01. Introduction

Marriage is a train, although the end point is to happiness, but there will be many ups and downs and tests on the way.

The relationship between two people may become less enthusiastic, or they may gradually forget their original intentions and reneg on each other's vows.

When the foundation of the marriage begins to shake, it is only a matter of time before it decays, and no matter how much you try to repair it, it will not help.

Men, at the following moments, are most likely to file for divorce, and women should be careful.

02, quarreling with his wife all the year round, unable to manage his marriage anymore

Lin Yutang said: "Marriage is like a carved ship, see how you appreciate it and how you drive it." ”

The trivialities in life will wear out each other's patience and enthusiasm, making getting along a lot of contradictions.

Especially, a quarrel between two people. Sharp language is the easiest way to cut through fragile feelings.

Some men quarrel with their wives all year round, lose their temper at the slightest disappointment, and accuse them unceremoniously. The two parties will not give in to each other, and his expectations for marriage will gradually disappear.

In married life, men do not feel the slightest warmth and happiness. No matter what you do, it doesn't go well, and you don't get the understanding you want.

Quarrels will consume a man's patience and his love for his wife.

The man has long been disappointed in his marriage and is unable to operate anymore.

When the suppressed emotions in his heart completely explode, he will not hesitate to file for divorce and try his best to break free from this cage-like life.

The relationship between husband and wife is completely exhausted, and the patience is exhausted, and the man will give up the management of the marriage and seek relief by divorce.

03, I have a lover outside of marriage, and I don't want to continue to accommodate anymore

Ma Xuewu in "Ten Thousand Arrows Pierce the Heart", because he took a fancy to Li Baoli's urban household registration, chose to marry her, and the two also had a son.

However, he always looked down on Li Baoli in his heart.

He thinks she is vulgar and hot-tempered, and she doesn't save face for him at all in front of outsiders.

So, he secretly got along with Zhou Fen in the factory. Zhou Fen's gentleness and thoughtfulness, empathy and charm make him unable to give up.

Compared with his wife, Ma Xuewu felt that he was living in hell.

Therefore, when the two of them moved to a new house and life seemed to be getting better and better, he firmly filed for divorce from his wife, not wanting to continue to be suppressed by his wife.

When a man has a new lover in his heart, fresh feelings, and is fully devoted to it, he will file for divorce from his wife.

He didn't want to continue accommodating, and he didn't want to waste his time in an emotionless marriage.

Men have lovers outside of marriage, as if life has a new hope and color.

He will infinitely look forward to the future of staying and flying with his extramarital lover, and he can't wait to get rid of his marriage.

04, suddenly had a huge amount of money, and I didn't want to share it with my wife

Before, I knew a buddy Yang Hang, who had the habit of buying lottery tickets.

Every issue does not fall, and I often fantasize about winning the jackpot, getting rich overnight, and living a life without worrying about food and clothing.

I really didn't expect that he actually won the lottery, and he was overjoyed.

When he returned home, his wife looked at him excitedly and asked him what he was happy about. He subconsciously chose to hide it and kept his winning the lottery a secret.

In his vision, he wanted to use this money to satisfy his wishes, be filial to his parents, and make people who once looked down on him look down on him and envy him, but they didn't think of his wife.

After that, he often found various reasons to quarrel with his wife, cold war, and took the opportunity to play and put forward the idea of divorce.

Human nature is the most untestable, and in the face of interests, the truest and most cruel side is often exposed.

Perhaps, when life is dull, the husband and wife can still support each other, accompany each other, and live a life of coarse tea and light food.

It is not known how much of the impact that a man will have on his heart if he suddenly encounters a great temptation in his life and gets a windfall.

Some men, if they suddenly have a huge amount of money, their selfishness will also be exposed.

In order to enjoy this money exclusively and let himself live a freer and more chic life, he will ignore the love of husband and wife and abandon his wife.

05, Wen Qiusheng's message

Zhang Xiaoxian said: "When love is about to end, it will end, and when the time comes, you can't do it if you don't want to draw an end." ”

No matter how romantic and fiery love begins, it can't withstand the ravages of time. It will fade over time, or it may die out of nowhere.

When the relationship between each other has deteriorated, the man has already planned to leave in his heart, and the woman should not be too nostalgic.

Recognize the reality, adjust your mentality in time, let go of the unworthy people, and start your new life bravely.

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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.