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I am Chen Meihua, an ordinary 58-year-old aunt, and this is the story of my remarriage with my 63-year-old wife.
I was a naughty girl when I was a kid and lived in a small village. Although my family was poor, my parents always tried their best to give me the best life. Since I was a child, I have longed for romantic love and hoped that a handsome prince would marry me. However, fate gave me something different.
When I was young, I married a young man from the village, and we were childhood sweethearts, and although life was hard, it was also full of sweetness. However, fate always did not work out and my husband passed away in an accident, leaving me alone with my two young children.
In order to make a living, I had to do hard work, working in the fields during the day and taking care of the children at home at night. Although it was hard, I never gave up hope for life, and I worked hard to give my children a better future.
The children grew up, one married a wealthy businessman from other places, and the other was admitted to university and started his own life. And I, although I am alone, have also learned to enjoy the beauty of life. I participated in some social activities, made some friends, and my life became more colorful.
Until one day, I met him, 63-year-old Uncle Liu. He was an amiable old man with a pair of kind eyes that revealed tenacity and wisdom. We met at a social event, and slowly, feelings developed between us.
I never thought I would fall in love with someone again, but the appearance of Uncle Liu changed my life. He was very considerate to me, always cared for me, took care of me, and made me feel happy like never before.
However, just when I thought that Uncle Liu and I would have a bright future, an unexpected conflict suddenly broke out.
On that day, Uncle Liu and I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate and prepare to enter the palace of marriage. I happily thought about our future life, but I didn't expect that Uncle Liu would be angry because of the three conditions I proposed.
The three conditions I put forward to Uncle Liu are:
First, he had to care for my children as if they were his own.
Second, we should live a simple life together, without the pursuit of luxury and pleasure.
Third, he should respect my personal space and independence and not interfere with me and my life.
I put forward these conditions, not because I have no confidence in Uncle Liu, but out of protection for my family and myself. I have been through a failed marriage and know the importance of family relationships. I want my children to be loved, and I want to be able to have my own life and space.
However, Uncle Liu was furious when he heard my conditions, he thought that I did not trust him and felt that I was embarrassing him. He claimed that he loved me and was willing to do anything for me, but he was not willing to accept these demands I made of him.
We got into an argument over this issue at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, surrounded by a group of curious passers-by, as if we were performing a drama. Uncle Liu said that I was too nagging, and I said that he was too stubborn, and the two of them quarreled.
"Meihua, these conditions you want are too harsh." Uncle Liu said with a straight face.
I frowned and replied, "These conditions are not harsh, they are for our future." I don't want our marriage to be full of arguments and contradictions. ”
Uncle Liu shook his head: "I can understand your worries, but you have to trust me, I will treat your children well, and I will not interfere in your life." ”
My heart softened, and looking at Uncle Liu's eyes, I knew that he loved me sincerely. Perhaps, I was really too careful. I took a deep breath and decided to let go of the doubts in my heart and trust Uncle Liu.
"Well, since you say so, then we don't care about that anymore." I said with a smile.
Uncle Liu also showed a pleased smile: "Okay, I promise you, we won't quarrel again in the future." ”
Uncle Liu and I hugged and laughed, and the onlookers applauded our "reconciliation". I feel a lot of emotion in my heart, perhaps, this is the power of love.
We finally got our marriage certificate and stepped into the palace of marriage. Although we have experienced a small turmoil, I believe that our love will be stronger.
Our wedding was very simple and only attended by our family and friends. Although there are no gorgeous scenes and romantic ceremonies, our hearts are full of happiness and joy.
Life after marriage is very ordinary, but it is full of warmth and happiness. Uncle Liu is very kind to my children, often buys them all kinds of delicious food and toys, and often takes them out to play. He developed a deep bond with my children, and sometimes I felt like he loved them more than I did.
I also tried my best to adapt to this new life and tried my best to take care of Uncle Liu and my family. Although it may feel a little hard at times, seeing the happy smiles of Uncle Liu and my children, I feel that everything is worth it.
However, as time went on, I noticed some signs that were unsettling me. Uncle Liu began to become more and more irritable and harsh on my children. Sometimes he would get angry over a little thing and scare me and the kids out of the question.
I tried to communicate with Uncle Liu, hoping that he would calm down, but he always refused to listen to my advice and would instead put the blame on me. I felt very confused and helpless and didn't know what to do.
One night, I came home and saw Uncle Liu arguing with my eldest son. I hurriedly stepped forward to persuade me, but Uncle Liu didn't listen to my advice, but became more and more excited. I felt a pang of despair in my heart, not knowing what to do.
