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Peach Blossom Eyes
Peach Blossom Eyes
Preface
Variety shows emerge in an endless stream and are full of tricks, but most of them do not get rid of the old routines such as "infighting to create topics" and "setting up people to attract attention".
However, the fifth season of "Flowers and Boys" has found a different way, and in the more than 20-day journey of 7 stars with different personalities, there has not been a single quarrel, and no one cares about the character design, which is eye-catching.
The truth behind this is worth pondering.
"Infighting" variety shows are outdated
At present, many variety shows are eye-catching, specializing in creating contradictions and conflicts.
staged a quarrel drama without saying a word, which made the tension at the same time, but also made the stars and the audience inexplicable.
Typical cases such as Yang Zi and Li Sidani designed quarrels for birthday surprises, Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin turned against each other, Song Dandan and Zhang Han scolded each other, etc.
However, do these gimmicks really make people buy it? In fact, the audience has long seen through these false tricks.
The so-called "infighting" is just a self-directed and self-performed performance by the program team, and it has nothing to do with the real feelings of the guests.
Over time, the audience will inevitably develop aesthetic fatigue and lose interest in this kind of hypocritical performance.
What's more, in today's society, the relationship between people is becoming increasingly alienated, and variety shows deliberately exaggerating contradictions and antagonisms are undoubtedly worse and contrary to the main theme of society.
On the other hand, in "Flower Less 5", although the seven guests have very different personalities, experiences, and circles, they treat each other with a tolerant, friendly and sincere attitude during their journey in a foreign country, face difficulties together, and overcome difficulties together.
This kind of picture of true feelings is what the audience really likes to see and can resonate.
It can be seen that the set of "infighting" has become more and more inconsistent with the mainstream values of the times and is destined to be eliminated by the times.
"Flower Less 5" gives a negative answer.
7 stars with distinctive personalities get along day and night in a foreign country, encounter grievances and unsatisfactory, and none of them are angry with others.
On the contrary, in the dilemma of booking the wrong hotel and poor food and accommodation, instead of complaining, everyone gave each other more encouragement.
During the trip, Qin Lan had the opportunity to "spoil the fun", but under the inspiration of Qin Hailu, she decided to support the team's activities.
Qin Hailu can also argue and give solutions to the budget issue, and the two sides communicate amicably and happily.
These seemingly ordinary little things actually require extremely high emotional intelligence and self-cultivation.
Think about it, when we are in adversity, mentally and physically exhausted, if we don't have a generous and tolerant heart, it is difficult not to anger others.
And all the members of the Hua Shao Troupe showed this valuable quality without exception.
They use their actions to explain what maturity is and what friendship is.
This kind of sincere and moving picture is precisely the height that "infighting" variety shows can never reach.
It can be seen from this that the so-called "infighting" is just an appearance without an emotional foundation and tacit understanding, and it is not worth mentioning at all.
They may bring momentary gimmicks and heat, but they will not stand the test of time after all.
Only a variety show like "Flower Less 5", which returns to its original intention and focuses on true feelings, can endure and become a model.
Truth is the king of "human design".
The "personality" of the entertainment industry is actually to draw a star in a box and force him to act according to a certain inherent impression.
For example, Wu Xin is asked to play Lin Chiling's gentleness, Yang Di is to show timidity and fear, and Jia Ling is to play a kind and generous rural teacher.
However, in fact, the set framework is simply a paradox, and no matter how similar the performance is, the audience can see that it is fake.
In the long run, celebrities have to disguise themselves and suppress themselves at all times, which is undoubtedly a huge harm to their physical and mental health.
What's even more terrifying is that once the personality collapses, what awaits them is likely to be a devastating blow to their reputation.
Just imagine, if a person with a frank nature is portrayed as a gentle and docile image, once his true temperament is accidentally revealed in reality, he will immediately be "collapsed" by cyberbullying.
This cruel reality is essentially a distortion and suppression of human nature.
Everyone is a unique individual with their own personality and characteristics, so why should they be solidified into a label? What really touches people's hearts is never the perfect image that is carefully carved, but the real individual who is vivid and three-dimensional, flesh and blood.
The highlight moment of "Flower Less 5" is precisely that all the members let go of themselves and break the "personality".
Qin Lan is elegant and generous? She is online every minute, sloppy on camera, jumping into the sea regardless of her image, and screaming with wrinkles on her face.
Xin Zhilei is cold and introverted? She and her sister Tao talked generously about the topic of "diapers".
Is Di Ali Gerba a fairy? She went out without makeup, and when she was excited, she opened her throat and sang mountain songs.
Even all the handsome guys and beauties do not hide their embarrassed appearance.
It is this true temperament that makes the show warm and textured, and makes people smile.
