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Since 2005, the sex ratio at birth on the mainland has been 118.88, which is a serious deviation from the normal value. In Jiangxi, Guangdong, Hainan, Anhui and Henan, the gender ratio even exceeds 130.
In the face of the disparity between men and women, many areas have also become the hardest hit areas for the abduction and trafficking of women and children. During this period, social problems such as cross-border illegal marriages also emerged.
As of 2015, the number of Vietnamese brides in China has exceeded 100,000. Most Vietnamese brides come to China with the intention of living a stable life.
However, after getting married, many Vietnamese brides chose to run away. And the reasons for their escape can be roughly divided into three categories, one of which is outrageous!
Vietnamese bride who escaped
In 2013, 36-year-old Wang was introduced to Vietnam for a blind date, and within a few days, he met several Vietnamese girls one after another, and finally decided to marry Xiao Chen, a Vietnamese female college student with clear eyebrows.
Xiao Chen is 10 years younger than Wang, but Xiao Chen's parents are more fond of Wang. So, with the matchmaker's matchmaking, Xiao Chen followed Wang back to China from Vietnam.
All kinds of marriage expenses, including introduction fees, added up, and Wang spent more than 100,000 yuan, which finally lived up to expectations and successfully got a wife. It didn't take long for the two of them to get married locally.
Wang was very happy and couldn't help but start imagining the sweet future of himself and Xiao Chen. However, reality is always good at pouring cold water.
After getting married, in order to let his wife settle down and live a good life with him, Wang has always loved Xiao Chen. But in less than half a year, his favorite wife suddenly said goodbye without saying goodbye.
This made Wang very puzzled, but if he thought about it carefully, he was not bad at Xiao Chen, why did he still fail to keep her?
However, Wang's experience is not unique.
In 2019, Zhang Yuan, a citizen of Cangzhou City, also married a Vietnamese girl.
Zhang Yuan is a very honest person, and he is not good at words, so he has to get married at the age of 30, and his family is very anxious.
By chance, the family learned that someone nearby had married a Vietnamese daughter-in-law two years ago and had been living a very good life, so they thought that Zhang Yuan's grandfather Zhang Qing wanted to find a Vietnamese girl for his grandson.
After being introduced, Zhang Qing met Liu Jianyuan, who was responsible for helping others introduce Vietnamese girls, and also posted the content of "150,000 can bring a Vietnamese girl home" in his circle of friends.
Liu Jianyuan provided Zhang Qing with photos of three Vietnamese girls, and then charged Zhang Qing 140,000 yuan (discounted). Then Zhang Qing took his grandson Zhang Yuan and other family members to follow Liu Jianyuan to Vietnam.
However, Zhang Yuan never saw the three girls in the photo, and after staying in Vietnam for nearly two months, Zhang Yuan finally met a Vietnamese girl.
In Vietnam, they held a simple marriage ceremony and then signed the marriage at the consulate. Soon after, the Vietnamese girl returned to China with Zhang Qing's family.
Soon after returning to China, they got married together at the local civil affairs bureau, and after the marriage, Zhang Yuan bought jewelry and mobile phones for the Vietnamese girl.
Vietnamese girls can speak simple Chinese, and there are basically no barriers to communication with Zhang Qing's family, and they are also very diligent. Zhang Qing's family was very happy for her arrival.
However, less than half a month after getting married, this Vietnamese girl slipped under Zhang Yuan's nose.
At that time, she and her husband Zhang Yuan were taking a walk, and suddenly said that they were hungry and wanted to eat bread, and Zhang Yuan went to buy it as soon as he heard it. What he never expected was that while he was buying bread, the Vietnamese girl got into a car parked on the side of the road and escaped.
Zhang Qing's family was so anxious that they called the police. In order to marry a daughter-in-law for his grandson, Zhang Qing spent nearly 200,000 yuan before and after, but he didn't expect that in the end, he would end up with a person with no money.
If you want to compare with the two of them, Zhao Daming from Hebei is not to mention how lucky.
Lucky Zhao Daming
In 2015, Zhao Daming from Hubei saw a news article on the Internet titled "Divorced man retrieved his beautiful wife from Vietnam for tens of thousands of yuan", and his heart has been itching.
At that time, he was 40 years old, although he had a short marriage history, but it did not affect his heart yearning for love, he also wanted to find a Vietnamese daughter-in-law who combined many advantages such as virtue, filial piety, and gentleness.
So he tried to contact the so-called "Sino-Vietnamese marriage agency" from various channels, and really found one for him. After adding friends, the other party sent many moving photos of Vietnamese girls, which made Zhao Daming very moved.
So Zhao Daming took his daily 500 yuan to invite the translator on the plane to Vietnam, the day after arriving in Vietnam, Zhao Daming in order to improve the success rate of blind date, but also deliberately changed his hotel to a four-star.
