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I'm Chen Xiaoyu, an ordinary Shanghai housewife. My husband Li Jun and I have been married for ten years. We're not the kind of sweet couple, and we don't have any big stories. Our married life is like a glass of water, plain and stable. However, something strange has happened between us lately that bothers me.
One night, I had just cleaned up the kitchen to watch TV with my husband, only to notice that he was sitting on the couch looking a little unnatural. From time to time, his eyes flicked to the phone next to the TV, and his lips pursed into a straight line, as if thinking about something.
I walked up to him and asked, "Brother Jun, what's wrong?" Is something bothering you? Li Jun heard my voice, raised his head, and showed a reluctant smile: "It's nothing, Xiaoyu, I just have a headache." I knew he was lying, but I didn't want to force him to tell the truth, so I just patted him on the shoulder and said, "Would you like to go to the bedroom and take a break?" I'll make you a bowl of ginger soup. He nodded, got up and walked to the bedroom.
Watching his back disappear into the hallway, my mind was filled with doubts. During this period of time, I found that Li Jun was becoming less and less like before. We communicate less and less with each other, and even when we eat, we rarely speak. I tried to communicate with him, but he always avoided talking about anything, just finished his meal in silence and retreated to the bedroom. I don't know what the hell was going on or what happened between us.
Thinking back to when we first got married, Li Jun and I were so happy. He always took care of me gently and considerately and did everything he could for me. And I try my best to be a good wife and make him feel happy and satisfied. But now, our relationship seems to have changed, and I feel like he doesn't care as much about me as he used to.
Maybe it's because I'm thinking too much, maybe it's just that I'm too careful. I kept comforting myself, but the uneasiness in my heart couldn't go away. I felt like our marriage was slowly coming to the brink of danger, and I was helpless and didn't know what to do.
I went into the kitchen and began to boil ginger soup for Li Jun. The water was boiling, I put the ginger slices into the pot, and the warm ginger fragrance spread. An idea popped up in my mind, maybe I should take the initiative to talk to Li Jun to find out what he was worried about.
I walked into the bedroom with a bowl of steaming ginger soup, and Li Jun was sitting on the bed with a book in his hand, but he seemed to be in a daze. I walked up to him and whispered, "Brother Jun, come, drink some hot ginger soup, it may be better." He took the bowl and nodded slightly, but did not speak.
I sat on the edge of the bed and stared at his face, trying to peek into his heart. After a while, I finally couldn't help but ask, "Brother Jun, what's wrong between us?" You've been on your minds lately, isn't there anything bothering you? Li Jun raised his head and looked at me, a trace of hesitation flashed in his eyes, but he quickly regained his composure and said, "It's nothing, Xiaoyu, I'm just a little stressed at work." ”
I knew he was lying, but I didn't want to force him to tell the truth, so I just patted his hand lightly and comforted: "I understand things at work, but you also know that we are husband and wife, what can I say to me." He didn't answer, just drank the ginger soup silently, still looking a little lonely.
Looking at him like this, I felt more and more uneasy. I knew the problem between us couldn't be that simple, but I didn't know what to do. I wanted to have a good talk with him and completely solve the doubts in my heart, but I was afraid that he would not be willing to face the reality and choose to escape.
The ginger soup gradually cooled, and when I saw that he had finished drinking, I picked up the bowl and went back to the kitchen. I took the warm water from the tap and rinsed the dishes, thinking about what we've been through all these years. We used to have countless fond memories, but now they seem to have become strangers. I don't know exactly what's going on between us, or where our marriage is going.
Suddenly, I heard a low voice from the bedroom, as if Li Jun was talking to someone. I stopped what I was doing and listened to the voice. However, the sound soon died down, and silence was in its place. I was a little confused, but I didn't dare to disturb him, so I could only continue to concentrate on washing the dishes.
After washing the dishes, I walked back to the bedroom and found Li Jun already lying on the bed, quietly closing his eyes. I walked up to him gently, sat on the edge of the bed, and whispered, "Brother Jun, I know what you've been worrying about, but no matter what difficulties you encounter, you can share them with me, we are one." He didn't speak, just held my hand tightly, as if silently feeling my warmth.
I knew he had a lot of things in his heart that he wanted to say to me, but he couldn't. I didn't want to force him, I just stayed by his side silently and gave him a little comfort and support. Our marriage may not be perfect, but I believe that as long as we trust and tolerate each other, all difficulties will be solved.
I leaned over and kissed him on the forehead, then quietly left the bedroom. Before leaving, I glanced at him and noticed a glint of gratitude in his eyes. Perhaps, there is still hope for our marriage.
The next morning, I got up to prepare breakfast, wanting to give Li Jun some warm care. However, when I walked into the kitchen, I found a note on the table. I picked up the note, which read, "Xiaoyu, I have some things to deal with, I won't be back until later today, don't wait for me." ”
Looking at the note, I felt a sense of foreboding. I knew that Li Jun must have something to hide from me, but I couldn't figure out what it was. I wanted to call him and ask for clarification, but I was afraid that he would get angry at me for interfering too much. In the end, I chose to trust him and trust that he would handle the matter at hand.
I finished my breakfast alone and started to get busy. I decided to take advantage of today's free time to clean up the house, which can be regarded as a small adjustment for our marriage. I turned on the stereo, played upbeat music, and started tidying up the living room.
