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Aunt Qiu did not expect that her son and daughter-in-law would come to her and take the initiative to find her, and the son opened his mouth and said to her: "Mom, my father fell on his leg this time, the whole person can't move, you go to the hospital to take care of my father." Li Qin and I both have to go to work, and these days are also spinning, and I really can't take care of him. ”
Aunt Qiu's son Pan Qiang is very "filial piety", since Aunt Qiu divorced her ex-husband, the ex-husband originally lived by himself, but later because of his poor health, he lived under the same roof with his son. In fact, there is another reason why Pan Qiang is willing to take care of his father: because of the old man's pension, he can take it, and he can take the old man's house and savings. None of this has anything to do with his sister Qiu Mei.
Pan Qiang's sister is called Qiu Mei, since Aunt Qiu divorced, with her ex-husband alone and a child, the daughter changed her surname to follow Aunt Qiu. The brother occupied his father's property, Qiu Mei did not complain, anyway, in her opinion, it was like this, "Since you took his money, then the matter of pension is under your control, don't find me and my mother in the future."
But the problem is that Pan Qiang is very unruly and does not pay attention to logic, which is not to play the family card with Aunt Qiu again, and also specially picks Qiu Mei's time to work.
Listening to her son's words, Aunt Qiu was not moved.
Pan Qiang, Aunt Qiu really knows too well. Is he filial piety? The behavior he showed seemed to be quite filial, but those who really knew him knew that everything he did had a clear purpose, for money, especially after marrying his daughter-in-law Liqin.
When Aunt Qiu divorced her ex-husband, Aunt Qiu had no money, it can be said that she was equal to leaving the house, and her mother's family still had a small house, otherwise she would not even have the land to settle down. 50 years old resolutely divorced her ex-husband, at that time Pan Qiang talked about his girlfriend, but also had to prepare for marriage, Aunt Qiu had no money, this son naturally followed her ex-husband. Aunt Qiu didn't complain about anything, after all, her son followed Lao Tzu, and there was nothing to say. Besides, she also knew her daughter-in-law, was very snobbish, and saw money in her eyes.
When divorced, the daughter insisted on living with her, that time the daughter had just gone to college, and Aunt Qiu used her good cooking skills to be a nanny for her daughter to go to college. When her son became an adult, he didn't ask her for money, her daughter wanted to go to college, and she had to provide for her daughter to go to college no matter what she said.
When Aunt Qiu divorced, her son Pan Qiang did not understand why she wanted to divorce, and she was very complaining, "Why don't you think about it for me, this you divorced, how will my daughter-in-law's family look at our family in the future", but Aunt Qiu wants to be "selfish", she has lived most of her life, busy for others, it is difficult to be unable to do it for herself in the second half of her life.
For Aunt Qiu, when she walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau on the day of the divorce, she was completely rejuvenated.
There are no tears, no pain, only freedom and liberation.
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The daughter understood why Aunt Qiu wanted to divorce, so after they successfully divorced, she changed her surname and followed Aunt Qiu wholeheartedly.
In the past ten years, they have lived quite well, although they are not very rich, but mother and daughter are also happy to be dependent on each other. After Qiu Mei graduated from college, she returned to the city where Aunt Qiu lived to find a job, "Her mother is here, not far away." Later, Qiu Mei fell in love and got married again, and this dowry was also handled by Aunt Qiu, who also helped Qiu Mei with her children, and was also a person with a lot of joy.
The two husbands and wives divorced, the son and ex-husband, the daughter followed her, each of them to handle the marriage of their children, it is reasonable to say that it is very good, but the problem is that Aunt Qiu's ex-husband fell his leg, and his body was not as good as before. Seeing that the old man's health was getting worse and worse, Pan Qiang and his wife came to Aunt Qiu to walk diligently.
"Mom, how to say that you and my father have also been husband and wife for more than twenty years, and we must always read some husband and wife friendship." Anyway, now that my sister's children are about to go to kindergarten, you simply move directly to our house, for so many years, Liqin and I have not been filial to you, my father has you to take care of, we are all at ease. ”
Aunt Qiu did not speak, why did her son and daughter-in-law come, did not she still persuade her to remarry her ex-husband? Even if they don't remarry, she can move over, so that they don't have to hire a nanny, and they can let Aunt Qiu take care of her ex-husband.
Aunt Qiu is very angry, how did she raise Pan Qiang, the bastard son, Pan Qiang is very selfish, only thinking about his own interests, so as not to share the worries of his mother, her daughter-in-law Liqin will not.
No matter how Much Pan Qiang and Li Qin persuaded, Aunt Qiu did not agree.
