The recent big melon in the entertainment industry is the "Gao Yalin Domestic Violence Derailment" incident.
The simple, loyal and honest "Xia Donghai" on the screen has another side that no one knows. It simply shattered the three views of netizens! Recently, Xu Zijun, the heroine of the incident, responded publicly and strongly demanded that Gao Yalin apologize!
Gao Yalin and Xu Zijun
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Gao Yalin's domestic violence and derailment incident
On May 8, actress Wei Jia publicly broke the news in her personal media account "Wei Jiaqi is unhappy", claiming that she and Gao Yalin are lovers, although they have not obtained a marriage certificate, but they have a daughter for Gao Mi.
Gao Yalin's photo
According to Wei Jia's revelations, Gao Yalin has been divorced for many years, but he has not disclosed it to the outside world.
Wei Jia claimed that she had been subjected to domestic violence by Gao during her pregnancy, and that she had been disheartened by several acts of domestic violence.
Wei Jia photo
What made her even more chilling was that she found traces of her cheating in Gao's mobile phone, which contained a large number of records of transfers to actress Xu and dinner appointments.
Regarding this matter, Gao admitted that he had a relationship with Xu, but denied that it was a relationship derailment, just "playing", and called the other party a "chicken"!
"Beijing Film School Flower" Xu Zijun
The other heroine who was involved in the "derailment incident" is called Xu Zijun, who is also an actor. At present, it is signed with Tianjin Bona Family Culture Media Co., Ltd.
Xu Zijun graduated from Beijing Film Academy and is a college classmate with the well-known actress Guan Xiaotong.
Xu was born in 1998, with an age difference of 26 years from Gao Yalin! Gao belongs to the typical "old cow eats tender grass".
According to the classmates who took the art exam together, Xu's ex-boyfriend is an Internet celebrity uncle, and she seems to be a legendary "uncle control".
Xu Zijun
Xu Zijun is a native of Qingdao, and Gao Yalin, whose ancestral home is in Zibo, Shandong, is a fellow countryman.
The two have also crossed paths in public programs.
They once participated in Dragon TV's "Start Broadcasting! Sitcom" program. In the show, Gao Yalin served as Xu's instructor.
Xu Zijun responded
After being caught in the whirlpool of public opinion, Xu Zijun issued a personal statement on May 10, detailing the process of his relationship with Gao, and publicly called on Gao Yalin to apologize!
According to Xu's statement, she was deceived by Gao Yalin! And because Gao called her a "chicken" in the chat, it made her feel a great shame!
Now she is overwhelmed by online bullying such as "sluts" every day. Acting work has also come to a complete standstill, and the "derailment incident" has had a significant impact on her work, life and spirit.
Use too high Yalin resources
According to Xu's own statement: The acquaintance of the two originated in 2020. At that time, Xu stepped into the showbiz for the first time, did not know the sinister world, and encountered unfair treatment.
When Xu was in a foreign country and was isolated, he contacted Gao Yalin through a university teacher.
Because Gao Yalin is thriving in the entertainment industry, he has multiple roles such as actor, screenwriter, director, and producer, and has quite resources. He easily solved the problem for Xu, and Xu was naturally grateful for it.
Received money from Gao Yalin
After the two first met, they began to keep in touch.
Regarding the large number of transfer records revealed by Wei Jia, Xu Zijun admitted that he did receive a lot of money from Gao Yalin! She said that the money was all high and was used "as a show of goodwill".
Xu said: The reason why he accepted the gift of Gao was because the other party hid his love life. Xu didn't know that there were other "contenders".
It wasn't until later that someone sent a private message to inform her of Gao Yalin's true condition. Only then did she know: Gao has a genuine girlfriend and is already a father!
Cut off contact
After learning about Gao's true relationship status, Xu claimed to have decisively severed all contact with Gao.
Even after the two recorded a variety show on the same stage in 2022, Gao continued to launch an emotional offensive and tried to reconnect in the name of introducing performance resources, but Xu never responded.
angrily reprimanded Gao Yalin
Regarding Gao Yalin's remarks about calling "she a chicken" in the conversation, Xu felt very angry!
She felt stupid. The old-timers in the entertainment industry, whom she once admired, used such vicious language to evaluate herself, which made her feel very humiliated.
She angrily scolded Gao Yalin for stepping on several boats, and maliciously deceived, humiliated, slandered, and slandered herself!
Ask Gao Yalin to apologize
As to whether the two have ever had an "intimate relationship", Xu has taken an ambiguous attitude. Neither directly admitted, nor fully denied. I started tai chi.
Regarding the transfer of funds involved, Xu believes that this is just a means for the man to show goodwill. She said: Accepting money does not mean that you must accept feelings!
At the end of the statement, Xu said: Mr. Gao Yalin needs to make a public apology for his remarks!
Xu's heart knot
Judging from the content of Xu's revelations, Gao Yalin insulted Xu as a "chicken", which was the fuse that led to the breakup of the two.
Before that, the two seemed to be on good terms. Until someone sent Xu a private message with relevant content. (As for who sent the private message, the editor believes that it can't be hidden from the smart old irons)
received "secret information", which made Xu Dameng wake up: he knew that Gao actually had a legitimate girlfriend and had a daughter.
What's more critical is that Xu recognized his status in Gao's mind, and the other party was just "playing".
After learning the truth, Xu Zijun was extremely angry and decisively cut off all ties with Gao.
Although in the past 2 years, Gao Yalin has tried to apologize and redeem many times, but he has never been able to do so.
It can be seen that Xu still invested in this relationship, but he was deeply hurt later!
