Presumably, when you were a child, you always couldn't understand why the older generation in the family liked to plant flowers and grass, burn incense and drink tea. But as I got older, I also started to play with flowers and plants, and even studied tea tasting a little. What's going on? Have I also become the older generation that I once "disliked"?
Seriously, when I was a child, I watched my dad busy around his little garden all day long, and I muttered to myself: What's so fun about these flowers and plants? But now, I actually plant greenery on the balcony, and I go to water, prune and prune the branches whenever I have time. My friends say I've changed, and I feel as if I've been infected by the "virus" of the older generation.
Not only that, but I also found that many of my friends around me have also become interested in traditional culture. When everyone got together, they no longer just chatted about gossip and played games, but began to talk about calligraphy and tea art, which used to be "old-fashioned". Doesn't this force us to admit that we are old?
Recently, I have seen a lot of netizens sharing their "aging" hobbies on social platforms, such as fishing, health, bonsai, etc. It seems that everyone is starting to enjoy this slow-paced, quality lifestyle. It dawned on me that this might be the way to grow! We have gradually shifted from seeking new excitement to focusing on inner peace and comfort.
Sometimes I wonder if this change is because of the circumstances in which we live. Or is it because our mentality has matured? Maybe both! With the development of society, our life is becoming faster and faster, and the pressure is increasing. At this time, the seemingly "old-fashioned" hobbies of planting flowers and plants, burning incense and drinking tea can make us relax and enjoy a moment of tranquility.
But then again, although I started to like these "aging" hobbies, I am still the kind of person who pursues novelty and excitement in my bones. Perhaps that's the charm of growth! We have found our own piece of world through continuous experimentation and exploration.
Speaking of this shift in hobbies, I suddenly remembered a friend of mine, Li Hua. He used to be a night owl and spent all day in bars, but now he's a big fan of yoga and meditation. This shift is nothing short of astonishing! But then again, he is indeed in better shape now than before, and his whole person exudes a peaceful temperament.
And my colleague Xiao Wang, who used to be a staunch Western medicine school and disdained Chinese medicine for health preservation. But now? He not only learns TCM knowledge by himself, but also often popularizes health tips for us colleagues. The transformation is truly breathtaking!
With the pursuit of a healthy lifestyle, organic food and vegetarian food are also becoming more and more popular. I have also begun to pay attention to a healthy diet, after all, the body is the capital of the revolution!
On social media, I also see a lot of discussions about "middle-aged hobbies". I was dazzled by the stories of their hobbies that everyone shared their hobbies. It dawned on me that this shift in hobbies was not an isolated one, but a universal phenomenon. This may be the price of growth! We gradually let go of those flashy pursuits and begin to focus on our inner needs and feelings.
Truth be told, this shift in hobbies has also made me re-examine my life. I began to focus more on quality of life rather than just material satisfaction. Maybe this is the so-called "back to basics"! We gradually return to the essence of life and enjoy those simple and pure pleasures.
As people's hobbies change, so do the industries and markets. For example, the rise of outdoor equipment, health food and other industries fully illustrates this point. This shift in hobbies has affected not only us personally, but also the economic structure and development trends of the entire society.
Some netizens said that after their hobbies changed, their relationship with family and friends became more harmonious, because they had more common topics and experiences. Isn't that the life we seek? Spend quality time with family and friends and strengthen your bond with each other.
Society is developing, times are advancing, and our hobbies and pursuits are constantly changing. But no matter how it changes, we must keep a young heart, have the courage to try new things, and enjoy every moment of life. After all, life is made up of these bits and pieces, and we must cherish the present moment and live our own wonderful life!