"I will not remarry your father, I can promise you to go and see him, just to see, this visit is also on our old marital relationship." 」
Aunt Qiu later went to the hospital to see her ex-husband, who was very haggard, his face was not good, and it was inconvenient for the whole person to do anything. Seeing that Aunt Qiu was coming, he naturally ordered Aunt Qiu to come. Aunt Qiu didn't listen to his call, didn't have much to say to him, and then was anxious to leave. She couldn't stay with her ex-husband, and she felt suffocated for a minute and a second.
Pan Qiang once again mentioned the matter of remarriage: "Mom, you should consider remarrying my father, so that after a hundred years, we can still bury you in one piece, otherwise how will you get into the ground in the future?" ”
The son's words directly annoyed Aunt Qiu, who became angry and scolded loudly: "Don't disgust me, I will be buried with your father in the future." I would rather my ashes be sprinkled into the sea than be with him, and I have done enough as a husband and wife in this life and this life, and I must be separated when I die. Don't beat this idea, I won't remarry your father, and it's good to see him. ”
Aunt Qiu asked her son and daughter-in-law to hire a nanny, completely breaking their desire to let her take care of her.
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Why does Aunt Qiu have such a deep hatred for her ex-husband? How far do you go as a husband and wife, two people like enemies?
Aunt Qiu and her ex-husband met in the way of "talking matchmakers", the two people had never met before marriage, others introduced them to know each other, the two people looked at each other, and the marriage was also counted. The ex-husband is flexible and smart, and he still makes some money, but this money is earned, and the women outside have not broken it much. For this, Aunt Qiu did not want to care, her requirements for her ex-husband were, "As long as the money can be returned, he is also willing to raise children."
Both children are brought by Aunt Qiu herself, and the difference in age between the son and the daughter is a bit large. Aunt Qiu definitely did not want to get pregnant after giving birth to her son, but after a few years, she could not hold her ex-husband and had a daughter. After becoming pregnant with her daughter, her ex-husband would not let her fight, saying that she must be born. Aunt Qiu also lost her job in order to give birth to her daughter, and later she also gave a casual job to the restaurant, and her good cooking skills were learned in the hotel at that time.
Her marriage with her ex-husband is messy, the two people have no love, and rarely communicate anything, anyway, they are taking care of each other. She wanted to take care of her son, but then she mixed with her ex-husband, and she gradually became powerless. When her son did not listen to her, she carefully taught her daughter.
The reason why Aunt Qiu and her ex-husband had a vendetta was mainly because of one thing.
Aunt Qiu is very beautiful, this daughter follows her, and her appearance is also light and lovely. The ex-husband was drunk again, perhaps he saw the wrong person, and when he came back, he saw his daughter who had just come out of the bathroom and hugged her, and the daughter shouted, and Aunt Qiu ran out in a hurry, taking a broom and beating her ex-husband. Aunt Qiu is one meter five eight tall, and her ex-husband is one meter eight big, and she has his strength. Her ex-husband gave her a slap and knocked out her front teeth.
Of course, the ex-husband did not succeed, because Aunt Qiu opened the door, and the neighbors shouted out, and everyone surrounded them to watch the liveliness. Of course, Aunt Qiu will not tell the stupid things that her ex-husband has committed, but as long as she attracts people, her purpose will be achieved.
Since then, Aunt Qiu has grown a heart eye and never let her ex-husband go near her daughter again.
She had never imagined that her husband would be so. Son Pan Qiang did not know about this matter, Aunt Qiu did not say anything, the daughter was stimulated, Aunt Qiu also tried to persuade her as much as possible, "Your father is drunk, he hugged you, don't worry about it." But Aunt Qiu made up her mind to divorce, so at the age of 50, even if she left the house, she left.
She had had enough of her ex-husband in the first half of her life and absolutely could not continue to live with him, and if she was entangled in the second half of her life, then she would be too much of a failure.
Aunt Qiu said: "When I was 50 years old and about to get a divorce, my relatives and friends around me were shocked, because in their eyes, we were such a happy family of four. What kind of life I live, why do I have to be an outsider, I have not complained to others, because I know that they can't save me, I can only secretly exert my strength and wait for the opportunity, only if I divorce him, I and my daughter can live well. I will take this secret into my own grave, but not my grave with him. ”
When you are young, you don't divorce, if you really stay up until you have half a life before you divorce, most of them are enough, they can't stand it anymore, and they just want to escape. How can husband and wife become enemies? That's because some marriages are wrong from the beginning, they can be wrong for a while, they can also endure for a while, but they can't be wrong for a lifetime, endure for a lifetime.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.