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My name is Li Qian, I am a married woman in my 30s, and my husband Wang Lei and I have been married for five years. We used to have happy days, but as time went on, cracks began to appear in our marital relationship. These cracks are not because of the breakdown of our relationship, but because of the deteriorating attitude and behavior of Wang Lei's mother, Granny Wang, towards me, which makes my life very painful.
Granny Wang has always disliked me. She always thinks I'm not worthy of her son, and she always finds all sorts of reasons to find fault with my words and actions. She thinks I'm a lazy wife who won't take care of the family and Wang Lei. What pains me the most is that Wang Lei has always been on his mother's side on these issues and has never defended me.
The trigger for this was a family gathering. On that day, Granny Wang invited several relatives and friends to her home for a party. I was too busy with work to prepare dinner in advance. As a result, Granny Wang loudly rebuked me in front of everyone, saying that I didn't know how to be a good wife, and even said that I was not worthy of being Wang Lei's wife. I felt very embarrassed and aggrieved, but Wang Lei not only did not stand up to defend me, but echoed his mother's words, which completely disappointed me.
From that day on, my relationship with Granny Wang became even more strained. She was always interfering in our lives and even installed a camera in the house to monitor my every move. Wang Lei has no opinion on this, he thinks it is a sign that my mother cares about our family. I tried to communicate with Wang Lei, hoping that he would be on my side and think about our marriage, but he always refused on the grounds that "she is my mother".
As the days passed, my patience reached its limit. Granny Wang's words and deeds became more and more excessive, she constantly accused me, insulted me, and even interfered in my private life with Wang Lei. Wang Lei never tried to stop her, which made me feel like I had completely lost myself in this marriage. Faced with this situation, I began to think seriously about my future.
I know that this life has taken my breath away. I can't live this humiliation and pain anymore and I need to make a decision. Eventually, I decided to leave this suffocating environment and leave this marriage that had made me lose my dignity and joy. Even though it wasn't the outcome I wanted, I had no choice.
In the days that follow, I will face the end of this relationship and how I will rebuild my life after leaving Wang Lei. It takes courage and strength to do this, but I believe that I can find my own happiness.
The decision to divorce was made after careful consideration because I could no longer bear the pain and injustice that this marriage had brought me. Although this decision was not easy, I was ready to face the challenges ahead. For this decision, I began to gather evidence and prepare documents to protect my rights and interests in divorce proceedings.
However, in the process, I found that Wang Lei didn't seem to realize that our marriage was facing collapse. He still maintains his daily attitude as if nothing had happened. He continued to travel back and forth between work and home, but remained cold and distant from me.
One night, I decided to be honest with Wang Lei, and I needed to make him understand how I was feeling and what decision I was about to make.
"Wang Lei, we need to talk." I sat on the couch in the living room, trying to keep my tone calm.
Wang Lei came out of the kitchen, seemingly a little surprised. "What are you talking about?" He asked.
"About our marriage. I can't go on like this. I hope we can break up peacefully. I looked him in the eye and tried to make him understand my determination.
Wang Lei was obviously shocked by my words, and his eyes showed incomprehension and confusion. "Qian, what are you talking about? Why Divorce? Our problem is not serious, just a little friction between you and my mother, and I will try to solve it. ”
"Wang Lei, this is not a matter of small friction. This has affected our marital relationship. I can't stand your mother's attitude towards me anymore, you never try to stop her, but always stand on her side. I need dignity and happiness instead of continuing to live in such an environment. "I try to explain as calmly as possible.
Wang Lei was silent for a moment, and then said, "You're right, I don't want you to be wronged. However, divorce is not the solution to the problem, and we can try to adjust again. ”
"I've given enough time and opportunity. I really don't want to continue to endure this ordeal. I spoke firmly.
Wang Lei sighed, he seemed to realize my determination. "Well, if you insist, I'll respect your decision."
After that, we started the formal divorce process. I hired a lawyer to help me prepare the relevant documents and make sure I got my due rights in the divorce settlement. During this process, I felt support from my family and friends, who all understood my choice and encouraged me to pursue my own happiness.