When he arrived, he contacted the introducer and said that he wanted to meet the beauties in the photos, but the introducer told him that they were all network pictures.
This made Zhao Daming's heart very uncomfortable, and then the introducer asked him what he wanted to find, Zhao Daming reported his request, he did not ask for young and beautiful, but asked for age under 30, and there are no children, and the appearance can be seen.
After learning about Zhao Daming's standards, the introducer said that he would pay attention. It didn't take long for the introducer to send a picture of a slim and small woman who was 28 years old.
Under the impetus of the introducer, Zhao Daming decided to marry this Vietnamese woman, and he swore to the other party: "Next time I come to Vietnam, I will go to your house to propose marriage." ”
It is understood that to marry a Vietnamese bride, there are not many things, only need to prepare a set of three gold jewelry, as well as the gift money of the woman's parents and the cost of the banquet.
And after the money is paid, the man doesn't have to take care of anything, and all affairs are taken care of by the woman. However, the emergence of the "Vietnamese bride" is also a double-edged sword, which not only promotes Sino-Vietnamese friendship, but also lays the foundation for breaking the law and committing crimes.
Because of the imbalance between men and women in China, many bachelors are unable to marry wives, especially in some remote mountain villages and rural areas.
In this case, the bride price money also began to rise, and even fewer people were able to marry a wife. Therefore, the emergence of Vietnamese brides has given many bachelors in China hope to start a family.
But if you often watch social news, you will find that there are many Vietnamese brides who come to China, but there are also many Vietnamese girls who run away soon after getting married.
Why do so many Vietnamese girls come to China to get married? Why do you run away after getting married?
The reason for the escape
In the past few years, although Vietnam's economic development has been rapid, because the previous foundation was too poor, the income of Vietnamese people is still generally low.
In Vietnam, where some people earn less than 24 yuan a day, many Vietnamese want to flee their country under tremendous economic pressure, and there are many smugglers.
However, smuggling is not easy to talk about, and there is still a great risk, so many girls from poor families are more inclined to get rid of Vietnam by marrying outside.
In addition, Vietnam also has a large ratio of men to women, but it is the opposite of China, where there are more women than men.
However, due to the influence of ancient China, the idea of "male superiority and inferiority of women" is still very common in today's Vietnam. Most women have to work since they reached adulthood, whether it's restaurant waiters or roadside vendors, most of them are women.
Their husbands, on the other hand, are mostly lazy at home and basking in the sun.
Women often work outside the home, and they see more people on weekdays, and Chinese tourists who visit Vietnam always leave the impression that they are wealthy, which makes many Vietnamese girls have the idea of marrying in China.
However, when they married in China, they found that the reality was not what they imagined. Most of the Chinese bachelors they matched were in rural areas and did not earn much.
In 2012, two Vietnamese girls were introduced to Fujian, China by an intermediary who told them that their future husband's family would be wealthy and that their future life would be very rich.
With longing and expectation, they went to the man's house, but found that the reality was completely different from what the agent said, not only did the family background not match the description, but the man's family also beat and scolded them.
Realizing that they had been deceived, they wanted to return to Vietnam, but the man's family did not allow them, saying that they had already paid the agency fee and therefore could not leave.
Taking advantage of the opportunity to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a marriage certificate, they slipped away under the pretext of going to the toilet and called the police, and with the help of the police, they returned to Vietnam.
The reason why such Vietnamese girls run away is because they were deceived by intermediaries, but there are also Vietnamese girls who are purely trying to cheat on marriage.
Some transnational marriage fraud gangs take advantage of the psychology of Chinese bachelors who want to marry a wife, find suitable Vietnamese women, let them smuggle into the country, and then use marriage as a bait to defraud them of gift money, and then flee again.
Because of the lucrative nature of the cross-border matchmaking industry, some gangs lure many Vietnamese women into the country under the pretext of introducing jobs or high-quality matches, and then abduct and sell them.
The vast majority of these trafficked women are still married women who have been forced to remarry others in China, and some Vietnamese women have even been resold multiple times.
They create the illusion that the victim has escaped, and use it repeatedly to earn high fees.
Because such incidents have occurred one after another, which have had a negative impact on the people of both China and Vietnam, transnational marriage brokering has long been recognized as illegal.
But the Sino-Vietnamese marriage agencies still exist, and they have gone from open to underground.
epilogue
Previously, the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of China had issued a message reminding Chinese citizens that some group buying websites have launched activities to send netizens to Vietnam for blind dates for free, and in this regard, it is necessary to be cautious about overseas blind date information, understand the relevant laws and regulations at home and abroad and the qualifications of intermediaries, and make a decision.
Love crosses borders, but engaging in illegal activities in the name of "love" will definitely be cracked down by China and Vietnam.
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