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Somewhere, there is such a hot topic: "After the parents are gone, the brothers and sisters are scattered" basically no contact, is it true?
Let's take a look at the answers of netizens~
If there are many sisters in a family, most of them are not in the parents, and the sisters' affection is still there, so naturally there are also contacts. If there are many brothers, as soon as the parents leave, they will return to their own families, the reason is very simple, and there are far more conflicts between concubines than brothers-in-law.
Most of the time this is the case, because the way a man expresses his feelings for his siblings is to give money, which is easy to cause dissatisfaction among the members of the small family, and they can only maintain one end at the expense of the other. And the relationship between sisters is a contribution, and the relationship between you and me is getting deeper. It means that men attach importance to their brothers and sisters, and it is the demolition of the east wall to make up the west wall that infringes on the interests of the members of the small family. And what a woman values her brothers and sisters is often her personal contribution. If you become a brother demon, the relationship between brothers and sisters will be good, and the small family will be dispersed.
My mother is at my brother's, saying bad things about me, saying bad things about my brother at me, stirring up trouble back and forth, and now my brother and I have deleted our contact information, and we haven't been in touch for a long time, I guess this is what she wants.
My mother, aunt and uncle have a normal relationship, and I think it's all good. Once during the Chinese New Year, I invited my uncle and aunt to come to the house for dinner, and there was a conflict with my mother in the middle, my mother scolded me hard, in front of the whole family, I didn't say anything, normal old people should come out to speak, right? Whether it's to persuade my mother, to persuade me, or to be a peacemaker, you should come out and talk, right? My grandmother's divine operation was to grab my uncle's arm and say to my uncle, "Run!" They're fighting, let's run! ”
Seriously, in fact, many contradictions between brothers and sisters are caused by their parents, they are not even, and they hope to achieve a good grasp of the overall control of the favor pattern by peting who stepped on whom, and as a result, it caused an estrangement between brothers and sisters, and it will explode when they are older.
Yes, so my grandma has tried her best to bring all the juniors to each other during the New Year, get to know each other, and pull in the relationship. If it weren't for my grandmother, the relationship would definitely be much weaker, and I don't know the children of my aunt's family who are married far away.
After watching it for a long time, I thought that this second uncle was my daughter-in-law's mother's family, and my mother-in-law was so disgusted, it turned out to be my mother-in-law's own brother, and there was no one else with this attitude towards my younger brother, this mother-in-law!
My brother and sister dare to say this, my sister said this, as an elder brother, I can only admit it. On the other hand, if it becomes your father-in-law's attitude, your uncle will probably never come again.
It's the same with my grandmother's house. My grandmother gave birth to nine children. Grandpa died more than ten years ago, and grandma has also passed away for five or six years. In the past, I used to gather at my grandmother's house for New Year's and festivals, and it was very lively because there were many people. After my grandmother died, everyone automatically got together at the old family. After so many years, I feel that my aunt has replaced the role of my grandmother, and everyone will get together for the New Year's holidays.
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