#头条创作挑战赛#
Author: Wan Er Yixiao (rich book author)
Dale Carnegie, a master of interpersonal relations, said: "Really good people often have a merit when doing things, they rarely make mistakes, and this merit is a "steady" word." ”
Stability is the best ability other than talent.
Life is like a chess game, with ups and downs.
Only by holding steady in everything, with a sober mind, and facing the disturbances of life can you win the final victory.
Hold on to the choice of "staying true to yourself".
Napoleon said: "A soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier." ”
To live, people must always face choices.
What kind of choice you have, what kind of life you live.
People who choose to be true to themselves are those who choose the life they want, no matter how difficult it is, they will endure and hold steady, enjoy the splendor of life in the long river of years, and move towards the highlight moment of life.
In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there is a story of "The Three Kingdoms Return to Sima Yi".
The Three Kingdoms of Wei, Shu and Wu have been competing for decades, fighting to the death, but I didn't expect the world to end up in the humble Sima family.
Sima Yi relied on longevity to survive his opponent, and relied on forbearance to turn over, he has superb acting skills, loyal to Cao Cao on the surface, but in fact secretly crossing Chen Cang.
In Cao Cao's camp, Sima Yi only appeared after the "Battle of Red Cliffs", Cao Cao loved his talent and appointed him to be the magistrate, but he chose to be Cao Cao's most beloved youngest son Cao Chong's attendant.
At that time, he had already set his ambition to unify the world.
After that, he honed his mature views in the political arena, his military command was determined, and he was at ease in the struggle for power.
These are all interpreting Sima Yi's calm and calm aura and wisdom that is not in a hurry.
In the section of the empty city plan, Sima Yi was well aware of Zhuge Liang's intentions, and he put a showpiece at the city gate. Zhuge Liang could have been captured alive, but he did not move his troops and planned accordingly.
followed Zhuge Liang's role, on the surface to fulfill Zhuge Liang, behind the scenes in order to achieve his own goals.
Because at that time, Sima Yi had become the object of suspicion of the little emperor of Cao Wei, only Zhuge Liang was alive, Sima Yi was Sima Yi, and his ambition and the day his dream came true.
Stabilize the goal of "staying true to yourself", and you will always be open-minded and shrewd in everything.
There is a saying: A life without a goal is a puzzle, and a life with a goal is the blueprint.
A person who has a goal will make progress no matter how slow he walks, and a person who is hesitant will make progress no matter how fast he paces.
Loyal to one's own heart, the firm pace and the confusion of not being able to discern the direction of the walk, the scenery encountered on the road will be very different, and the value of life will be completely different.
Starting today, it is not the alarm clock that wakes you up every day, but your own dreams. When you see your progress, you can live each day with a swaying shape.
In time, you will be able to witness your new self.
Stabilize the node of "climbing over the hurdle".
As the old saying goes: "Don't be in a hurry to kill, win steadily; if you are not careful, you will lose the whole game." ”
Take every step of life, step by step, and you will win a lifetime.
However, life is not all smooth sailing, and the accidents and difficulties in life will not be patronized because you are not welcome.
Therefore, the ditch and the bump are the key nodes of life, and only the stability of the past can usher in the willows and flowers.
"So far, I think of Xiang Yu and refuse to cross Jiangdong" This is a poem by Li Qingzhao who regrets Xiang Yu.
Xiang Yu, the overlord of Western Chu, is the most prestigious and tragic hero in history.
Xiang Yu was born in troubled times, from a small general, with one battle after another, he won a large area of land, a city camp, and established an immortal reputation.
It can be said that Xiang Yu's courage and wisdom are unrivaled.
However, in the end, it was clear that he could cross the river to recuperate and seek the world again, but Xiang Yu chose to kill himself in Wujiang.
In fact, victory and defeat are a common thing in soldiers.
It is not so much that Xiang Yu was trapped by Liu Bang, but that he was limited by his own heart, he couldn't pass the heart of "seeing Jiangdong's father without face", and once thought that the road was a dead end at the end.
In fact, the soldiers will block, and the water will cover the earth.
Compared with "the right time and place", a person's success lies more in "people." ”
And reconciliation with oneself is the highest level of "harmony", because oneself is one's worst enemy.
Life is phased, and you may face countless times when there is no road, but what is this?
Believe that when you encounter wind and rain, it is the prelude to the appearance of the rainbow, and when you encounter cracks, it is where the sun shines in.
The track of life is always tortuous, uneven, whoever can control the node of climbing over the hurdles will be able to climb the mountains and reach the other side of life.
Steady the attitude of "upward growth".
Originally, I thought that life would always be between gains and losses, and fate would not develop according to the expected and established track.
If now, let yourself be more and more energetic day by day, full of confidence, full of vitality, and motivated to do things.
You will find that the career opportunities you have always dreamed of, the people who have been entangled in whether you love you or not, and the network resources that you have been longing for are all coming to you all at once.
Chen Juli, vice president of Fuyao Group, became Cao Dewang's right-hand man, and he also had an unknown experience of "working as a coolie" for a long time.
In 1990, he graduated from Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics and came to the then inconspicuous Fuyao Company to find a job.
If someone else had already left in a huff, Chen Juli said calmly, "Okay!" Then I went to the workshop.
For the emaciated Chen Juli, it was a chore, pulling discarded glass from the workshop to the glass pile and dumping it every day, and he was ridiculed by the workers and even carried the black pot.
Even so, Chen Juli did not complain at all, did not deny himself, but worked happily and enthusiastically, and discussed business knowledge with skilled workers whenever he had free time.
A person's attitude directly determines his behavior, whether he treats his work with dedication or perfunctory, whether he is content with the status quo or aggressive.
Attitude is the ability to differentiate yourself from others and make yourself important.
Sure enough, 7 years later, Chen Curry was reborn, and his physique and will were tempered.
Cao Dewang found him and asked him three questions: "As a famous college student, aren't you wronged by doing dirty work? Why didn't you leave after suffering so much anger here? Then you have been wronged, why don't you plead your defense?"
Chen Curie said: "I am not aggrieved, I believe that the company has left me a desk; life needs to endure some hardships, laying a good foundation is the only way; and strive to do these small things well, in order to truly understand the company, have affinity with the company, and do a good job in the future." ”
This remark made Cao Dewang look at him with admiration.
Some people say that life is like a multi-solution multi-dimensional equation, which often makes us unable to solve it, and the almighty key to open the big lock of life is your attitude.
Behind every glamorous "successful person", there must be unknown hardships and sacrifices. However, the most effective way to fight hard work and not be afraid of sacrifice is to have love in your heart and light in your eyes.
Mindset determines life.
A positive attitude, being able to cope with all complexities and problems, and holding the power of upward growth, are destined to have a life of no regrets.
Zhihu once had a question: what kind of people will lose? What kind of people will win?
There is one answer that makes people feel empowered:
"The loser has an excuse, the winner has a plan;
The loser sees the question, and the winner sees the answer;
There is hope for the loser, but there are many difficulties, and there is difficulty for the winner, but there is a lot of hope. ”
The greatest success in life does not depend on whether you have a decent job, nor whether you have become the best existence in the eyes of others, let alone how high your position and how much income you have.
It's about whether you did what you wanted, got what you wanted, and went all the way, steadily and happily along the way.
In this way, you are not afraid of the wind and waves, live up to the long time, and have your own sea of stars one day in the future, and embrace the beauty of your own good days.
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