Sorting through the clutter at home, I can't help but think back to the bits and pieces since we got married. We have had countless good memories, but we have also experienced countless tribulations. I think about our first date, I think about our wedding, I think about every birthday and every holiday we spent together. Those memories seemed to emerge in my mind one after another, and I felt an inexplicable warmth.
However, I can't forget the contradictions and frictions between us. We used to quarrel over trivial things and even almost came to the brink of divorce. But fortunately, we all chose to tolerate and understand each other in the end, and we came back together. I know that our marriage is not perfect, but I believe that as long as we trust and support each other, we will be able to overcome any difficulties.
As I was tidying up my house, my phone rang suddenly. I picked up my phone and looked at it, and it was an unfamiliar number. I hesitated, but answered the phone anyway. A strange man's voice came from the other end of the phone: "Hello, I'm Li Jun's colleague, I want to ask you for a favor......"
I was shocked, and I didn't know what he was looking for me to help me with. I hurriedly asked, "Did something happen to Li Jun?" Where is he now? The man was silent for a moment before he said, "He's fine now, just some trouble to deal with, I want to ask you for a favor......"
I was nervous, not knowing what he was looking for me to help me with. But thinking of Li Jun, I still decided to help him, so I said, "Okay, you say, I'll try my best to help you." The man was a little relieved to hear my reply, and then said, "Then let me tell you the specific situation......
I listened to the voice on the other end of the phone, filled with anxiety and uneasiness. I don't know what happened to Li Jun, and I don't know if I can help him. But I know that as long as Li Jun is safe and sound, I am willing to do anything for him.
The man told me that Li Jun had recently had some financial difficulties and needed a sum of money to solve them. He said that Li Jun didn't want me to worry, so he chose to hide it from me. I was shocked when I heard this, I never thought that Li Jun would have such difficulties. But I also know that no matter what happens, I will fully support him.
I hurriedly asked the man how much money Li Jun needed. He said a number, and I felt a chill in my heart when I heard it, and this money was not a small amount for us. But I didn't hesitate and immediately agreed to help him find the money.
When I hung up the phone, my mind was in a mess and I didn't know what to do. I decided to call a good friend of mine, Wang Lin, first and ask her to help me figure it out. Wang Lin is a woman who does business with a lot of experience, and I am sure she will be able to give me some good advice.
I dialed Wang Lin's number, and she answered quickly. I told her what had happened, and she was silent for a while, then said, "Xiaoyu, I think you should look to see if there are any relatives and friends who are willing to help you." I will also try to help you to see if there are suitable projects to invest in and help you solve your financial difficulties. ”
After listening to this, I felt a sense of gratitude, and I knew that Wang Lin would definitely try her best to help us. I hurriedly agreed to her and said, "Thank you, Wang Lin, I will find a solution as soon as possible." She smiled and said, "It's okay, Xiaoyu, you are my best friend, and I will definitely try my best to help you." ”
When I hung up the phone, I felt a warm feeling in my heart. I know that although we are facing difficulties now, as long as we unite and work together, we will be able to overcome all difficulties. I decided to look for it first to see if any relatives and friends were willing to help us, and at the same time, I wanted to have a good talk with Li Jun to completely solve the doubts in my heart.
I decided to go to my relatives and friends first to see if anyone was willing to help us. I called my sister and told her about the situation. After listening to this, she said that she was willing to lend us some money, but also reminded me to pay attention to the repayment time and not to delay my life.
I gratefully said yes and then called a few more of my good friends to ask if anyone could help. While some people say they don't have any money to spare for the time being, there are a few friends who offer to help us get through this difficult time. I was secretly glad that I felt that I was so blessed to have so many good friends.
After I made the call, I went to the bank again to see if there was a way to get a loan. Although it may be a bit troublesome to handle, as long as it can solve the problem, I am willing to put in all efforts. The bank staff told me that since Li Jun and I had good credit histories, we could consider taking out a loan. I felt a glimmer of hope in my heart.
I hurried back home and told Li Jun the good news. After listening to this, a smile of relief appeared on his face, and he said, "Thank you, Xiaoyu, you are really my nobleman." I smiled and shook my head and said, "You're welcome, we're a family, and supporting each other is the most important thing." ”
Li Jun took out his mobile phone and started calling his colleagues, telling them that the matter had been resolved. I looked at his serious appearance and felt a warmth in my heart. Although there have been many contradictions and frictions between us, we have been able to unite and face difficulties together at critical moments.
In the evening, we had a simple dinner together and then sat on the couch and chatted for a while. Li Jun told me that he was very fortunate to have a wife who understood and supported him like me, and I also told him that I would always be there for him, and that no matter what happened, we would face it together.
That night, Li Jun and I slept in bed together, hugging each other and feeling each other's warmth. I know that our marriage is not perfect, but as long as we trust and support each other, all difficulties can be overcome. I closed my eyes and quietly enjoyed the happiness of this moment, my heart full of gratitude and hope.
In this way, Li Jun and I went through this difficult period together and rediscovered the tacit understanding and affection between each other. We know that no matter how many difficulties we will face in the future, as long as we work together, we will be able to create happiness that belongs to us.
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