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Ms. Cao Qing was originally a dazzling and up-and-coming host star in the Chinese media industry, and with her excellent professional quality and unique affinity, she quickly emerged on the bright stage of CCTV.
Due to her outstanding ability, she was able to serve as the host of "Approaching Science" and the well-known column "Focus on Three Rural Areas", so she became famous and became the focus of attention in the industry and the "CCTV celebrity" popular among the audience.
Such a brilliant career seems to be within reach, as long as she continues to improve herself and work hard, it is entirely possible that she will become a dazzling "CCTV first sister" like Dong Qing one day in the future.
However, what is unexpected is that just when her career was in full swing, Ms. Cao Qing made a decision that shocked everyone - she resolutely chose to leave CCTV, gave up the dream of hosting that she had devoted countless efforts to pursue, and crossed the ocean, just to chase the seemingly unattainable "love".
This decision undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Ms. Cao Qing's bright future. Originally, she was supposed to hold on to this ray of light in her career and show her endless charm on the radiant stage.
However, she regarded it as child's play, and easily discarded the fruits of her years of hard work.
After marriage, Ms. Cao Qing thought that she had married into a wealthy family, started a new chapter in her life, and lived a happy life that everyone envied. However, who could have predicted that this was nothing more than an illusory dream, fleeting.
The control and abuse of her husband Tu Zhongheng made her fall into an endless abyss, suffering both physical and mental torture, a woman who should have enjoyed dignity and a happy life, but could not get rid of the shackles of marriage and experienced the bitterness and pain of life.
Ms. Cao Qing was born in a scholarly family in Suzhou, Jiangsu Province, and her family education environment is superior. As the only daughter in the family, she has been endlessly pampered and cared for by her parents since she was a child, and spent a carefree childhood in a rich cultural atmosphere.
Born intelligent, she excelled in her studies since she was a child, with her grades at the top of her grades and showing extraordinary talent. Although her parents had high hopes for her, they knew the truth that "only adults can become talents", and never put too much pressure on her, but gave her a relaxed and free growth environment.
This kind of education has invisibly shaped Ms. Cao Qing's rigorous, orderly and planned character and learning methods.
In a theme essay titled "My Dream", Cao Qing began to think deeply about the decision-making process about her career path. She found that her classmates had career plans to become teachers, doctors, police officers, scientists, and so on.
However, for Cao Qing, all this seemed distant and vague, and she was deeply confused because she had never had a clear dream and could not find a place to develop her career.
But after entering junior high school, Cao Qing participated in the host competition organized by the school, which deeply touched her deep yearning for the future. When she saw the professional hosts in the center of the stage telling the stories of life in simple terms, her heart began to boil, and her inexplicable yearning became more and more intense: one day, I can also stand on such a stage, use my voice to convey emotions and share stories!
Since then, Cao Qing has strengthened her beliefs and aspires to become an outstanding host. This dream was like a seed in her heart, which took root and grew. When she told her parents about her ideals, she received their full support and encouragement, which undoubtedly injected endless motivation into her.
With the support of her parents and her own unremitting efforts, Cao Qing was successfully admitted to the Communication University of China, which she dreamed of. Since then, she has begun to move towards the journey of realizing her dream of hosting and striving towards her ideal life.
In college life, Cao Qing fully demonstrated her talent. Her outstanding performance in professional courses has won high praise from her supervisors, and she has also received valuable opportunities to intern at Beijing People's Radio and Television Station, China Education Television, Beijing Television Station and many other units.
No matter where she is, Cao Qing is always the center of attention. She first co-hosted the popular program "Love in the World" with Ji Yan of Beijing People's Radio and Television Music Station, and then moved to China Education Television's "Reading Time" column as a location host and reporter.
Since then, she has also been offered an internship at Beijing TV's "Fashion Garden" program.
Every time she arrives in a new position, Cao Qing will devote herself to her work, fulfill her responsibilities, and have demonstrated extraordinary talents and outstanding performance during her internship, which has won widespread praise.
Her sleek and well-organized hosting style, vivid and interesting rhetoric, and intellectual elegance all demonstrate her unique talent.
After graduating, Cao Qing lived up to expectations and was honored to join the grand and noble family of China Central Television. After a long period of tempering and accumulation, she gradually showed a unique hosting style, so that she showed her edge on the dazzling stage of CCTV.
With excellent professionalism and professionalism, Cao Qing quickly took over and hosted many high-profile columns, such as "Approaching Science" and "Focus on Agriculture, Rural Affairs", etc. Her kind and natural hosting style, as well as her lively and interesting manners, make each episode of the program feel like bathed in warm sunshine, and is warmly welcomed by the audience.
