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In this changeable moment of love, even if you are married, it is difficult to guarantee that you will spend the rest of your life together!
In the center of the reality of rampant desire, different dreams in the same bed have long become the most indescribable pain for too many people who have experienced it!
In the face of different dreams in the same bed, some people still have fantasies about mending the relationship, while others are content with the status quo and getting by. And some people, because of the invasion of a third party, have made the following choices:
1: Stop loss in time - when personal interests are maximized, simply turn around;
2: Humble pandering - trying to keep the lover through one's own self-correction;
3: For the sake of personal needs, I made the decision to look at the survival of the relationship through reality and humanity - or temporarily stabilize the marriage, or stay in the marriage for a long time to protect my self-interest from being violated!
Some people say that it would be nice if someone could predict the future, so that they wouldn't be unaware of the person next to them after they had changed their minds! The sooner you knew, the sooner you would protect yourself and do self-interest!
But in fact, whether the person next to the pillow has changed his mind has already had an obvious signal, and the answer can be obtained from the body language of the person next to the pillow!
It's just that before the truth of the actual betrayal is confirmed, some original partners don't want to believe that their pillow person would do such a dirty thing!
Isn't the person next to the pillow having a change of heart, and the body is very honest!
The answer to whether a person has changed his mind or not is in the following details:
1: Facing your intimate line approach, showing repulsion
When two people have no problem with their relationship, intimacy is a way for each other to enjoy getting closer!
When a person changes his mind, he will be close to the person in front of him, and there will be an unconcealable rejection. Like what:
(1) When you get close to the other party, the other party will find an excuse to stop your approach;
(2) When you make a move to get close to the other party, the other party will instantly have a seemingly normal physical behavior and "accidentally" reject you;
(3) When you talk to the other person about intimate language, the other party will perfunctory or pretend not to understand, or obviously do not respond......
In the face of these situations, when you want to open the door to honest communication, you find that the other party has no intention of moving forward at all, and even will say that you have nothing to do, too sensitive, and idle all day long and don't know what to think about but pay attention to these meaningless loves......
If your side of the population expresses their rejection of you, but also blocks the room for communication with you, it is probably because of the natural reaction of outsiders!
If a person loves you, it will send you a signal that you are loved, and after you change your mind, it will also send you a signal that you don't love!
For intimate rejection, it is a kind of subconscious estrangement, and you will know the answer when you see it clearly!
2: I hate your emotions and don't want to provide you with soothing tenderness
Two people get along day and night, although they will ignore some details because of the passion, but this never means that emotions will be ignored!
Is a person happy, facial expressions, verbal output vocabulary and frequency, and even eye ...... No matter how well it is hidden, it will be easily discovered because of the familiarity between each other.
However, when you face the person next to you, you have already fallen in front of the other person, and the other person still steps over you without disapproval...... Suffice it to say:
You have long lost a place in the other person's heart!
And one person's disregard for another person's joy and sorrow is probably related to other members of the opposite sex!
You've been replaced, that's why you've been ignored!
If you are not replaced (the other party has not found a good home), even if it is for the sake of your existence value, the other party will not turn a blind eye to your joys and sorrows, even if they are pretending!
If a person doesn't leave you after changing his mind and ignores your emotions, it is nothing more than seeing that you are "a bully" and a manifestation of ignorance that a person overestimates himself!
Knowing that you need to be satisfied with emotional value, and not providing you with soothing tenderness, don't expect it anymore - you, not loved!
3: I am no longer willing to share with you, and even selectively ignore the expression of your demands
The person who sends you with peace of mind, no matter how far you go, the person who truly loves you will always make you feel very idle!
People who are full of you will always pay attention to you, which is a subconscious can't help it!
Such a person will give you a unique preference, and will give you a unique care and consideration.
When you need to be shared, people who really care about you and are dedicated and loyal to you will be more anxious to provide you with positive help than you think!
On the contrary, if a person has someone else in his heart, he will naturally turn a blind eye to your needs being shared!
Because, a person's energy is limited. When your pillow person racks his brains to please and please other members of the opposite sex, he has no heart to think about you anymore!
Even if I see you tired, I will selectively ignore you because I don't love you anymore and miss others in my heart!
If a person doesn't have time, it's because he doesn't want to have time, if a person can't leave, it's because he doesn't want to go away, and if a person excuses you too much, it's because he doesn't want to care about you.
So, when the person next to you makes an excuse to ignore your needs and simply refuse your reasonable request, remember:
Learn to be an independent and self-strong person from now on, don't expect anything from someone who has changed your mind, you will be disappointed!
All in all, whether the person next to the pillow has given his heart to other members of the opposite sex, fundamentally, in the details of the interaction between each other, can be directly felt!
Especially, one's physical performance is the answer!
The person who cares about you will be physically close to you, happy and intimate with you, body language will comfort you when you need to provide emotional value, and you will see the individual presence around you when you need to be shared......
If a person loves you, he can't get rid of you!
If a person changes his mind, he can't catch it!
Love or not, change of heart or not, look at the actual reaction of the other party to you, it will be clear at a glance!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, the right time and the right person can achieve positive results!
I am an author in the field of high-quality emotion, a professional counselor, and have provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.
Discussion: Will you re-accept someone who has changed your mind? Let's talk about it in the comment section.