Re-Wave Wave
According to the development of things, the emotional story of Gao Xu and Xu has come to an end.
Given that both of them are actors, they each need to develop in the entertainment industry. Therefore, the wound can only be hidden in the bottom of the heart, slowly leaving time to heal.
Xu Zizhong Photo
Originally, this dusty secret may never be known to the world as the years go by.
It wasn't until actress Wei Jia publicly exposed the matter that Xu was pushed to the forefront of public opinion, and the healing wound was torn open again!
Star Gao Yalin
I have to admit that Gao Yalin's artistic talent is still very high.
He made his debut because he played Chang Yu in "Hero Lü Buwei in Troubled Times", and later became popular all over the country because of the corner of Xia Donghai in "Family with Children".
Especially Xia Donghai played by him, his amiable, honest and simple image is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and has won the reputation of "national father".
"Family with Children" Xia Donghai
In addition to the above well-known roles, he has performed brilliantly in films such as "Send You a Little Red Flower", "The Silk Case of the Ming Dynasty under the Microscope", "Chinese Youth: Me and My Youth", "Undercover Police Flower", "Let's Shake the Sun Together" and other films.
Even after transforming from an actor, Gao Yalin has also achieved good results in other artistic fields. In particular, "In the Name of the People", of which he served as a producer, became popular all over the country once it was broadcast, setting a "domestic TV drama ratings record in 10 years".
"In the Name of the People" poster
Gao Yalin responded
After the well-known male star and artistic achievement Gao Yalin suddenly fell into the whirlpool of public opinion, he was silent for a day and finally responded.
(Vignette: Before Gao himself responded, his studio staff tried to deny the authenticity of the revelations on the grounds that "the chat records are not Mr. Gao's profile picture.") ）
On the evening of May 9, Gao Yalin spoke out publicly. He said:
The dust has settled. The stone hanging in my heart was finally put down.
He is ready not to run away from it, but to face the problem head-on. He promised to be "happy" to register for his illegitimate daughter, and it was up to the child's mother, Wei Jialai, to decide whether to settle in Beijing or Shenzhen.
Wei Jia feedback
Wei Jia photo
Regarding Gao Yalin's positive attitude, Wei Jia also showed sincerity.
At the beginning of the revelation, she was ready to break the net and fight for her life, and admitted frankly: Just to get a household registration for her child!
When Wei Jia broke the news before, the motive seemed to be related to the division of property.
She once posted a maintenance agreement, saying that she couldn't get any child support. And "I am not so kind, and I will not let the person who hurt me feel better!" ”
And also deliberately emphasized that if the other party wants to take his life, then let the horse come at any time! There is a great tendency to end up together.
After a few years of relationship, he can finally have a name, and his daughter has a home, which should be a happy ending for Wei Jia.
But in the end, Wei Jia still couldn't help but remind Gao Yalin: Don't play tricks anymore, don't buy the water army to splash dirty water!
Wei Jia shouted, as long as Gao Yalin can take responsibility and give his daughter and himself an explanation, then he will still respect him as a man!
Worse than an apology
The grievances between Gao Wei seem to be coming to a successful end. Even after going through the ups and downs, if you can finally form a family and raise your daughter together, it is the responsibility of parents.
To err is human? As long as Gao Yalin can face the problem head-on and have the courage to take responsibility, I believe that he will eventually see the sun and see the blue sky again!
Gao Yalin has served as his girlfriend
I have to say that Mr. Gao has not only made a lot of achievements in his acting career, but also has a "colorful" emotional life.
Ms. Wei's injuries are about to be remedied, and the pressure on the other client, Ms. Xu, has not yet been resolved.
Although Xu Zijun did not explicitly admit that there was an "intimate relationship", a discerning person can see at a glance that the story inside is not simple.
Regardless of the real relationship between the two, this incident caused great distress and reputational damage to Xu Zijun. Gao Yalin should also show sincerity and make a formal apology to Miss Xu!
Xu Zizhong Photo
Netizens are hotly discussed
As a big melon in the entertainment industry, the "Gao Yalin Domestic Violence Derailment" incident has always occupied the recent hot list, which has aroused the attention and heated discussions of the majority of netizens.
Whether an acting star can cherish his feathers and deal with his private morality has a great influence on society. Netizens spoke in the comment area one after another and expressed their opinions.
The editor said
Public figures should pay more attention to private morality and cherish feathers in order to go in the long run
Gao Yalin's scandal is also a microcosm of today's social phenomenon. The story that happened to him is not uncommon in social life.
For ordinary people, these private moral issues may not be a big deal. Because it is limited to a small area of transmission, it will not cause much impact.
And public figures hold the resources of society. Their every move will arouse social attention, and their behavior will be invisibly focused and amplified!
Since you enjoy fame, you must also take responsibility. Well-known artists, successful people, and public figures should be more cautious in their words and deeds, strict with themselves, and not play a bad role in setting an example for the society because of some of their own mistakes.
In particular, Gao Yalin, as an important role in the "Childhood Drama", is deeply loved by children and is the "national father" in the minds of many children. His actions have a direct impact on the development of children. Therefore, it is even more important to examine one's own behavior and not affect the healthy growth of the next generation.
Fortunately, after the incident was exposed, Gao Yalin no longer ran away, but began to face the problem. He promised to take responsibility and give a satisfactory explanation to the woman and her daughter.
No man is born wise or learned? Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, good is great! I hope that after experiencing this turmoil, Gao Yalin can regain his strength, give full play to his artistic talent, repay the society with more and better works, and make up for the losses caused by his momentary mistakes!
Gao Yalin's life photos
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