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There is such a hot topic: What should I do if my mother said that if I marry far away, I will break off the relationship, which causes me a lot of pressure?
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Landlord, you haven't figured out why your mother won't let you marry far away. It's not that your mother won't let you marry far away, but the family you chose to marry far away is not worth it in her opinion.
Far marrying is equal to s, this is not too much, a sister in my own family, college love, married to Qingdao, when married, my dad and his dad went to two people, the train did more than 20 hours, married for eight years, came back twice, and then the man cheated, and the mother-in-law also looked down on her, thinking that she married one or two thousand kilometers, it was her son who had the ability, she was a bargain, gave birth to a son who was six years old, divorced back, didn't let me marry back then, it didn't make sense, four years of college, she gave her youth to this man, nothing, Two quilts were married, and everyone knew it in their hearts, alas. Let's just be this daughter!
Eighty percent of those who marry far away will regret it, this data is my statistics on the rate of divorce after marriage in the neighbors (more than 30 couples), some are married far away, seventy percent will leave (the girls in Liangguang are basically not separated), the others are basically divorced, and 100% of those in Hubei are divorced. Girls who marry far away, in addition to marrying to Jiang Wanmin, are basically divorced and return to their hometown to find a man to remarry; Especially those who marry in a certain or two places, they are divorced because of their husbands' domestic violence and laziness.
I'll just say one thing, I'm only five minutes away from my husband's house, and one day I had a fight, I slapped the table, and I went home! My husband was still angry, but when he heard it, he immediately softened, and quickly grabbed me and blocked the door to prevent me from leaving, he was afraid that I would go home and sue hahaha. If you marry far away, you can probably only wipe your tears on the park bench alone, right?
That's right, that's what I think, I'm also married far away, and I'm about to get a license, my request is to be in a third-party city, I can't go back to his house with him, otherwise there will be some contradictions in the future, I'm really isolated, and it's easy to get involved with relatives, living in a third-party city, even if the two of us have a small conflict in the future, it's just a matter of solving it between the two of us, and there is no need to think about relatives. Also, I went back to his hometown with him before, and I couldn't get along with some of his relatives, and once I had a conflict with his aunt's brother, and I went to his aunt's house for dinner, and we drove there, and his cousin had to drink with my boyfriend at noon, and I said that I wouldn't drink when I drove, and at first I told my boyfriend alone, but his cousin heard it and said, "Oh, the tutor is quite strict." A particularly sarcastic tone. I said, "It's not a question of strict parenting, it's a matter of principle, if you drink, you can't drive, and if you drive, you can't drink." As a result, his brother said: "We don't have a traffic police investigation here, and we do it for the traffic police to see if we don't drink while driving." I wondered, why do we have to let drink, in case something happens on the road, can his cousin be responsible for our lives? There is really no bottom line at all to be a man. When I was eating, I poured wine directly for my boyfriend, and when I raised my glass, I took my boyfriend's wine glass, and I said, "Brother, don't you want to drink, he is driving, he can't drink, I'll drink with you." I just dried it in one gulp, and the faces of the people at the table were not good-looking, but I couldn't care so much, I drank for him at most and was not happy with me, in case it was dangerous to drive because of drinking, and it was too late to regret it. Some people may want to ask, what is my boyfriend's attitude during this period, he didn't want to drink, but his cousin has been persuading, and he can't help but give his cousin face. Anyway, what I mean by this is that if I live in the man's city, my cousin and I will not look up and look down in the future, and there will be this conflict, and the relatives of several families will not know how to chew the root of their tongues behind their backs in the future. If they live in a third-party city, they can chew their tongue as much as they like, and they won't see each other once a year anyway, so they don't have to worry so much.
As soon as some girls get married, they won't even leave a room for her at home, and they are also particular about the New Year's holidays, so they can't stay at their parents' house on the first day of the first lunar month, otherwise they will take away their brother's wealth and so on. Children want to go home often, but parents don't necessarily want to ......
So did my dad. Tell me to marry, but not far away. I said, "If you find me a good man, I'll marry." My dad was speechless. [covers face] [covers face]
"Pressure from parents and loved ones is like water gathering around you, and the lower your status, the more water can rise to your chest and make it difficult for you to breathe. If your status is low enough...... Even the water will rise to the top of yours, making it impossible for you to survive. "That's a good point!
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