The Tang Dynasty poet Meng Jiao wrote in "Wandering Zi Yin": The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer is clothed. The seams are tightly sewn, and I am afraid that I will be late. Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui.
Maternal love is the most selfless and greatest emotion in the world. From the beginning of pregnancy, a child holds the mother's heart, and the mother begins to circle around the child. When the child is happy, the mother is happy; if the child is unhappy, the mother is unhappy, and for the mother the child is everything.
For the sake of the child, the mother can not even die. Maternal love is nature, even after the child reaches adulthood, the mother will still worry about the child, and the mother will worry about the child. In the mother's heart, no matter how old the child is, it is a child and the flesh of the heart.
When their own interests conflict with their children's interests, many mothers will choose the interests of their children and will fulfill their children. In the eyes of the mother, the child is far more important than herself, so maternal love is the most selfless and greatest emotion.
The film "Nine Fragrances" directed by Sun Sha tells a story about maternal love. A widowed mother raised 5 children alone, and because the eldest son did not want her to remarry, she rejected a true love. She then single-mindedly raised 5 children and raised them all as college students.
Starring Song Chunli, Zhang Hongjie, Qiang Yin, etc., the film was released in 1995, and Song Chunli won the 16th Golden Rooster Awards for this film.
01, Jiuxiang's house collapsed, and her husband died
In a ravine in the northeast, a snowstorm crushed the Jiuxiang family's house. It took Jiuxiang a lot of effort to rescue 4 sons and 1 daughter from the rubble. She had just breathed a sigh of relief, but she received another bad news, and her husband, who was working in the mine, had died in an accident.
Jiu Xiang was devastated and wanted to go with her husband, but the neighbors advised her, "You still have children!" ”
Jiu Xiang also has 5 children who need her to raise, and she doesn't even have a place to stay at the moment, and she doesn't have time to grieve. Therefore, Jiu Xiang could only dry her tears and immediately cheer up to solve the problem at hand. The relatives lent a dilapidated house to Jiuxiang, and Jiuxiang and 5 children had a foothold.
Jiu Xiang went to dahe town to run errands, met her husband's friend Lao Guan in the mine before he died, Lao Guan was divorced, and now lives alone. After he heard about the Jiuxiang family, he went back to buy meat and noodles and sent them to the Jiuxiang family, and Jiuxiang refused, so he put the meat and noodles on the stove.
After Jiuxiang sent Lao Guan away, he settled the children to sleep. When the children were asleep, she licked the bowls from which they had eaten, and it was her supper. Jiu Xiang made a living by selling tobacco leaves, but she couldn't make a few dollars selling tobacco leaves, and she couldn't let her children starve, so she could only starve herself.
02, Lao Guan often came to help JiuXiang, and the two fell in love
Lao Guan pitied Jiuxiang, but also liked Jiuxiang, so he often came to help Jiuxiang, help Jiuxiang repair the house, send food, and so on. Jiu Xiang could not repay him, he could only send him some tobacco leaves, and slowly the two people fell in love.
One day in the snow, Lao Guan gave Jiuxiang a hairpin that he made himself, and Jiuxiang liked it. Lao Guan put it on Jiuxiang while confessing to Jiuxiang and asking Jiuxiang to marry him. Jiu Xiang was naturally willing, but thinking that her husband had been dead for less than three years, she was afraid of being gossiped about, so she said wait.
The eldest son, Tianbao, already understood things, and he saw the relationship between his mother and Lao Guan, and he was very repulsive to Lao Guan in his heart. The other 4 children are still young and do not understand the affairs of men and women, so they all like Lao Guan very much and affectionately call Lao Guan "Uncle Guan".
After Tianbao found the hairpin, when his mother put it at home, he secretly took it out and threw it away, and broke the hairpin with his foot. Old Ertianshi saw it, he knew that this hairpin was his mother's baby, so he quietly picked up the broken hairpin.
03, the eldest son opposed Jiuxiang's remarriage, and Jiuxiang could only refuse Lao Guan
After a few days, the children picked up a dog from the mountain, and Jiuxiang did not agree to keep it, she said: "The family is almost unable to feed, how can they keep a dog?" ”
But the children did not know jiuxiang's difficulties and insisted on keeping the dog, and jiuxiang quietly let the dog go after they went to school.
When the children came back to find that the dog was missing, they all complained about Jiuxiang and gambled with Jiuxiang not to eat. Jiu Xiang had no choice but to go to the mountain to get the dog back. In order to find the dog, Jiuxiang also fell on the mountain, and his hands were bleeding.
Lao Guan often sent grain, and when he sent grain this time, he also brought two villain books. The kids loved it so much and huddled together to read the little people's book. Tianbao snatched the villain book from his younger siblings and threw it into the burning hearth.
Lao Guan saw that Tianbao did not welcome him and offered to leave, but when he put on his shoes, he found that there were nails in the shoes. Lao Guan was in terrible pain, but he didn't want to embarrass Jiuxiang, so he pretended to leave in a vacuum.
After Lao Guan left, Tianbao cried and begged Jiuxiang not to let the old man come, their family did not need something sent by Lao Guan.