It proves to us that the most beautiful state of a person is not the perfection after careful packaging, but the freedom and courage to dare to show his true self and face all kinds of imperfections in life.
This sense of realism is incomparable to any "character design".
The beauty of the body is the surface, and the inside is the inside
In the past, variety shows always liked to take the opportunity to show the beauty and figure of the guests.
For example, Yang Mi in the previous seasons of "Little Flowers" often appeared in inappropriate outfits, wearing a suspender shirt when setting up a tent, and layering three clothes when exercising.
Although she became popular, it was short-lived after all, and she lacked a sense of sustainable topic.
In fact, paying too much attention to appearance is a superficial and objectifying manifestation of women.
A program that truly has connotation and depth should tap into each person's unique inner charm.
After all, people's appearance fades over time, and only inner beauty can last forever.
On the other hand, what Qin Hailu, Qin Lan and others left an impression on this season was not their appearance, but their shining personality charm.
For example, Qin Hailu is both gentle and caring, and takes the lead at critical moments; Qin Lan is always optimistic and has become everyone's spiritual pillar; Xin Zhilei took care of everyone with her heart and touched a lot of sisters; Di Lieba is beautiful and unashamed, and has captured the hearts of thousands of audiences, each of them has a unique cuteness, because of intentions, kindness, and sincerity, which makes this journey so unforgettable, and such a character can stand up to scrutiny.
This also reveals that everyone's charm is far more than just the appearance, but the unique temperament that exudes from the inside out.
Some people may look ordinary, but because of kindness and love, people are like a spring breeze; Some people may not be good at words, but they are kind because they are sincere...... These seemingly ordinary traits are actually a person's most valuable asset.
On the other hand, those values that only focus on beauty and only promote material things are how superficial and fragile they are.
They may bring short-lived vanity, but they will not stand the test of time.
Only by taking inner beauty as the foundation can we bloom the most moving and lasting brilliance.
True feelings are better than "CP sense"
In order to hype, many variety shows always like to give CP to the guest group.
For example, Mencius Ziyi, Guo Qilin, and Zhang Han all had ambiguous episodes; For example, Yang Zi and Zhang Yixing were coaxed by their predecessors; For example, every season of "Let's Run" has a fixed CP and so on.
However, what is the significance of this deliberately created "chemical reaction" to the show? How much is the authenticity of the guests' feelings? In fact, speculation CP is just a means to attract attention, although it can bring short-term topicality, but for guests and audiences, it lacks a sense of reality.
After all, feelings are everyone's most private and real field, where can it withstand such consumption and hype? And those stars who are forced to cooperate with "acting" will undoubtedly have to bear huge psychological pressure.
In the long run, they are likely to have a wrong perception of their relationship and lose their yearning for marriage.
The consequences of this are really more than worth the losses.
Although the young guests of "Flower Less 5" are all online, the program team did not take advantage of this hype.
Although Hu Xianxu and Wang Anyu are gentlemen and free and easy, they seem to be a good match with Zhao Zhaoyi and Reba, but everyone doesn't say a word.
On the contrary, what touches people is the respect that these young people have for their predecessors, their thoughtfulness for their companions, and their cherishing of the bits and pieces that happened during their journey.
They weaved this beautiful memory with sincerity and friendship, allowing the audience to see a purer and nobler emotion.
This also tells us that what is truly worth cherishing is never the artificially set "CP sense", but the trust and appreciation from the heart.
Those like-minded travel companions, because of the common experience and tacit understanding, will naturally build a deep relationship.
This kind of emotion does not need any external force to fuel the fire, because it itself is moving and tenacious enough.
On the other hand, those routines of speculating on CP are so illusory and fragile.
They are like castles on the beach, although the scenery is infinite for a while, but after all, they cannot compete with the test of time and reality.
Only true feelings can be like a rock, standing tall and shining in the wind and rain of life.
In the end, the concept of "full CP" is more contagious than any individual combination, because it interprets a broader and broader love.
This kind of love is not limited to the love between men and women, but embraces the multiple dimensions of family affection, friendship, and teacher-student affection.
It tells us that the emotions between people are far more colorful than we think.
As long as we manage with our hearts, every fate can bloom the most beautiful flowers.
epilogue
If a variety show wants to get out of the circle, in the final analysis, it still depends on its true feelings to move people.
Qin Hailu, an "anti-hypocrisy expert" in the circle, was moved to tears for the first time, which shows how precious this journey is.
When the show no longer relies on creating contradictions to attract attention, no longer defines guests with stereotypes, but returns to the truth and feels each other with heart, then it will have the power to break barriers and get close to the heart.
This journey of more than 20 days may be just a small episode in life, but because of mutual support and appreciation with like-minded friends, it will leave a warm and lasting mark in life.