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The most painful state of human beings is that they are suspended, they cannot go up or down, they cannot settle down, and their hearts cannot settle down. Once you are in this suspension, you will be confused, helpless, and painful. At this time, be sure to go to the book. Reading can nourish tranquility, and once a person has tranquility, the mind will gradually stabilize, and those emotions that cause you to have low self-esteem, resentment, and entanglement will slowly dissipate with the change of thinking.
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To love your neighbor, love yourself first. Only when you are well, healthy, capable, and capable can you truly love others. I can't take care of myself, and I have to help others, which is a self-harm in itself. A cup of tea, a bowl of porridge, and a pot of soup are the fireworks in the world, and they are also the best capital for people to survive in the world.
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Save money, from now on. Always believe that reality is cruel and that money can solve most of life's problems. In this year when it is difficult to make money and money is gone, we must reduce consumption, buy less clothes, consider the cost performance when traveling, and save a little money every month. Spending money is cool for a while, but what is consumed is the confidence to face the future and deal with problems. Once a person runs out of money, it is really difficult to move forward.