42-year-old Selina is preparing for a second child: "I will fight until I stop menstruation"

Pregnancy

2024-04-29 17:29Posted in Hunan Parenting Creators

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More than a year after giving birth to one child, Selina began to prepare for a second child.

Just like when she was pregnant with a child, she generously shared her plan.

She likes children very much, and she is looking forward to having a second child, and she is also seriously preparing for a second child.

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It's just that the second child is the same as the first, and she still tends to be able to conceive in a natural way.

For the second child, her idea is: look at fate, go with the flow, and it is best to have it naturally, otherwise she is worried that the process will be physically and mentally exhausted.

In short, for the second child, Selina is casual, will work hard but will not force.

When asked by the media, how long will it be "natural"?

Selina回答说：“到停经吧！”

It can be seen that she is very much looking forward to her second child.

Although it is not an easy task to naturally prepare for a second child at the age of 42, I still hope that Selina can get her wish as soon as possible.

Many netizens watched her interview and sent their blessings:

"Miss S's life is healed by children, she wants to give birth, and guards women's freedom to have children. ”

"You are in charge of your own life, and she said that she can conceive naturally according to fate, and it is good to be healthy if your body allows. ”

"If your body allows, of course you can give birth, I like children, I don't know how happy I am if I have money and love. ”

"She is very caring, she will educate her children well, just pay attention to her body. ”

"I remember that she has always been very fond of children, especially caring little girls. ”

Pregnant mothers hope that every mother who is preparing for pregnancy can get her wish, and also hope to hear the good news of Selina as soon as possible.

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Trying to conceive at an advanced age

It's not like you can get pregnant if you want to!

Many elderly women have a very, very difficult road to pregnancy.

The pregnancy history of 41-year-old Taiwanese actress Zhao Xiaoqiao has made many people teary-eyed.

She started trying to conceive at the age of 37 and gave birth to a baby at the age of 41, she went through a lot.

Talking about this difficult experience, she said: I am very grateful to have a daughter, but the loss of the past is also the most painful in this life.

Fortunately, now she has a lovely daughter, and the family is very happy.

Although it was a little difficult, Zhao Xiaoqiao looked forward to the baby as he wished.

There are also some elderly mothers who have been working hard but have not succeeded.

Yuan Yuyi, who is in her 40s, also tried every possible way to conceive a second child, but she tried all the methods she could, but she didn't get her wish, which also became a big regret in her life.

50-year-old Zhong Liti, in order to have a child with her current husband, did a test tube, went to the temple to ask for a child, tried all methods, and did not look forward to a baby.

She also shouted to the top of the mountain: Baby, Mom and Dad are ready, can you come to us quickly, you have three sisters who love you so much, and Mom and Dad love you so much, you should come to us quickly.

It is indeed not so easy for elderly women to prepare for pregnancy!

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It is indeed more difficult for an elderly woman to get pregnant!

In order to give birth to a baby smoothly, elderly mothers must overcome two major difficulties:

First: Difficulty conceiving

A woman's eggs are limited, and when they reach the age of 30, the number and quality of eggs decrease, and the eggs of women over 35 years old are not as easily fertilized as the eggs of young women.

But even so, with a healthy body and a healthy way to prepare for pregnancy, elderly mothers can also conceive a baby.

The data shows that women around the age of 20 have a 25-30% chance of getting pregnant each month, and in general, a woman's fertility will start to decline in her early 30s, and more at the age of 35, and by the age of 40, the chance of getting pregnant in a menstrual cycle is still about 5%.

Second: pregnancy risk

The number one risk is Down syndrome, as the mother gets older, the egg cells will age, the body will accumulate more X-rays, drugs, infections and other harmful factors, and the probability of the baby suffering from Down syndrome will be higher.

According to statistics:

●The probability of a 25-year-old mother giving birth to a child with Down syndrome is 1 in 1250.

●3/1000 for 30-year-old mothers and 1/300 for 35-year-old mothers.

● And the 45-year-old mother reached 1/35.

Although Down syndrome cannot be prevented, the body will naturally eliminate 60% of affected babies and miscarry them in the first trimester. The remaining probabilities can be accurately identified by a variety of screening and diagnostic tests.

The second risk is that women over the age of 40 are more likely to develop high blood pressure, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease during pregnancy, but these diseases are usually manageable.

The third risk is that older mothers are more likely to have spontaneous abortion, eclampsia, premature birth, etc., but the overall probability is relatively small.

It is indeed not so easy for older women to get pregnant, not only the chance of pregnancy will be reduced, but the risk of pregnancy will also increase.

But by actively preparing for pregnancy and getting pregnant healthily, elderly mothers can also give birth to babies smoothly!

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Pregnancy in advanced women

Doing these things well can increase your chances of getting pregnant!

With the opening of the three-child policy and the change in women's mentality, the number of pregnant women over the age of 35 has doubled.

If you have to step into the ranks of elderly mothers because of many reasons such as getting married late or developing your career, don't worry too much.

With adequate preparation, elderly mothers can also get pregnant smoothly.

First: Maintain a good life and delay the aging of eggs

Eggs are the "seeds" of giving birth to babies, and a healthy life and diet can maintain the health and vitality of eggs, which can be done from the following aspects:

●Adhere to a regular life, do not smoke, do not stay up late, and do not drink too much.

●Maintain regular exercise, with at least 30 minutes of exercise recommended five times a week ≥.

●Eat a healthy diet that avoids being underweight and being overweight.

Second: do a good job of routine and gynecological examinations

When preparing for pregnancy, go for pre-pregnancy check-ups in advance, such as blood and urine routine, liver and kidney function, hepatitis B series, infectious diseases and other examinations.

In addition, it is important to inform the doctor of the health history, including pregnancy history, surgery, illness, disorders, medications, addictions, diet, nutrition, physical health, and if there are problems, you need to prepare for pregnancy under the guidance of the doctor.

Third: Don't stay up late when trying to get pregnant

Staying up late will seriously affect the quality of sperm and eggs, so during the preparation for pregnancy, expectant fathers and mothers need to develop a regular lifestyle of not staying up late and ensure at least 8 hours of sleep every night.

Fourth: adjust your mood and lifestyle

Elderly mothers are often overstressed and accompanied by anxiety when preparing for pregnancy, as the old saying goes, the more pressure the more they can't conceive, so they should do a good job of self-psychological counseling to relieve psychological pressure.

Fifth: If you can't get pregnant for half a year, you have to see a doctor

If you are over 35 years old, if you have not been pregnant for half a year or more, you should see a doctor to rule out any problems in your body.

If natural pregnancy is not the right principle, artificial IVF can be considered on the advice of a doctor.

Whether it's an effort to conceive naturally under the guidance of a doctor, or medical intervention, following a healthy lifestyle while cooperating with your doctor can increase your chances of getting pregnant.

I hope that all mothers who are trying to get pregnant can welcome the little angel as they wish!

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