The communication between Wang Lei and I became even colder, and we began to live our separate lives. After the divorce settlement was reached, we ended up choosing to break up peacefully. Although I still have a lot of emotions in my heart that I can't let go, I know that this is an important step towards a new life.
After the divorce, I set out to rebuild my life. I moved to a new city, started my career anew, and tried to find my own happiness. In the process, I learned to be independent and self-reliant, and gradually found inner peace.
Even though the divorce process was difficult and long, I knew that it was all for my future. I believe that over time, I will find my own happiness and peace.
After the divorce, I started a new life. The process of starting over was not easy, but I was determined. In my new city, I found a job opportunity and started to focus on my career. This kept me busy and gradually adapted to my new environment.
In my new life, I made new friends. They come from different backgrounds and career fields and have enriched my life. Their company makes me feel supported and warm. In particular, I met a friend named Xiaoyun, who is a warm, empathetic person. I am encouraged by her optimism and positive attitude.
One day, Xiaoyun and I went to a café to chat, and she suddenly asked me, "Qian, do you have any plans for the future?" ”
I replied with a smile: "At the moment I am trying to develop my career, and I don't have specific plans for anything else." ”
Xiaoyun nodded and said seriously: "Career is important, but you also have to pay attention to your life balance. Spend more time doing the things you love so you can truly enjoy life. ”
Her words made me think about my own way of life. In the old days, I was always too focused on my work and neglected my own interests and hobbies. Xiaoyun's advice made me realize that I should spend more time enjoying life and not just working for work's sake.
With Xiaoyun's encouragement, I began to re-explore my interests. I signed up for some painting and cooking classes, which allowed me to regain my zest for life. I found that through art and food, I was able to express my emotions and find peace of mind.
I also met some like-minded people along the way. We participate in activities together and share the moments of life together. These new friends made me feel a sense of belonging and support, and they also made me realize that new beginnings are not scary, as long as I am willing to open up.
At the same time, my contact with Wang Lei gradually diminished. We occasionally keep in touch via phone call or text, but more often than not, we deal with some post-divorce matters. In the process, I found that my feelings for him had faded. I no longer dwell on my past marriages and focus more on my future.
Once, I received a call from Wang Lei, who asked me about my current situation and cared about my life. There seemed to be a hint of apology and concern in his tone. "Qian, how are you doing? Is the new job still going well? He asked.
"I'm doing well and my job is going well. Thank you for your concern. I replied.
Wang Lei was silent for a while, and then said, "That's good." I just wanted you to know that if you need any help, you can always come to me. ”
I was relieved by his attitude, but I also knew that it was just a kind of amending for his past marriage. I thank him for his concern, but I know better that I have stepped out of the past and started a new life.
In the days that followed, I continued to work hard, enjoy life, and meet more new people. I have found that there are many things to look forward to and cherish in life. Even though I had a painful marriage, it didn't stop me from pursuing happiness.
As time passed, I gradually found my own rhythm in life and found my own happiness. I believe that this is just the beginning of my new life, and that there are many wonderful things waiting to be discovered.
In the new city, I gradually found a rhythm of life, in addition to work, I began to participate in more social activities and meet a lot of interesting people. Through a friend's introduction, I joined a book club, which allowed me to meet many like-minded people and broaden my horizons.
During the activities of the book club, I met a man named Chen Gang. He was a wise, humorous man with a deep understanding of both literature and art. His conversation is lighthearted, and we often find many things in common when discussing books and movies.
Once, we had coffee together after the book club. He suddenly asked me, "Qian, what books have you read lately?" Is there anything worth recommending? ”
I smiled and replied, "Recently, I was reading a book on psychology. The book talks about the process of self-awareness and inner growth, which I find very inspiring. ”
Chen Gang nodded, obviously interested in the topic as well. "Sounds good, I'll find time to read it. You have a lot of research in these areas. ”
"I'm just interested in these topics." I smiled and said modestly.
In the days that followed, Chen Gang and I kept in close contact. We often meet up in cafes or bookstores to chat and discuss various topics. He brought me many new perspectives and insights that enriched my life.
In the process of getting along with Chen Gang, I found that I developed a special feeling for him. His humor, intelligence, and kindness appealed to me. I started to wonder if I was ready to start a new relationship.
