I'd like to talk to you about a small episode that you may encounter while traveling in Japan – when you check into a hotel, if a girl in a kimono knocks on your door, don't open it lightly. This topic may sound a little mysterious or even a little weird, but rest assured, I will use my unique perspective and rich experience to uncover the truth behind it.
Let's talk about Japanese kimono culture. As a traditional Japanese costume, kimono not only represents an aesthetic, but also carries a profound cultural heritage. In the streets of Japan, it is not uncommon to see women in kimonos walking gracefully, participating in festivals and performing traditional ceremonies. However, in the specific environment of a hotel, women wearing kimonos may not be so "simple" anymore.
When night falls, you're probably exhausted and ready to rest in your hotel room. Suddenly, there is a soft knock on the door, and when you open the door, you see a girl in a kimono with a delicate face standing outside the door smiling. She may sell you something in a sweet voice or invite you to an event. Faced with such a situation, many people may easily accept the invitation out of curiosity or politeness. But here, I would like to remind everyone not to open the door lightly.
Why? Let's understand one thing: in Japan, a hotel is a relatively private space. While hotel staff will do their best to provide attentive service to guests, they usually don't disturb their guests' rest, and when a girl in a kimono suddenly appears in front of your room, her identity is questionable. She may not be an employee of the hotel, but a professional salesman or some other unidentified person.
Even if the girl is really a hotel staff member or salesman, you are not obligated to accept her service or invitation. In Japanese culture, it is very important to respect the wishes and choices of others. If you don't want to be disturbed or have no interest in attending her activities, it's perfectly fine to politely decline her invitation. Moreover, many hotels in Japan have rules that do not allow employees or outsiders to enter guests' rooms at night. Therefore, if you easily accept this girl's invitation, you may cause yourself unnecessary trouble.
So, what should we do when we encounter such a situation? I would like to give you a few suggestions:
First, stay vigilant. When you hear a knock on the door, don't rush to open it just yet. You can observe the situation outside the door through the cat's eye to confirm the identity and intention of the other party. If the person is a hotel staff member or a salesperson with a clear sign, you can choose whether to open the door or not, depending on your wishes. However, if the other person is unknown or behaves suspiciously, it is best not to open the door easily.
Second, politely refuse. If you don't want to be disturbed or don't have an interest in attending the other person's event, politely decline her invitation. When refusing, be mindful of your tone and wording and don't make the other person feel embarrassed or upset. You can say, "Thank you for the invitation, but I'm a little tired right now and want to take a break." Or, "Thank you for your kindness, but I'm not too interested in this event." ”
Third, ask for help. If you're upset about what's going on outside your door or aren't sure what to do, you can call the hotel's customer service number or contact the front desk staff for help. They will provide you with professional advice and support to ensure your safety and well-being.
Traveling is a process of enjoyment and learning. During the journey, we must not only enjoy the beautiful scenery and experience different cultures, but also learn to protect our rights and safety. When we encounter uncertain situations, we must remain calm and vigilant, and deal with them with wisdom and courage. Only in this way can we truly enjoy the joy and meaning of travel.