The beginning of a life's journey: a little girl's great dreams!
The protagonist of this article, Qin Hailu, is not an inspirational example who comes from the bottom of society and climbs through his own efforts, but a lucky person born in a country of art. She was born in the romantic city of Yingkou, Liaoning Province, where her father was the head of a local cinema and her mother was a member of the art troupe with honorary titles.
Such a family environment undoubtedly provides her with a good artistic atmosphere and educational resources, since she was a child, Qin Hailu has been pinned on by her parents and encouraged her to move forward on the road of art, therefore, dance has become her favorite thing.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Qin Hailu is 12 years old. This year, she was successfully admitted to Yingkou Drama School and began her professional study of Peking Opera performance, focusing on the sword and horse industry.
Looking back on those difficult childhood years, Qin Hailu still feels palpitations, in order to practice solid basic skills, she had to undergo harsh training - even during sleep, she needs to hang one leg on the side of the bed, and by the next morning, the moment the teacher unties the rope, her calf is often completely unconscious and unable to move.
Faced with this situation, she had to endure the sharp pain like a pinprick by constantly kneading her leg muscles until she regained consciousness. On top of that, the daily high-intensity training is never-ending: 100 flying feet, hundreds of rolls, dozens of singing ...... Qin Hailu recalls this experience and still has lingering palpitations.
She was just a teenager at the time! The physical pain will gradually become numb eventually, but the mental torture makes her burst into tears every night, crying so much that she can't control herself.
However, it is precisely because of these arduous trainings that Qin Hailu can be at ease in her future acting career and interpret all kinds of thrilling plots to the fullest.
She once laughed at herself: "The cruel training I went through not only laid a solid foundation for my performance, but also made my psychological endurance far beyond that of ordinary people" Since then, no matter what kind of difficulties she encounters, she can easily say the words "it doesn't matter".
However, unlike other peers, Qin Hailu has never dreamed of becoming a well-known actor and shining star. In the depths of her heart, she only longs to live the simplest and most simple life of ordinary people: marry the person she loves deeply, become a virtuous wife, spend the rest of her life with her husband, raise children together, start from scratch, struggle step by step, and finally walk the long road of life hand in hand.
In this way, this seemingly small dream may be ordinary at that time, but for this girl, it is undoubtedly the most precious and longing ideal of life. Therefore, when she stepped into the Central Academy of Drama at the age of 17, Qin Hailu's heart was not the slightest excitement and joy, but showed a cold indifference to the prospect of "becoming an actor".
2. A Twist of Fate: The Road to Drama Academy
Although Qin Hailu did not have too many expectations and longings for her acting career, she still entered the Central Academy of Drama, a well-known performing arts institution of higher learning in China at that time, as scheduled.
Here, she not only met her classmates Zhang Ziyi, Liu Ye, Yuan Quan and others who would emerge in the entertainment industry in the future, but also embarked on the road of no return that led her to glory by chance.
When she was about to finish her senior year, the famous director Chen Guo personally visited Qin Hailu and sent an invitation to Qin Hailu to star in her first film "Durian Piao". Faced with this important opportunity that may change the trajectory of his life, Qin Hailu at that time fell into deep hesitation.
Her original plan was to return to her hometown in the Northeast after successfully obtaining her diploma, live a stable and ordinary life, get married, have children, and enjoy a comfortable life like petty bourgeoisie.
However, when she saw that her proud protégé was confused, Qin Hailu's mentor Chang Li gave her encouragement and support in a timely manner. Teacher Chang can be called the star mentor of Chinese opera, she is convinced that Qin Hailu has excellent acting talent, and often uses this as a reason to enlighten her: "You have spent four years in Chinese opera, is it just to get a diploma?" Your classmates all have dreams of entering the entertainment industry, but you have nothing to ask for.
"There are only a handful of students in our class who can really master the stage, and you are one of them. If you don't leave any work behind when you graduate, people will think you're a failed student in the future.
Teacher Chang's sincere words deeply touched the voice in Qin Hailu's heart that was eager to prove her self-worth, and after repeated thinking and weighing, she finally decided to accept the invitation of director Chen Guo and starred in the first film work in her life.