At that time, she was undoubtedly a dazzling new star, shining and rising.
If everything develops logically, Cao Qing will definitely shine in the field of hosting, with a bright future, and is even expected to become an irreplaceable "CCTV first sister" like Dong Qing one day in the future.
However, who would have expected that at this critical moment, Cao Qing made a jaw-dropping decision - she resolutely resigned from her job at CCTV, gave up her dream of hosting after arduous and unyielding pursuit, and left her homeland, just to pursue the seemingly unattainable "love".
Just when Cao Qing's career was in full swing, the sudden intrusion of Tu Zhongheng, a wealthy man with rich assets, made her fall into an obsessive situation. Tu Zhongheng spared no expense in a well-planned and passionate pursuit, and threw an irresistible temptation to her: "Marry me, you just need to enjoy the life of a rich lady in peace, and I will do my best to care for you and love you until eternity."
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Cao Qing, who is in the sweet stage of love, has been fascinated by this deep emotion, she began to shake her persistence in her career, and even had the idea of resigning. However, when she tried to tell her family and friends about this decision, she was met with strong opposition and all kinds of advice.
"Getting married doesn't mean you have to give up your career. A harmonious and happy marriage should be one of mutual support and mutual progress, rather than sacrificing personal ideals. In the face of repeated admonitions from relatives and friends, Cao Qing mistakenly thought that they were jealous of her happiness, so she responded angrily: "No matter how you persuade me, I have made up my mind.
When Cao Qing's parents saw their daughter so determined to pursue love, they could only be ruthless, choose to let go, and give respect to this marriage. On the day of the wedding, Cao Qing's face was full of joy, full of endless yearning for a better life, and invited the well-known cross talk master Hou Yaohua to officiate at their wedding, she firmly believes that she will become the luckiest bride in the world.
However, how could people have foreseen that this attachment was only a brief sunshine before the storm, and that the sweet time of the newlyweds was like a flash in the pan, quickly dissipating, and replaced by a frightening married life.
Her husband Tu Zhongheng, who was originally very caring for Cao Qing, suddenly changed his temperament and abused her physically and mentally. He severely restricted Cao Qing's personal freedom, forbade her from communicating with the outside world, and cut off all contact with her relatives and friends.
What's even more cruel is that he actually carried out extreme starvation abuse on his beloved wife, sometimes only providing Cao Qing with leftovers, and sometimes even only expired and spoiled food, "Being able to provide you with white rice is already my greatest kindness, what else do you have to complain about?"
In this way, the young Cao Qing was subjected to harsh abuse and torture for a long time. Her once plump figure quickly became scrawny, like a walking corpse, and the flame of life was about to be extinguished.
It wasn't until he saw his wife dying that Tu Zhongheng reluctantly provided her with some white rice to satisfy his stomach, but he was still wary of her, afraid that she would have any possibility of escaping.
Under the abuse of her husband Tu Zhongheng, Cao Qing's life was like a never-ending nightmare, and she endured both physical and mental torture. Finally, in 2015, in a rare opportunity, she mustered up the courage to break free from this shackle and immediately filed a lawsuit with the court, asking for a judgment to dissolve her marriage with her abusive husband.
After a long period of anticipation, the case finally ushered in the time of trial. Cao Qing bravely exposed Tu Zhongheng's domestic violence against her for many years and strict control, and showed photos of herself as evidence of her extreme emaciation due to chronic malnutrition, and the horrific situation was chilling.
However, in the face of these accusations, Tu Zhongheng firmly denied them, and instead accused Cao Qing of being too lazy and refusing to devote time to learning cooking skills and driving a car, which led to his own serious nutritional condition.
Regrettably, in the absence of conclusive evidence, the judge was unable to conclude that it was an act of domestic violence, so he did not grant his request for an injunction and ruled that the relationship between the couple was indeed on the verge of breakdown.
This entangled dispute ended in a hurry, and the outcome was indistinguishable, and there was still a lot of suspense. At this moment, I am afraid that only the two of them know the rights and wrongs between Cao Qing and Tu Zhongheng.
What is worrying is that in order to maintain this marriage, Cao Qing resolutely gave up her personal career development and gave everything without reservation, but in exchange for endless sorrow and torture. Now she is in extreme distress and extreme poverty, not only has she lost her home, but it is also difficult for her to gain a foothold in the United States, a foreign country, and she is in a dilemma.
When she entered middle age, she had nothing but a tired face after the baptism of wind and frost, and the only thing that could lead her to regain her confidence and start again was her deep regret for the past and deep reflection and understanding of life.