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The long river of time is still stuck in the year of 2012, and in an instant, the tide surged, and the marriage picture of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng quietly came to an end. At that moment, Li Yapeng's eyes flashed with tears, and he couldn't understand what he had done wrong. In fact, Li Yapeng has no fault, he has always maintained a high sense of responsibility for his family and marriage, treats his stepdaughter Dou Jingtong as his own flesh and blood, and cares for his biological daughter Li Yan.
However, he chose the wrong partner for life - Faye Wong, a legendary woman, who does not seem to be suitable for the shackles of marriage.
Faced with the doubts of her daughters, Faye Wong dismissed Dou Jingtong lightly under the pretext of "don't interfere in the affairs of adults and children". At that time, Li Yan was only six years old, and Dou Jingtong knew that if his sister lived in a single-parent family, the future growth road would be full of thorns.
So, she hugged her sister tightly, and tears fell like pearls with broken threads. Seeing her sister crying, Li Yan couldn't help but sob, her eyes were full of confusion and helplessness.
Looking back, we set our sights on 1999, when Faye Wong and Dou Wei's first marriage was in turmoil. When Faye Wong unexpectedly learned of her husband Dou Wei's love affair with the female photographer Gao Yuan, her heart was full of anger, shame and the pain of betrayal.
In order to take revenge on Dou Wei, Faye Wong resolutely severed the family bond between her daughter Dou Jingtong and her father, and resolutely refused to let them see each other.
During those days, Dou Wei often sat alone on the bench next to the flower garden, waited for hours, and finally had to leave gloomily, his eyes full of tears of missing his daughter.
Every time he looks through the photos of Dou Jing as a child, Dou Wei always has tears in his eyes, empathizing with the pain of not being able to visit his daughter in person.
In 2006, in a hospital in Beijing, Faye Wong finally ushered in the birth of her second daughter Li Yan after hardships. However, fate played a cruel joke on the couple, and after the doctor's diagnosis, it was found that the newborn Li Yan unfortunately suffered from congenital cleft lip and palate.
This sudden blow plunged Faye Wong and Li Yapeng into deep shock and grief.
They decided to have surgery for their daughter right away. When Li Yan was just three months old, the couple took her on the journey to the hospital and began their first surgical journey.
In the following two years, Li Yan underwent two well-designed follow-up surgeries, and after three rounds of meticulous polishing that can be called the art of surgery, she finally regained her former beauty and self-confidence.
When the blood-soaked gauze was gently removed, when her daughter regained her innocent smile, Faye Wong's tears slipped down like pearls, she was full of deep admiration and gratitude to her husband Li Yapeng, and expressed her sincere appreciation for his meticulous care for her biological daughter and stepdaughter.
However, in 2019, a media report suddenly revealed the relationship between Li Yapeng and model Hae Ha Jinxi, which made Faye Wong fall into deep worry again. She is worried that Li Yapeng may ignore or hurt her daughter Li Yan after entering a new married life.
Fortunately, this relationship has always stayed in the love stage and has not moved towards the palace of marriage, which has made Faye Wong's worries a little less.
In March 2022, Li Yapeng announced that Hai Ha Jinxi was pregnant and was about to usher in the crystallization of their love. Hearing the news, Li Yan's voice on the other end of the phone was slightly choked, and tears rolled in her eyes.
Dating back to the golden autumn of 2004, Dou Jingtong has stepped into the door of primary school life.
Faced with her daughter's question, Faye Wong just responded indifferently: "You have a father, but he lacks a sense of responsibility for the family." Although the daughter longed to be able to see her father, Faye Wong firmly refused the request.
Since then, whenever the festival comes, watching other children celebrate the festival in the company of their parents, Dou Jingtong can't help but feel sad and tears like rain.
It wasn't until 2006 that under the persuasion of Dou Wei's sister Dou Ying, Faye Wong finally agreed to let nine-year-old Dou Jingtong meet her father. Since then, Dou Wei has taken her daughter home every weekend to reunite with her, and then personally sent her back to school on Sunday night.
Although her daughter is extremely happy about this, Faye Wong can still feel that her daughter hides an indescribable regret and sorrow in her heart.
Today's Dou Jingtong has grown into a mature woman and is in a critical period of her life - the stage of marriage and love.
Faced with her daughter's sharp questioning, Faye Wong fell into deep reflection. Looking back on his two marriages that have gone through the vicissitudes of life, he painfully realizes that it was his two divorces that brought indelible psychological trauma to his daughters, and such scars may accompany them for a lifetime.
Tears of remorse could not help but slide down the corners of her eyes. As a mother, she is full of apologies for the suffering of her two daughters. If I had thought more carefully about marriage back then, I think I wouldn't have left such a heavy shadow on my daughters.
The occurrence of any incident is caused by the joint action of both parties. In Faye Wong and Dou Wei's first marriage, if she had not left her daughter Dou Jingtong in Hong Kong for a long time, or had not been separated from her husband for a long time, then their emotional path might not have come to the brink of rupture.
Once we enter the palace of marriage, we have established intricate connections with the people and things around us, and we need to learn to forgive, understand and accept them.
There will inevitably be conflicts and disagreements in a marriage, but we must not choose divorce lightly to escape reality. As adults, we should be proactive in resolving conflicts and finding ways to solve problems, rather than ending marriages hastily.
Faye Wong knows that the divorce decision she made in her second marriage was too rash and capricious. Although Li Yapeng has always dutifully undertaken family responsibilities, she still can't bear the shackles of marriage, and finally chose to end the marriage.
Looking back on that time now, she feels extremely remorseful for the decision she made at that time.
There are no real legends in the world, and there are no fairies suspended in the air, only real fireworks in the world. Although Faye Wong has made brilliant achievements in the field of music, she finally understands that she is just an ordinary woman who cannot completely get rid of many troubles and struggles in life.
As ordinary people, none of us can escape the challenges of reality. When there are conflicts and disagreements in the marital relationship, we should resolve them with a tolerant and understanding attitude, rather than making a decision to divorce lightly.
Although Faye Wong can deeply realize that this problem is not irreparable at this moment, she is extremely looking forward to her more forward-looking vision, in order to create a family soil full of warmth and light for her daughters.
Now, Faye Wong's greatest wish is to be able to readjust her state of mind and pave a future journey full of sunshine and hope for her dazzling two daughters, Dou Jingtong and Li Yan, so that they can move forward bravely on the emotional road without fetters!
She is looking forward to witnessing every step of her daughters' thriving growth with incomparable sincere love and care. Whether the daughters choose to enter the marriage hall or enjoy the single life in the future, whether they devote themselves to the pursuit of excellence in their careers or enjoy a quiet life, Faye Wong will fully support and understand them in the name of maternal love, and help them find their own happiness in the journey of life.
As a mother, Faye Wong is well aware of her past negligence and regrets, however, she still has high expectations for her daughters, and sincerely wishes them to avoid the detours they have taken and live a happy life.