After the release of the film "Durian Piao", it quickly caused a huge response in the Chinese film industry. With her superb acting skills, Qin Hailu won the Best Actress honor at the Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards, the Hong Kong Film Awards and the Golden Bauhinia Awards, and became a high-profile new star overnight.
This former "dark horse" instantly won the love of the audience and quickly became a new star in the entertainment industry that everyone knows.
In the face of such brilliant achievements, many people are convinced that Qin Hailu will work hard, bravely climb the peak, and push his career to the highest level. However, what is unexpected is that she chose to "escape" - holding the graduation certificate of the Central Academy of Drama, she is still firmly committed to white-collar work, creating her own small business, and striving to pursue the ordinary life she once dreamed of.
3. Looking for belonging: falling in love with Wang Xinjun
After the baptism of white-collar career and entrepreneurship, Qin Hailu finally returned to the familiar showbiz. Although she has participated in many film and television masterpieces, her career development seems to have fallen into a bottleneck.
Just when she had doubts about her own worth and was confused and helpless, fate opened a new chapter in her life.
In 2011, Qin Hailu participated in the filming of the costume drama "Independent Column", and met the actor Wang Xinjun, who was also extraordinary, in the crew. At that time, Wang Xinjun had just ended his marriage with his ex-wife Tang Jing, and the two gradually developed deep feelings in the day and night coexistence of the crew, and quickly fell in love.
At first, their relationship was questioned and condemned by all walks of life, and many accused Qin Hailu of being a "third party" and intervening in Wang Xinjun's family. In fact, Qin Hailu and Wang Xinjun's encounter and acquaintance occurred after Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing divorced.
Although the road of love is full of twists and turns, Qin Hailu has never had the slightest doubt about this relationship. In her eyes, Wang Xinjun is a lifelong trusted companion, who is not only considerate, but also good at pleasing women, always making her smile from the bottom of her heart and feel endless ease and happiness.
What's even more rare is that while Wang Xinjun brings Qin Hailu happiness, he can also provide her with a solid support in life and shelter from the wind and rain.
It wasn't until later that Wang Xinjun met Qin Hailu's mother, formally proposed and got her consent. Qin's mother's words made her daughter unforgettable: "I agreed to this marriage because you made my daughter regain her bright smile."
It's been a long time since she's been on the show and she hasn't really laughed, but after being with you, I saw that carefree little girl come back again."
A word to wake up the dreamer! Qin Hailu's gloom that has been hidden in her heart for many years has been vividly revealed. It turns out that in the eyes of her mother, her daughter has borne countless unspeakable burdens since she set foot in the entertainment industry, whether it is her studies on the road of growth or all kinds of difficulties in her career, they are like dark clouds lingering in her life, making it difficult for her to show her joy.
However, the arrival of Wang Xinjun seems to have brought a ray of sunshine to this gloomy sky, and he has made Qin Hailu rediscover the source of inner peace and a happy life.
Part 4: The Haze of the Family: The Heavy Blow of the Death of a Loved One
Qin Hailu and Wang Xinjun's married life was full of sweetness and warmth at first, however, the good times did not last long, and they soon suffered the heaviest blow and severe test in their lives.
The honeymoon of the newlywed Yan'er has not yet ended, but the death of relatives has sprung up one after another.
Qin Hailu became pregnant shortly after her marriage, however, just six months before she was pregnant, a heartbreaking news came - Wang Xinjun's brother-in-law died in a sudden car accident.
Xinjun and Uncle Xiao have been inseparable since childhood, and their relationship is incomparable, and in the face of this cruel reality, he can hardly bear it, and the whole person falls into deep grief.
And Wang Xinjun's parents fell into endless grief after the loss of their beloved son, they couldn't even take care of Qin Hailu, who was pregnant, and no one took care of the daily chores at home.
In order to alleviate the heavy responsibility on her husband's shoulders, Qin Hailu resolutely stepped forward, although she was about to give birth, she still had to take on the heavy responsibility of the whole family with her big-bellied body, seeing his wife so tired, Wang Xinjun had mixed feelings in his heart.