Once, I plucked up the courage to talk to Xiaoyun about my feelings: "Xiaoyun, I feel that I have a good impression of Chen Gang, but I don't know what to do. ”
Xiao Yun smiled after hearing this. "Qian, it's good that you've finally met someone who makes your heart flutter. As long as you feel happy, go for it. Don't be afraid of new feelings because of past experiences. ”
Her words gave me courage. I decided to go with the flow and stop setting limits on myself.
At a weekend party, Chen Gang and I had more conversations. He invited me to visit an art exhibition with him, and I readily agreed. On that day, we walked around the gallery and admired all kinds of beautiful works. I was impressed by his understanding of art, and we shared a lot of opinions and feelings in the exhibition.
Chen Gang said to me at the end of the visit, "Qian, I really like to visit the exhibition with you. Your feelings about art are in line with my thoughts, which makes me feel very happy. ”
I smiled and responded, "I also enjoy visiting art exhibitions with you, your insights always shine in my eyes." ”
We had a great time that day. Chen Gang's company made me feel relaxed and happy, and I began to feel that I might be ready for a new relationship.
In the days that followed, my relationship with Chen Gang gradually became closer. Together, we explore the city's cultural attractions, taste good food, and share in each other's lives. This newborn relationship made me feel fulfilled and happy.
As the relationship deepened, I found myself gradually stepping out of the shadows of the past and embracing a new life. Although I have been through a painful marriage, I understand that this is only a stage in my life and that I have the right to pursue my own happiness.
In the company of Chen Gang, I felt the peace of mind and warmth that I had not seen for a long time. His presence makes me believe that the days ahead will be even better.
In my interactions with Chen Gang, I found myself relying more and more on his company. He gave me a lot of care and support and made me feel truly understood and cherished. This new relationship has made my life more colorful.
One day, Chen Gang asked me to go for a walk in the park. At the lake, we were sitting on a bench, Chen Gang suddenly turned his head and looked at me seriously: "Qian, I'm very happy to be with you." You are a special person and I am admired for your strength and wisdom. I would like to ask you, would you like to further develop our relationship with me? ”
His questioning made me feel a little nervous, but I also felt his sincerity towards me. I took a deep breath, then replied with a smile, "Chen Gang, I also enjoy my time with you. Your company makes me feel at ease and happy. I am willing to further develop our relationship with you. ”
A hint of joy flashed in Chen Gang's eyes, and he smiled and held my hand: "Great, Qian, I will cherish the relationship between us." ”
From that day on, our relationship became even closer. We explore the beauty of the city together, participate in various activities together, and share the moments of life together. This new romance fills my life with laughter and sweetness.
At the same time, I also started to think about the future direction. Chen Gang is a person with his own dreams and goals, and the communication between us makes me feel spiritually compatible. We discussed each other's plans and expectations for the future and found that we had a lot in common, which strengthened my confidence to continue to develop with him.
One day, when we were having dinner together, Chen Gang suddenly said, "Qian, have you ever thought about our future?" I hope to create a great future with you. ”
I nodded and responded seriously: "Yes, I'm also thinking about our future." I hope we can work together to achieve each other's dreams. ”
Chen Gang smiled with satisfaction: "This means a lot to me. Qian, you are the most important person in my life, and I hope we can move towards the future together. ”
I was deeply touched by his sincerity. I shook his hand and responded, "I hope so too, let's create a happy future together." ”
In the days that followed, we worked together to achieve our goals, supporting and encouraging each other. This new relationship allowed me to find meaning in life and filled me with hope for the future.
Even though my past wasn't perfect, I've learned to accept and let go. I know that the past experience has only made me stronger and more appreciative of my current happiness. In the company of Chen Gang, I felt real happiness and peace of mind.
Over time, my relationship with Chen Gang has become stronger. We have spent many memorable moments together and faced life's challenges together. This new relationship not only allowed me to find a true sense of belonging, but also taught me how to form a deep emotional bond with each other.
Eventually, I realized that even though my previous marriage had put me through a painful time, it had also allowed me to grow and mature. Now that I have found my own happiness and future, I will cherish it and continue to pursue my goals in life.
In my new life, I will continue to work hard, meet new challenges, and enjoy every happiness. I believe that the future will be better because I have found my way.
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