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Marriage is a major event in life, so I really broke my heart for my son, but I didn't think that my worries not only did not get my son's understanding, but my son thought that I was meddling and disgusted with me.
Originally, it was a good thing that my son was going to get married, but I was cautious everywhere, for fear of offending my daughter-in-law in the future, but my step by step forbearance and regression, in exchange for the daughter-in-law's family's inches.
Later, I really couldn't bear to break out, and said "no" directly to the woman's request, who would have thought that the woman's family would withdraw from the marriage directly, and my son blamed me for breaking them up and hating me to the core, but I also felt very wronged!
01
My wife left early, leaving me alone to raise my son, and the people around me persuaded me to find another one to take care of our mother, but I rejected them one by one, and I still want to live on my own, after all, no matter what money is, it is best to have it in my own hands.
In this way, I dragged my son to junior high school and high school alone, and my son was more competitive and was admitted to our key university.
All this was originally developing in a good direction, but after our son met Xiaolan, the peaceful life of our family was completely broken.
My son and Xiaolan met through a blind date, and my son was thirty years old at the time, but he didn't want to find a partner for anything, but he made me anxious like an ant on a hot pot.
Seeing that my son is getting bigger and bigger, under my kind words and persuasion, my son finally agreed to meet on a blind date.
However, his son's colleague introduced him to his son, and his son fell in love with him immediately, and the girl was Xiaolan.
At that time, my son came back and said that he had fallen in love with a girl, and when I was in contact, I couldn't be happier, and my son let me look at Xiaolan's photo, which was a very ordinary girl.
But as long as my son is willing to get married, I, the mother, will have nothing else to ask for, but it backfired, and my son's final marriage was blown.
After half a year of getting along with the son, the relationship between the two parties is also very good, and the two discussed the marriage if they could.
A few days before I went to meet Xiaolan's parents, it happened to be my birthday, so I asked my son to let Xiaolan call her over for dinner, which was lively.
When Xiaolan came, she brought me a gift, it was a wallet, my son said it was a brand of goods, let me keep it, when I heard this, I felt that the weight of my future daughter-in-law's heart was quite heavy, I was very happy, thinking that there should be no mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict in the future, who would have thought that it was really my wishful thinking.
When I met her parents, I saw that her mother was using the same model, and I felt a little lost at that time, thinking that I was not unique in Xiaolan's heart.
Of course, it's someone's own mother, it should be, I quickly adjusted my emotions, and then talked about my son's marriage, at this time the two sides are still very harmonious.
Xiaolan's parents asked to buy a car and a house in full, and they didn't want their daughter to marry and suffer, but this condition was not too much, because the land in their hometown was occupied, so they packed a lot of money, and my family could meet this request.
Later, Xiaolan's parents said that they wanted a bride price of 180,000, and I heard that it was a bit much, our local average bride price was 100,000, and I thought that Xiaolan's parents would ask for 128,000 at most, and the result was 188,000.
After buying the house, I have to decorate, which is another big expense, I really can't get 188,000 in my hand, so I want to see if Xiaolan's family can be less.
But Xiaolan's parents did not give in at all, saying that no one should be missing, Xiaolan's mother said, "Our family will not talk around the bush, what is said is after thinking, this bride price can not be less, it is really not possible to borrow, your son is married!" ”
After listening to Xiaolan's mother's words, my whole body was numb, if they didn't let go, I really had plans to go out to borrow, but when the matter of borrowing money came out of their mouths, I was very uncomfortable.
But because my son finally wanted to get married, I endured it and agreed to the materials of 180,000 eight, followed by all the miscellaneous trivial things, and we chatted very happily.
Towards the end, I went out and asked my son to go out to settle the account, and my son didn't come back for a long time, so I said to look for it, and then the waiter said that my son should go to the toilet, because he was asking just now.
I was relieved to learn that my son had finished settling the accounts, and hurriedly walked to the private room, afraid that it would not be good to leave people there for a long time.
When I got to the door, I suddenly heard my son's name, and I was about to push the door with my hand down, because I wanted to hear that they were unhappy with their son.
As a result, I heard an explosive news, there was only one thought in my mind at that time, this family has too many eyes, if my son marries her, I will not have a good life in the future.
02
I heard Xiaolan ask her mother why she came here with this bag today, and her mother said proudly, "What's the matter, I'm afraid that your future mother-in-law won't have it, and her self-esteem will be frustrated?" Before I got married, my elbow began to turn outward, a typical short-guard! ”
I never dreamed that Xiaolan would say, "What are you talking about, I bought an imitation for Xiao Wang's mother, you are real, in case people see how embarrassing it is!" ”
Listening to Xiaolan's words, I wanted to turn around and leave for a moment, but I didn't do it, and fell into deep thought at the door, and then made a big decision.
