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After the reform and opening up, China ushered in a period of rapid development, more and more Chinese people went to the world, coupled with the large gap between China and the developed countries of the West at that time, resulting in some of the thinking distorted, they vigorously advocated the West, moved closer to the West, and completely forgot that China is a Chinese.
Among them, a CCTV host named Cao Qing spoke wildly, shouting that he would rather be an American dog than a Chinese. So after many years, how is the life of this digital dictionary who has forgotten his ancestors in the United States? Is it really as good as she fantasizes about?
One: The shame of CCTV is running to the United States
The year Cao Qing was born happened to be the first year of reform and opening up, and Sino-foreign exchanges became more and more frequent.
Under the influence of her ears and eyes, Cao Qing planted a seed in her heart and wanted to leave China and go to the United States to live a happy life. But Cao Qing's family background is ordinary, and she can't realize her "dream" by relying on her parents.
However, Cao Qing studied very hard, and with a good skin, she was successfully admitted to the Communication University of China through the college entrance examination. During her college years, she actively participated in various activities organized by the school, and by chance, she got in touch with CCTV and successfully became a host after graduation.
Because of Cao Qing's outstanding ability, she can be said to be like a fish in water in CCTV, she once hosted a program called "Approaching Science", because of its interesting and scientific nature, coupled with Cao Qing's good performance, it became one of the top programs of CCTV that year.
At the same time, Cao Qing also has excellent adaptability, as we all know, any accident can happen when hosting the show, which especially tests the host's ability to adapt to changes, and this is precisely Cao Qing's strengths.
According to common sense, if Cao Qing has been staying at CCTV, it can be said that the future is promising, and a promotion and salary increase are not a dream. But she made a decision that made everyone around her very puzzled.
It turned out that Cao Qing accidentally met a Chinese doctor from the United States, and Cao Qing, who had an "American dream" since she was a child, felt that her opportunity had come, so the two soon became friends. With the deepening of understanding, Cao Qing found that the doctor's family was still very rich, had his own manor in the United States, and was also considerate to himself, which made Cao Qing feel that the person in front of him was the "Prince Charming" he had been looking for, even if this man was 20 years older than him.
Cao Qing, who wanted to go to the United States to become a master, couldn't care so much, no matter how her friends persuaded her and her parents tried to stop her, Cao Qing was determined to give up everything in China and follow the doctor to live in the United States. At the same time, CCTV also repeatedly persuaded her to think clearly, not to make a regrettable decision because of impulse, where can Cao Qing, who was carried away by desire, still care so much, is determined to give up everything in China and follow this doctor to live in the United States.
Two: disappointed, tragically subjected to domestic violence
Cao Qing held a grand wedding with this doctor in China, and many celebrities gathered together, eight sedan chairs to marry "Prince Charming", and even appeared on the news hot search, which greatly satisfied Cao Qing's vanity at the same time, and strengthened her idea of going to the United States to live.
Soon after, Cao Qing and her husband went to the United States, and when she fantasized that she could live a life without food and clothing, the cruel reality gave her a blow to the head. The husband does have quite a lot of assets in the United States, owning a manor and several luxury cars, but this has nothing to do with Cao Qing.
Later, Cao Qingxiang wanted to stabilize the relationship between the husband and wife through the child, and her husband calmly told her: "I was sick before, and I have no fertility." What made her even more disappointed was that her husband had had several marriages before, but he had been hiding it from him.
What makes Cao Qing feel even more unacceptable is that in the United States, she needs to take care of her husband's daily life, everything has to be done by herself, and the rich wife life promised before marriage has become the need to do housework every day and prepare everything for her husband after marriage. Due to the huge gap with her imaginary life, Cao Qing and her husband often had fierce quarrels, and slowly her husband began to lose patience and his attitude towards her became worse and worse.
Since she has no job in the United States, all financial resources depend on her husband, once when her menstrual period came, she asked her husband to help buy sanitary napkins, and her husband didn't say anything to buy a pack of sanitary napkins for her, Cao Qing was very surprised, her husband would never have such a good attitude before, at least he would abuse himself a few words, why is it so abnormal today?
Before she could be moved, her husband threw a pack of sanitary napkins in front of her and said to her coldly, "Save a little, this is a year's supply!" Cao Qing froze in place when she heard this, not knowing what to say.
Three: I don't want to divorce, and I won't look back
Due to the long-term discord between the husband and wife, Cao Qing, who couldn't bear it, no longer wanted to care about any face, and filed a lawsuit with the court, asking the two to divorce. In court, Cao Qing listed to the judge the counts of her husband's abuse of her, claiming that her husband had abused her for a long time.
The husband retorted that everything Cao Qing said was false, and she made it up out of thin air, because she was too lazy, and she hoped that she could take the initiative to do some housework, and she often took care of her, and it was her unwillingness to correct her mistakes that would lead to frequent conflicts between the husband and wife.
Since both sides disagreed, the judge did not know what to do, so they let them negotiate privately. Her husband gave Cao Qing two choices, either to divorce and return, or to continue to stay in the United States, but he would not give her a penny.
And Cao Qing's request to the court is also ridiculous, she doesn't want a divorce, she just hopes that her husband can treat her better, at least don't give herself expired food, and her attitude is very humble.
In the end, Cao Qing chose to stay in the United States, when her experience was reported back to China, many people were upset for her, and persuaded her to return to China, what people didn't expect was that she actually said "I'd rather be a dog in the United States than return to China", which can be described as obsessive, now Cao Qing is living a difficult life in the United States, for the sake of so-called decency, playing a good hand of cards is sparse, and now everything is her own fault, and there is no need to sympathize with her.
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