After a long period of suffering, Wang Xinjun finally reluctantly suppressed the grief in his heart and redevoted himself to the busy crew work, hoping to divert his attention. However, fate did not let their family go easily, and only three months later, Wang Xinjun's father died because he could not get rid of the pain of losing his son.
This is undoubtedly worse for the newlyweds who have just entered the marriage hall, and the whole family is instantly shrouded in haze.
At that time, Qin Hailu was already pregnant for nine months and was about to give birth, and she was under tremendous physical and mental pressure. As an elderly mother, she was already suffering from gestational diabetes and was always in a state of extreme tension.
Coupled with the heavy blow of the death of her relatives, Qin Hailu seemed to be in a raging storm and struggled.
Part 5: Rebirth from the Fire: The Power to Heal Wounds
In the face of her mother-in-law's deep grief and the many difficulties she faced, Qin Hailu never gave in, bravely stood up, and shared the heavy responsibility of the entire family. When she was nine months pregnant, she resolutely decided to take on all the housework, take care of her heartbroken mother-in-law, and handle her father-in-law's funeral with her own hands.
In order to be able to share the worries and relieve pressure for her husband Wang Xinjun, Qin Hailu even took the initiative to cancel the wedding plan that had been determined, and tearfully promised her lover: "At this moment, the family situation has undergone such drastic changes, and it is really inappropriate to hold a grand wedding, as long as our family can return to happiness, it is enough."
As newlyweds, the wedding was supposed to be the important moment they dreamed of, but she didn't hesitate to put it down.
When her mother-in-law was in the most difficult moment of her life, Qin Hailu gave her endless love and comfort, and told her firmly: "Mom, from now on, I will take care of you like my own daughter, and Xinjun will also share this responsibility with me."
These words undoubtedly gave my mother-in-law great encouragement and hope.
After Qin Hailu made such a huge effort, she finally gave birth to a healthy and lovely baby boy as she wished. However, the heavy mental stress quickly caused her to fall into severe postpartum depression.
Seeing her daughter-in-law's condition, her mother-in-law immediately urged Wang Xinjun to go home and accompanied Qin Hailu to the hospital for treatment.
In order to help his wife alleviate his condition, Wang Xinjun decisively suspended the work at hand and accompanied Qin Hailu wholeheartedly. His meticulous care and meticulous care finally made Qin Hailu gradually get rid of the haze and bloom a bright smile again.
It is precisely because of her husband's tolerance, understanding and careful care that she was able to completely heal the deep scars in Qin Hailu's heart and give her confidence and courage in life.
6. Thanksgiving: Looking back at the enlightenment of life
Looking back on the past, Qin Hailu has experienced countless ups and downs and hardships, but in the end she still ushered in a happy life. She often reflects on the hardships of the first half of her life, from which she has learned a lot of valuable life wisdom.
After experiencing psychological trauma, Qin Hailu was even more grateful for her mother-in-law's love. In order to repay her mother-in-law for her nurturing kindness, she regarded her mother-in-law as filial piety as her own mother.
On every holiday or leisurely leisure time, Qin Hailu always holds her mother-in-law's hands tightly, and the two go to the mall to shop hand in hand, as close as sisters who talk about everything.
Whenever she witnessed this heartwarming scene, Qin Hailu's biological mother couldn't help but be "jealous" and quipped: "If you weren't in the know, I'm afraid you would really mistake your mother-in-law for me!" ”。
Under the endless love of her mother-in-law and her husband's magnanimity and in-depth understanding, Qin Hailu's former psychological wounds were finally completely healed. When she looked back on the past years, she said with emotion: "If I hadn't met the new army, I might still be the woman who carried a heavy burden and couldn't smile anymore."
It was his selfless support that gave her the courage to face all the hardships of life, and her mother-in-law's love for her like a biological mother brought her incomparable warmth and strength.
From a child born in an artistic family, to a hard-working practitioner in an opera school, from the confusion during the low ebb of his career, to finally finding his inner home, Qin Hailu's life journey can be described as magnificent.
However, she always admonished herself to learn to cherish what she had in front of her, and to be grateful to those who had given her warmth and strength in the journey of life, so that she could truly experience the taste of happiness and become a virtuous and happy wife and mother.