"Uncle Liu, calm down!" I said anxiously.
Uncle Liu disagreed: "You children just don't have a rule and don't listen to people!" I will discipline you! ”
I hurriedly persuaded: "Uncle Liu, don't be like this, he is my child, I will educate him well." ”
Uncle Liu didn't give up: "I just want to discipline him, what do you care about me?" ”
I stomped my foot in anger, my heart full of helplessness: "Okay, if you want to discipline, you can discipline, but you have to remember that he is my child, and I don't want you to be too him." ”
Uncle Liu sneered: "It's my business whether I care about it or not, don't take care of it!" ”
I was so angry by Uncle Liu's attitude that I could only leave the room silently. My heart was full of doubts and uneasiness, and I wondered if our marriage would break up because of these trivial matters.
As the days passed, the relationship between me and Uncle Liu became more and more strained. He became more and more harsh on my children, and sometimes even excessively verbal, which made me feel distressed.
I tried to communicate with Uncle Liu, hoping to solve the conflict between us, but he always refused to listen to my advice, and became more and more stubborn and irritable. I felt so frustrated and helpless that I didn't know what to do.
One day, Uncle Liu and I had another quarrel over the child's education. I couldn't stand his attitude and decided to have a showdown with him.
"Uncle Liu, we have to talk about it." I said in a deep voice.
Uncle Liu looked at me with a frown: "What do you want to say?" ”
I took a deep breath and said, "There's something wrong with our relationship, and we're going to have to fix it." ”
Uncle Liu shook his head disappreciatively: "What's wrong with the relationship?" I think it's good. ”
I sneered: "Just because you think it's good doesn't mean I feel good too, the problem between us can't drag on any longer." ”
Uncle Liu frowned: "What do you want to say?" ”
"I think there's a big communication problem between us, and we need to be more open with each other," I said firmly. ”
Uncle Liu snorted coldly: "I think you are not honest, and you always hide problems in your heart." ”
I felt a pang of chagrin in my heart: "Maybe I didn't communicate with you in time for some problems, but you can't completely shirk the responsibility." ”
Uncle Liu was silent for a while, and suddenly sighed: "Maybe you have some truth, we really need to communicate well." ”
I breathed a sigh of relief and finally felt a glimmer of hope: "Yes, it is only through communication that we can solve the problem and rebuild our relationship." ”
Uncle Liu nodded: "Okay, we will communicate well in the future and stop quarreling." ”
Uncle Liu and I looked at each other and smiled, and the doubts and uneasiness in our hearts slowly dissipated. I believe that as long as we are honest with each other, our marriage will surely lead to a better future.
The communication between me and Uncle Liu has improved, and our lives have gradually returned to peace. He has also become more tolerant and accommodating with my children, less harsh and irritable than before.
I feel very fortunate that the love between me and Uncle Liu has stood the test, and our marriage has become stronger. I know that as long as we love each other and work together, we will be able to get through any difficulties.
However, just when I thought our lives would be happy forever, an unexpected illness suddenly struck our family.
One day, I found that Uncle Liu was a little unwell, he always felt weak and his mental state was not very good. I was very worried and rushed him to the hospital for a check-up.
After the doctor did a series of examinations for Uncle Liu, he told us with a solemn face that Uncle Liu was suffering from an incurable disease, and he could only rely on medicine to alleviate the condition, but he could not cure it.
When I heard the news, my heart was like a knife and tears welled up. I can't believe that Uncle Liu would get such a disease, and I don't want to believe that our good life will be shattered like this.
Uncle Liu looked at me distressed and said, "Meihua, don't worry too much, I will take good care of myself." ”
I wiped away my tears and forced a smile: "Yes, we will definitely overcome this difficulty, and we will spend every day together." ”
However, as time went by, Uncle Liu's condition gradually worsened, his body became weaker and weaker, and his spirit became more and more sluggish. I am busy with work every day, but my heart is worried about Uncle Liu and his physical condition.
One day, when I got home from work, I found that Uncle Liu was already lying in bed and couldn't get up. I panicked and hurried over to check on him.
"Uncle Liu, what's wrong with you?" I asked anxiously.
Uncle Liu barely squeezed out a smile: "It's okay, it's just a little weak." ”
I held his hand, and tears welled up in my eyes again: "You must be strong, I will always be with you." ”
Uncle Liu patted my hand gently: "I know, thank you for your care and care for me all the time. ”
Holding back tears, I told him, "We're going to get through this together, we will." ”
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