warmth and happiness of life.
Those who quarrel with you no matter how much they still stick to you are the real love warriors.
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Looking back on the bits and pieces of the past, we will find that in fact, the best destination is all around us.
The person who has quarreled with us and separated from us, but still chooses to insist, is our real emotional destination.
In him, we found understanding and support, and found tacit understanding and trust between each other.
With him by our side, we no longer feel lonely and helpless, because of his presence, we can bravely face the challenges and difficulties of life.
He's not perfect, and we're not perfect, but we're willing to work together and grow together. In each other's company, we become stronger and braver, and learn to love and cherish each other better.
Perhaps, we have had a lot of quarrels and disagreements, and even feel that we have come to an end with each other.
When we look back, we will find that those conflicts and quarrels in the past have not weakened our feelings, but have made our love stronger and more durable.
Therefore, let us walk towards the one who has accompanied us through ups and downs, because he is where we truly belong.
In this world, the best relationship is not without quarrels and disagreements, but the persistence and trust that still do not leave in the midst of quarrels and disagreements.
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In the journey of relationships, we may experience various ups and downs and setbacks.
But as long as we are willing to persevere, willing to believe in each other, then in the end we will definitely find our true home.
Whether in love or in other areas of life, perseverance and trust are the most valuable assets. It can make us show strong qualities in the face of difficulties, and let us continue to grow and progress in the face of adversity.
Let go of the doubts and insecurities in your heart, bravely face the challenges in your relationship, and cherish the happiness and beauty in front of you.
Please believe that as long as we truly love each other and support each other, then no matter how many storms lie ahead, we will be able to get through it together.
May we all be able to find our best home and enjoy a truly happy life.