04, the second son found that Jiuxiang had not eaten, and was licking the bowl where they had eaten
Jiuxiang was sad, but in the face of her own happiness and her son's wishes, she still chose to meet her son's wishes, and she shed tears into her heart. Jiu xiang went to reject Lao Guan, Lao Guan understood Jiu Xiang very well, at this time Lao Guan's mother happened to be ill, and he went back to the city to take care of his mother.
Every day when the children go to school, Jiuxiang will fill their school bags with dry food for lunch. On this day, Tianshi did not go far after going out, and found that the textbook was left at home, so he turned it back to get it. As a result, he saw Jiu Xiang licking the bowls they had eaten, one by one carefully.
The clever Tianshi suddenly understood that his mother had not eaten at all, so she was licking her rice bowl hungry. Tianshi cried, he immediately took out the corn bun from his bag and let Jiuxiang eat it, but how could Jiuxiang be willing to eat the child's things? She said, "How can you read a day's worth of books and not eat something dry?" ”
Tianshi said, "If you don't eat, I won't go to school!" Jiu Xiang was in tears and choked up and ate the corn bun.
05, Jiuxiang gritted her teeth for the children to read
During the New Year, Jiuxiang accompanied her daughter Tianxue in the town to watch people kill pigs, just when Lao Guan came to find Jiuxiang. Jiuxiang let Tianxue stand there and watch, and followed Lao Guan to the next shop, and Lao Guan wanted to pull a few feet of cloth for Jiu Xiang and let Jiu Xiang make a new dress.
Jiuxiang bought a good cloth and went back to find Tianxue, who knew that Tianxue was hit by a pig. After being sent to the hospital, she had to undergo surgery, and Jiuxiang donated blood to her. After the operation, a lot of money was spent, and the conditions at home were even more difficult.
Jiuxiang had no choice but to give his youngest son Tianxing to a couple who opened a restaurant, and they gave Jiuxiang grain and some money. Afterwards, the other children knew about it, and they all cried and begged Jiuxiang to go and get Tianxing back. Jiu Xiang also regretted it, so he went to ask the couple to return tianxing to her, and the couple agreed.
After Tianbao and Tianshi went to high school, the tuition fee pressed against Jiuxiang like a mountain, which made her very worried. The leader of the town said that Jiuxiang could apply for free for the children, but Jiuxiang knew that the children wanted face and did not want to be shorter than others, so she did not apply.
After Lao Guan learned of this, in the name of Jiuxiang, he quietly went to the school to pay the tuition.
06, Jiu Xiang went to visit the children after he became seriously ill, and finally the leaves fell back to their roots
In the blink of an eye, the children have grown up, they have all been admitted to college, and after graduating from college, they have their own families. Jiu xiang aged prematurely because of years of hard work, gray hair in her fifties, and suffered from night blindness, but she did not tell the children.
Later, Jiu xiang fell ill with cancer again, and she felt that her days were running out, so she took a train to the city to visit the children. She went to Tianbao's house first, and Tianbao cried and confessed to his mother, saying that he should not have opposed his mother and Uncle Guan because he was too selfish, and he begged his mother to forgive him.
For Jiu Xiang, even if she could forgive or not forgive, she didn't bother with the child at all. Tianbao wanted to call his younger siblings in other cities and ask them to come and see their mother, but Jiuxiang didn't want to bother the children, so she went to the children's homes one by one.
After Jiuxiang arrived at Tianxue's house, because Laoguan was also in the city, she quietly went to find Laoguan and wanted to see Laoguan again before she had a life. But after she arrived at Lao Guan's house, she learned that Lao Guan had died 5 years ago, and Jiu Xiang was very surprised and deeply shocked inside.
After returning to Tianxue's house, Jiuxiang fell ill. After being admitted to the hospital, 5 children came from all over the world, and they learned that Jiuxiang had cancer. The children asked Jiuxiang to stay in the city, and they took turns taking care of her, but Jiuxiang insisted on going back to her hometown. The children had no choice but to make her a sleigh and pull her back to her hometown.
epilogue:
Under the conditions of poverty and backwardness, a widowed mother, with her own hands, raised 5 children. She gritted her teeth to provide them with education, and raised them all to become college students, and Jiuxiang dedicated her life to the children.
The greatness of maternal love lies not only in selfless dedication, but also in self-sacrifice. Because the eldest son opposed his mother's remarriage, Jiuxiang painfully rejected Lao Guan's love, which meant that Jiuxiang rejected the good life and took on the heavy burden of life alone.
If Jiuxiang and Lao Guan are together, they are not only sentient and eventually dependents, but also mutual help, the second half of Jiuxiang's life will not have to be so bitter. But Jiuxiang sacrificed her happiness for the sake of her children without complaint, which is a mother.
"Tateshina" Yun: The father gave birth to me, and the mother bowed to me. Caress me, nurture me, take care of me, go in and out of me. The virtue of wanting to repay. Hao Tian yi ji!
It means: Daddy you gave birth to me, Mommy you fed me. You protect me and love me, raise me to grow up and nurture me, think that I don't want to leave me, and go out and embrace me at home. Want to repay the father and mother ende, God sent disasters are difficult to predict!
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