I adjusted my mood and went into the house directly in front of Xiaolan, I threw the wallet that Xiaolan gave me into the trash, Xiaolan's face was green, Xiaolan's mother said that I was insulting.
I said, "Don't you insult people, what's the matter with this wallet, I'm sure each of you knows it in your hearts, do I need to list it for you?" ”
As soon as I finished speaking, Xiaolan's mother guessed that I was listening to them at the door just now, and directly said angrily that the marriage would not be concluded, and then pulled Xiaolan away.
When my son came over, he happened to see them walking out, so he thought about sending them off, but when he found that the atmosphere was not right, he didn't get on the pole and was scolded.
When they left, my son asked me what was going on, and I told him what had just happened, but my son directly asked me, "What's wrong with giving you a fake, can't you memorize it?" A broken bag as for so careful eyes! You are so selfish! ”
I was stunned, I thought that my son should be on the united front with me, but after so many years of dedication, it is equivalent to raising a son for others.
Since then, in order to prevent Xiaolan from getting out of the marriage, his son has really used all kinds of tricks, so he has sent to live in other people's homes, and I have also persuaded him, such a person is not worth it, but he changed his son's sentence "You can't care!" ”
I don't know what method Xiaolan used to fascinate her son, watching my son can't sleep all night, I finally compromised and took my things to Xiaolan's house to apologize.
I don't know what mistakes I made in this matter, Xiaolan's parents changed their attitude immediately when they saw me come to apologize, because I didn't know what was wrong, I could only say polite words.
In the end, we finalized the marriage of our two children, but the relationship between me and Xiaolan was very awkward, after all, there was a gap in our hearts, but we did a good job on the surface.
I knew that my son was carrying this time, so I went with him, after all, it was his little family management after that, it had nothing to do with me, let me watch the child, I would watch it, and if I didn't let me watch it, forget it, I was more happy and comfortable alone.
In the blink of an eye, it was time to get married, but we quarreled over a change of mouth.
This time during the meal, I suddenly talked about the change of mouth fee, Xiaolan said that we want to let our side follow their change of mouth fee, I asked them how much the change of mouth fee was, Xiao Lan said that they changed the mouth fee there 66,000.
I was shocked at the time, most of the changes on our side are one or two thousand, and people with good conditions will give 10,000, I don't understand why their change of mouth fee is so expensive.
Then I told them that I really had no money in my hand, and I bought a house and a car and added decoration and a bride price, not to mention that the bride price was borrowed, and now I really have no money in my hand.
03
Xiaolan threatened me with the condition that she would not get married, and Xiaolan said that almost all of their little sisters' opening fees were at this price or even higher, and she wanted the most ordinary one, but I would not agree.
I said, "Can't we do this?" I can only take another 5000 out at most. ”
Xiaolan said that the marriage would not be concluded, and her mother did not say a word next to her, but she was very supportive of Xiaolan in her attitude, and I was very angry when I saw this situation
I said that if I don't get married, I won't get married, so I won't marry you? My son couldn't find a partner, so Xiaolan said, "I didn't let you write my name in your current suite, it's merciful enough, why is there so much trouble with your daughter-in-law?" ”
After saying that, he turned his head and left, and when he was at the door, he said that the marriage was not over, and his son listened to the two of us arguing next to him without saying a word, and after Xiaolan left, he lost his temper with me directly.
"Xiaolan wants 66,000, you can give it, you don't bring the money in life, you don't take it away in death, why do you keep so much money?"
My son's words made me feel extremely cold, although the money was left to him in the future, but now I am still here, I also need to spend money, and he is married, I have already taken on a debt, how can I have the money to do the sixty-sixth? If so, will I not give it? After all, my son is finally getting married.
My son said that I broke up his happiness and he didn't want to go back to this home, so he packed his bags and left, I thought was it really my fault? I have to give whatever the woman wants, and because of a change of mouth fee, it has become like this.
I think if two people really love each other, sometimes they won't deliberately embarrass each other like this, so I think it's right that my son didn't marry Xiaolan.
My son hates me, he doesn't hate me, I can only help him get here, if he really doesn't recognize me as a mother in the future, I will admit it. , then his marriage and childbirth have nothing to do with me, the money in my hand is just enough for me to support my old age.
I have worked hard enough for him in my life, so I want to travel and play in the rest of my life, and find my old age life again, instead of worrying about him wholeheartedly, and finally making a thankless effort and ending up with a bad reputation.
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